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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I've just found out he has a baby son! He never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a guy casually for nearly a year and a half now. I am developing strong feelings for him but now I have just found out that prior to meeting me he got a girl pregnant and had a baby son. I found out from one of his friends not him ...

I agree to trying for a baby, then I panic and I just don't think I can handle it! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope this question is going to make sense, my heads a mess and I'm struggling to make sense of it all to put to you. But basically what it is, is that me and my partner discussed having a baby about 3-4 months ago, now we are in a ver...

How do I tell my partner nicely that I don't like what he does without even asking me if its alright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - This is a difficult situation so please bear with me and read it all. My partner and I have been together 4 years, we have gone through alot together, his mum passed away and we took on her home/debts/ money etc. We have only just started to g...

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share th...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

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30 March 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really goo...

Desperate to get help for my son who hates me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - HI Cupid friends and aunts/uncles I don't know what else to do I am so afraid for my son because of his behaviour towards me and his life in general. I have seeked help with councilors, social services, the police just about everyone, and it...

How do I change my ways and become more social with my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - What do I do, I feel so confused depressed, guilty, sad. I hate this. My dad always criticizes everyone so I go upstairs and go on the laptop to avoid any arguments. Iv gotten so used to this that I subconsciously do it. It's made me become very ...

The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great fathe...

Could his attitudes potentially drive a wedge between him and me, and affect me because of my own pet loving family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Hi guys, I am so desperately looking for help So there's this guy I really like. And he expressed he likes me a lot. And everything is leading up to the possibility of us dating, except today he said one thing that makes me worried about ou...

My brother's friend has a girlfriend and yet he keeps staring at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - One of my older guy friends (whom I like a lot but only as a platonic friend) whom I met through my brother last year literally won't stop staring at me every time we meet, despite the fact I don't see him around too much (I'm at uni though I ...

I'm 36, no boyfriend. I want children! I feel like I'm OLD and time is running out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - All of my friends have found significant others and have been married for a while. I was in a long term relationship that didn't work out. He left me after 7 years together for a 25 year old. I find myself single, 36, no prospects. I'm in college ...

I want children and what if my almost 39 year old girlfriend can't have them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I m a 40 years old man. I never had a chance to find someone who I wanted to share mylife with and have children with until a year ago. I had girlfriends but never anyone who I could marry. I m also an only child, as my mother had me in her lat...

I am not sure if my boyfriend is proposing or just hinting at marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I'm having this strong feeling in my gut but I might be wrong but my boyfriend of nearly five months kept hinting about marriage, adopting kids, living together, etc...I am not 100% sure but I think he's trying to find a way to propose in a funny ...

This is my 4th long term relationship. I don't want it to end but I am at my wit's end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - I am asking a question on behalf on my friend, who is 45. I am a guy in a 1 year 2 month relationship with a woman with 2 kids 15 and 18. My GF is 42 yo. We are in love and have talked about getting married and having a child although...

Life is short! Enjoy it and don't have regrets!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - My uncle was recently diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. It wasn't until this enormous wake up call that I realized how valuable life truly is. So many people, including myself, are merely existing on this Earth...just doing everything they can to ...

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

I've fallen for my cousin and don't want to get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I've fallen for my cousin. I don't know how it happened but we ended up at a family birthday getting really drunk and just hooking up. We've both come out of serious relationships and I thought it'd be a one off but it keeps happening. I know its ...

My guy won't commit, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I met a guy online and we've been dating for 3 months. I have even met his son and hung out with them both on several occassions. About a month ago he asked me if I was happy with the way things are going. I said yes and he told me the reason he ...

Help! Unwanted house guest already taking toll on relationship!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Right, well me and my partner have been living together for about 11 months in our own house. His sister has just broke up with her fella on sunday and she has come to stay here.. When i agreed to this i thought it would be for a week or two. Its ...

I feel like I have no other choice. He's unwilling to change. What can I do to salvage this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I dont know what I can do to salvage our relationship. I have been in this relationship for 6 years now. At the beginning everything was great. Then we took the next step and I moved 5 hours away to live with him and his 5yr old daughter. Things...

Boyfriend of two years wont stay at my place

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 yrs and I have two kids 4 and 13 I have been with my bf for two yrs. my xhusband and I had a two family home and when we divorced he lived in one half I lived in the other and I had the kids all day and he took them at ...

I can't keep a job because of day care problems. Can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old, I'll be 24 in July. I have two children a 4 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. I am very unhappy with my life. I'm always stressed. I live in low income, my sons biological father is dead, no social security for him and my daugh...

Mother, Baby, BF and financial Woes

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Been seeing a guy from work for past 3 months, everything's going lovely, he is 54 and I'm 22! Yeah big age gap I know, I have a one year old but he's completely fine with that my issue is my mum, I currently live with her as she looks after my baby ...

How can I convince her parents to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - so, the story goes like this. I and my girlfriend had a relationship when we together with each other. Then suddenly, she had to leave me cause a bloody transfer of dad. now the thing is that her parents are so damn conservative, that whenever I ask ...

My brotehr is 38 and still still at home and interfers in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - This isn't a relationship problem so I don't know if anyone minds me posting about siblings? But anyway, I'm so tired of having drama at home I don't want to yell or scream at anyone anymore and just want to be peaceful...so one night my boyfrie...

