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Archived questions from: May, 2019 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

We had amazing dates, but now he’s left me confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

31 May 2019 (F) - Hi everyone I am a single mum to two small children aged 1 and 5. About 4 weeks ago a met a single dad with 3 children online. We spoke daily and instantly hit it off so set a date for about 5 days later. He called me the day before as wanted...

What's it like dating someone with a young child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1788 days ago

30 May 2019 (F) - I'm currently seeing (nothing official yet) a guy who has a young kid, 3 years old. I never really wanted any kids of my own but I am really starting to fall for this guy and I think he feels the same way. I'm not good with kids, not because I don't ...

A troubling situation is arising my dad is becoming a creep

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1789 days ago

28 May 2019 (F) - Firstly,my dad has never abused or molested me growing up and he was actually very protective of me and my sister. Now even as an adult my father will do anything for me and he has expressed that I'm his favorite child. I never felt weird around my ...

Am I wasting my time, should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Okay, so im 26 yr old female. No kids. Living on my own. I am disabled so i get about 700$ a month to pay all my bills rent and food. It is very hard to live on that amount per month bc the rent and utility bills alone are that each month. Anyways, ...

He wants us to go back to "friends" after being so keen to start with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months, initially he was so keen and was talking about our future, plans, and meeting friends/family, but this has completely changed recently! He knew from the start that my father had cancer, which he...

Toxic mother relationship during pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - Ever since I was a child I have been blamed for everything that as gone wrong in my mothers life. Labelled a difficult child, spoilt, etc. Blamed for the break down of her marriage, (even though domestic violence and my fathers infidelity was a ...

I can't stand my partner's family but I can't ask him to give them up. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

21 May 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for some years now. We have 3 children together. He has 4, another from a previous relationship that he never gets to see because things ended badly. So when we first got together, he vaguely referenced his family b...

My 24 year old son is physically abusive occasionally

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

21 May 2019 (F) - Hello I really appreciate this site. Thank you for making it. I’d find it very helpful. This time I have a family related question and I’d appreciate an suggestions/recommendations you can give me thank you. What’s happened is that I have a ...

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1798 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

My boyfriend is very casual about his daughters' privacy and I find it very very odd

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy who's super awesome. We're both single parents of two girls each. They stay the night frequently. My girls are 9 and 13, his are 9 and 11. Despite having lived in an all girl house for the last 5 years or so, my daughters and ...

We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked ...

Is it ok to have sex with my aunt who's now divorced from my uncle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1800 days ago

16 May 2019 (M) - My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. ...

I don't want my ex to go back with his former ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1803 days ago

15 May 2019 (F) - My ex and I split up 3 months ago. We have 2 children together that he still sees regular;y. I didnt want to split and I still love him but we argued too much and our relationship became so toxic it had to end. But now his ex-fiance, who h...

How do I deal with his mind games?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

15 May 2019 (F) - Hi guys, I've recently ended my 7 year marriage due to my husband being emotionally abusive towards me (constantly asking me where I've been, who I've been with, telling me how I should feel, gaslighting me, not letting me go to sleep until I've...

My boyfriend's live in grandfather is undermining me with my children. I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

13 May 2019 (F) - We aren't married but we have two children together. A year ago, his grandfather came to stay with us after he became widowed an needs caring for. We didn't think it was right to put him in a home and he can't really live alone. My grandfather lived ...

What do you do when you feel like you are not enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

11 May 2019 (F) - Hi what do you when you feel like your not enough for someone I’ve been with my partner for 5 years the last 2 years we’ve had sex maybe 4 times he sleeps on the sofa and is constantly checking girls out in front of me we have a 2 year old son ...

Is he backing off to give me space to deal with father's illness or backing away completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1811 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy 6 weeks ago and it was a bit of a wonderful whirlwind, he was very keen and just pretty damn perfect from the get go but things are now starting to feel different. About a month before we met my Dad was diagnosed with cancer and things a...

He says he loves me but doesn't respond to my texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1811 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy on a dating App about a month ago. We hit it off well - he seemed sweet and respectful. We met and there was a lot of sparks and chemistry. We both have complicated relationship statuses - he's divorced with a child from the marriag...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1811 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

My mother does everything and yet when her mom passes away I know she won't be treated fairly. I want to speak up but don't know how to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1812 days ago

5 May 2019 (F) - Aunties! I need some family advice please. My uncle has lived in America for the past 30 years whilst me, my sister and my mum live 20 mins away from my grandma. My mum has done a lot for my grandparents over the years. When my grandpa was dyin...

Should I agree to move in with his parents or cut him loose and send him back to his mama?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1817 days ago

2 May 2019 (F) - I have been living with my 50 yo boyfriend for about 5 years and lately he keeps mentioning how much better things would be(financially mostly) if we moved into his parents house in the basement where he used to live when I met him 7 yrs ago. The ...

Do they really have these outrageous bills in Nigeria?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

2 May 2019 (F) - I have wrote here before. I had some good advice. It was about my Nigerian husband. I mentioned his mood swings , and I’m unable to ask any questions without his temper flaring up. Ai also mentioned his spending ways and his expections that ...

He says his affair was my fault. I am emotionally exhausted!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I got married young (21) and he was 25. I knew at the time that he was a bit insecure but I guess I was young and naïve. The insecurity is getting worse and worse. A couple of years ago, I h...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1816 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...