Any tips for dating single fathers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi. I've started dating an older single dad; I'm 25 and he's 35. He's got 3 kids and they seem to like me so far, and they're great kids. Just really want to know if anyone has any tips for dating single dads. I really do like him and do want thi...

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...

I want to give him chance but my mind keep worry about my future with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm confused now and no one can I ask for help. No one understand me. I'm sad and depressed that I'm going oto get through this problem alone. Me and my bf were in love for the past 2 years. But now things changed, and we also changed to ...

My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...

Should I just ignore my judgemental family until they learn how to deal with my choices?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I am a decent girl. 19 years old, never skipped a day of school, never had a grade bellow B-, never drank, smoked nor did drugs, rarely go out partying. Of course, I'm a teenager girl AND a college student, so sometimes (mainly in Summer) I spend ...

Had a steamy text conversation with my ex-boyfriend's brother. Should I let my guilt win? Or could I take this further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I've recently had very steamy text phone calls with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have liked each other forever. I want to act on it. But guilt makes us stop. I truly believe he could be everything I've been looking for. Should I move on? Stop dre...

I think my girlfriend's sister has feelings for me and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (?) - My girlfriend's sister is overly nice to me and I can't help but think she might have feelings for me. I'm 24, my girlfriend is 25 and her sister is 19. She does have a boyfriend herself and seems happy enough with him but whenever he's not around ...

Do I have a baby because that is what me and my fiancee want, or do I not because of what people will think and say?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship with my fiance over three years, we have had a very happy relationship and got engages almost a year ago. like all relationships, we have had our usual arguments and obstacles (other interfering people) but ...

I've gone from being madly in love with her to wishing our relationship were over. Break up or stay? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - I'm in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (4 1/2 years). I have two kids (13/12) from a previous marriage. The kids live with me. About one year ago my girlfriend moved in with us. We had some problems during these 4 1/2 years. She woul...

I want to improve our relationship in so many ways, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So I'm going to an 18th party at the weekend with the new boyfriend. Planning on getting him drunk and then because we are sleeping the night (drunk) in a bed was gonna take things to the next level. He's a virgin though. We will have been going ...

I just want a man I can get to know, go on a lot of dates and someone who is not just after sleeping with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone Im a 21 year old woman, i have a three year old little boy, i have been single for a while due to breaking up with my son's father, it was a pretty messed up relationship with him being very jelouse and controlling, also him bedding ...

How can you tell if your 16 year old daughter is having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - How do you know if your 16 old is having sex she say she not but how can you tall? ...

My husband won't allow my son to move in with us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am just one year and half in marriage. I actually told my husband that I had 2 kids for different men before we married. But now one of my kids dad has ask me to come and take my son to leave with me because his wife is maltreating my son. I told ...

It's either arranged marriage for me or cutting ties with my family. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I come from a traditional indian family as many of you know the rules here are set on stone and you can't dream of changing it! I'm a hopeless romantic and someday want to be loved and 'in love'..I never really had a real relationshi...

My fiance is a widower and has a daughter. Mother in law is interfering too much on child rearing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now,he has a child from his late wife who died in a very tragic accident years ago!so the family has suffered a lot! Now the late wife's mother doesn't really like me,she thinks I'm taking her daughter...

We break up constantly but I find it hard to walk away for good because of my young son, and bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - i have been with my partner for over four years, we have a son together who is 2 and half years old. for the last two years all we have done is split up, we have split up well over 300 times! the only reason i have stuck with this man is because of ...

My husband lies a lot and I need help before it ruins our marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 5. About 2 years ago he told a really stupid lie and it took me a while to trust him. If a friend lies to me I completely cut them off but marriage is a life time commitment so ...

Boyfriend grounded. Guardian won't let me visit him or hang out with friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hey everybody I'm really sick and tired of my so called guardian... She makes my life a living hell, I'm 17 Turing 18 in 3 months and my boyfriend is 16 turning 17... She doesn't let me do nothing, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 ...

How to deal with younger sister snooping through my intimate texts to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I am a nineteen year old girl, i live with my parent(my sister and my mom). I have always been a responsible girl, i dont even get a proper allowance, yet i do not ask for too much. I do not go out after dark and I am a diligent college student, ...

My Mom only wanted to help. Now my Dad has been diagnosed with sleep apnoea she feels she's ruined his life. What can be done to make this better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Help my dad has been diagnosed with border line sleep apnoea. My mom made him get checked out as he would stop breathing in the night. Now he has to wear a mask in bed for the rest of his life. My mom is upset and feels my dad hates her for it....

I am his Gf yet he treats me like the other woman. Should I end this relationship? Worse, he's also started being mean to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I need some sort of advice, i been driving myself crazy going over and over this issue in my head. I am single no kids never been married. I been dating this man for 3 years things were great as any relationship it has its up and downs. Some of h...

My step sister is falling for me. How can I tell her I only like her as a step sister? I have a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My parents at separated and my mom has a bf with a daughter. That daughter (my step sister) doesn't live with us,she lives with her Mom who is a lesbian. Her Mom lives with a Gf. My step sister is a month older than me . She has had becom a bise...

Why am I stalling about moving to his country? Could it be that I have some resentment about the fact he gave me three STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in limbo and need your help. I've been dating my man for almost 2 years and we have an incredible connection, love each other deeply and have developed an open and trusting relationship. However, it wasn't always that...

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance...