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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Is it normal to love one child more than your other?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - This might be a very "rough" question.. But, let's say you have 2 children. Would it be normal to love one more then the other? Or, let's say you were put in a situation where only one of your children would live, and you had to choose which one ...

I need advice on getting into a relationship with a divorced dad with young children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I am in a bit of a strange situation, one that I never thought I would have to face. I have recently been introduced to a very lovely man, 32 years old (I am 28). He is very lovely, totally gorgeous and seems to be a very good catch. But, he i...

I'm 19 years old, and my parents won't let me do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello. Thanks for having a great community like this. I hope you can help me with my problem. I'm 19, I go to college and still live at home with my parents. My parents are really strict. They treat me like I'm 5 when I'm clearly an adult. They w...

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with ...

B/f can't have children, when I asked him if I changed my mind about wanting them, he said "go find someone else"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I met a guy who had a vasectomy and I didn't want kids either so we were dating for 2 years but I've asked him recently what if I change my mind and he says go find someone else. Should I go now or wait and see if my feelings change? I felt kind of ...

Should I continue to keep my cousin's secret from her family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hie! I am 22yrs and i have a cousin sister who is 24yrs who had been living wth HIV/AIDS 4 a year now but we are keeping it a secret me and her that even her own mother doesnt now. A year ago wen she told me that she was HIV positive after she went ...

Neither my parents nor the father of my baby know that I'm pregnant. How do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy on some dating app ending of November this year. He seemed like a sweet guy and lived in my area, so we met up at a local Starbucks. We seemed to click and clearly were interested in each other so we continue...

Can anyone think of a way we can talk my Indian girlfriend's parents into letting us date?

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30 December 2011 (M) - Ok so I am 15 and I have a girlfriend who is also 15. We've been going out for 7 months and I really want her parents to let her date but they say she can't. She is Indian and her parents don't believe in dating. I am american and my parents let me ...

My BF's teenage child is coming to live with us - But I don't think I'm ready for that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am 28 yrs old and have been dating a guy who is 43 for nearly 4 yrs now. He was married before and has one kid who is 16 now, he is divorced about 13yrs. My problem is the ex took his kid out of state over a yr ago and just a couple of weeks ago ...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

Should I just take those months off and leave those crazy people in my family behind or should I listen to their opinion and give up on my fiancé?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey there! My mom passed away last spring and it's still pretty hard for me to bear. Plus, my fiancé had to move abroad (2hr plane ride) for work and although we get to see each other every other week, i miss him incredibly. I also miss my mom like...

Troubled relationship with mom...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 December 2011 (?) - My mother is constantly having a go at me and I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I can not cope any more. I am on the brink of breaking, I have my A levels coming up which are a constant battle to keep up with, i'm trying to fit in and ...

Alcohol has ruined my parents and I am so helpless

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - This Christmas was not any different to any other. In fact it was not much different to any other day except they did buy me presents and there are a lot more people. Christmas Eve i prepare all of the vegetables, stuff the turkey and put it in the ...

Should I tell My Mother that my Uncle withheld money he owes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - Last year i did not do so well saving for Christmas. Everybody got something from me but it was not much. I decided to make the effort to save for this year and my Uncle offer to help. I gave him £2 every week for the whole year but when i asked for ...

How do I get my family to show my boyfriend the same respect that the other men in the family get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When my boyfriend tried to help with some clearing up my mom was icredibly rude to him instead of just saying no thanks. My sister is also sort of rude and sarcastic when she speaks to him, and the attitude seems to have rubbed off on her husband ...

I want to leave but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - How do i get my boyfriend (soon to be ex) to stop eating his boogers, every time i see him hes diggin in his nose and putting it in his nose.. i am so grossed out.. i dont even kiss him anymore, and he gets really really made and throws temper ...

I'm feeling uncomfortable and doubtful after meeting my bf's daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Sorry this post is a little long, but I need help! :( I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating on and off for about a year and six months now. After the first six months of dating, he broke-down and admitted to me that he ha...

Why do perfectly decent guys have one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Two questions: 1) why do I feel like my brother is betraying me by dating the girl my ex cheated on me with? 2) why do perfectly decent guys choose to have one night stands? I turned 18 on boxing day but a month before I found out my bf cheated on...

I want my son to call me 'Daddy' and not his step-dad.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - I have been in and out of my sons life now for two years now, not by my choice but by the choice of his mother. She recently let me start seeing him again which I am truely grateful for. But she has a live in boyfriend who my son calls daddy, which ...

.He loves me, but now wants kids that I cannot give.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I am 46, seperated for 1.5 years, I have been dating someone of 45 years of age for 6 months, he's never been married. I have 2 children, he knows that I cannot have anymore. We are serious about our feelings of caring for each other, wanting to ...

I used to date my sister in law...and I think we still want each other

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - hi i'm a married man with kids and don't see all my family until we all have a family get together at he weekends at my parents house, which is where i bump into my sister inlaw who was my ex girlfriend briefly at college but now shes married to my ...

I've fallen in love with my sister's life-long mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - hi i am a hindu girl (17) and i am in a relationship with my sister's best and life long mate hes 20 and white we have fallen in love but the trouble is my sister (also 20) hates the idea of mixed race relationships. we have been going out for a ye...

Do men that aren't with their children think of them at christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - hi there i have a 9th month old daughter her father left us for anothr woman before the baby was born and the last time he saw his child was when she was three months old haven't heard from him since my question is do men think about there children ...

My sister is treating me badly. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Hi folks! need really big help her so please do comment. in the last while me and my sister have not got along because she takes everything form me without asking and never any thanks. i do jobs and favours for her without anything in return. I ...

Is it ok to marry this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Me n brother have different fathers. And his father is married to my boyfriend mom. Is it ok to keep dating possibly marrying my boyfriend...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

I don't know how to tell my cousin that I still have feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - When i was a kid. My cousin and i would do things like kiss each other and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. This stopped 7 or 8 years ago and we havent spoke of it since. I still have feelings for her, and i still dont know how to tell ...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

His Mom tells lies about me. We have a baby girl. Should I wait until he wants to come back to me? Or contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, his mom and sister. He was drunk and was arguing with my mom and me....he was saying all kinds of things to us and well my mom was screaming things back so it turned out to be a huge fight! We ended up ...

How do I explain my love for my new Bf to my family? I am afraid they will not accept him due to his military background

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone, Things in my life were difficult for a few years. Over the last year, life took a turn for the better and I'm so much happier now. I have got a better job, moved into a home of my own with my kids and built up a circle of friend...

My dog died and now I feel incredibly depressed and guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hey guys, This isn't about a romantic relationship but my heart is shattered in pieces all over the floor. I am grieving for my baby angel, a beautiful German Shepherd. She was 15 years old and she gave me unconditional love for half of m...

I love him, but I keep denying it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (?) - I'm very young, still. But when I think about my future, I think of it being with one person only. In highschool, I was a diver, school president, had lots of dates, took AP classes. I didn't find a boy I ever really liked. Except one. We became ...

I'm needy...She's independent.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm in a well very unique relationship. I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 30 with 2 kids and has been married twice. We've been dating for almost 4 months now, then we moved in together after a month for monitary purposes which is working. I'm in the ...

Should I tell my mother that I have a boyfriend? I'm not sure she can handle the truth without flipping out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I am bi sexual and I have a boyfriend. My parents dont know. I don't know if I should tell my parents, because my mother flipped out when my sister told hert she was bi-sexual i dont know what to do....

I want to have the courage to say to him that I want to be able to introduce him as my boyfriend and not my cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Me and my cousin have always been close but just recently we were celebrating a family birthday, so we were both a bit drunk and when we were finally alone he kissed me and I didn't pull away. That night we ended up making love and it was the b...

I don't think my family likes hanging with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - My family hate hanging out with me. Ever since i moved away to college and come home at the weekends I feel like a completely different person. We watch the same movies and they dont get all the jokes and stuff that i get. Though there is a lot of ...

Baby due 9 Jan. Which guy possibly fathered my child? Mr early April / MidApril or Mr27 April?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I need serious opinions!! Now i know this is a "medical" deal, but to be quite blunt, talking to my doctor is like talking to a robot. I am pregnant, due january 9th, but, i had sex with someone around the beginning/middle of april, then someone ...

Help to teach my son what's appropriate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Merry christmas to everyone! My question is not about love or romance, but mores about parenting. I would like the older aunts who are raising or have raised sons to answer. I have a preteen 11 yr old who I can tell is getting curious about se...

Find a Motivation and succeed against the biggest health issues. My Story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - At the begining of the year i was in pieces, i cannot even describe how i felt this time last year and i am sure only people who have ever been through something similar to what i have been through can imagine how bad it felt. It was Decemebe...

How do I get through possibly the worst Christmas ever? Just broke up and he will not return my calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start..i just spent the last two months with the most wonderful boy. We broke up on thursday. When i first met him he had a girlfriend but split with her. They have a child together. I knew he was very down the last week and ...

Ladies: did you gain weight using the contraceptive pill? what contraception method results in no weight gain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hiya :) i've got a question about contraception and I was hoping you could help me out! Basically i'm 19, and since starting uni I went on the pill. I was on it once before, but stopped taking it after I broke up with my long term boyfriend, for ...

What to do? I’m so confused, what is happening between my closest friend and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

24 December 2011 (?) - I met her almost 3 years ago online, and we became best and closest friends. She is with her boyfriend of 5 years. For the first 2 years we were just friends but she would always complain to me about her boyfriend and asked to if it was ok to move ...

I lied to my Bf, who I love, about WHO I was meeting. How do I resolve my guilt at not telling my Bf it was my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him vey much and couldn't ask for anyone better. However, I deceived him the other day, and I really don't know what to do about it. I told my boyfriend I was going to meet up...

Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...

I am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as I am hers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4499 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - i am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as i am hers, i find her adorable straight speaking. a excellent mother of two.very sexy,to me anyway.we live in separate homes she with her kids, me on my own. we sta...

I flipped out on my boyfriend...He's separated, has 3 kids, and not enough time for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - so ive been involved with my boyfriend for 9 months (hes 40 and i am 29)....i care about him so much but sometimes things are so hard.. he is separated and has three young children who always come first as i know they should. a big part of the stru...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

My Mum doesn't want to see me Christmas day.Does anyone else thinks she is being cruel?. Should I phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I'm really hurt. I was supposed to be going to my mum's house tomorrow and stay until Christmas Day. I rang her tonight and she told me that she doesn't want to be bothered seeing me at all for Christmas now as she is tired and she just wants to ...

My family aren't supporting me during my pregnancy -- should I take up the offer from my b/f's family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - i am 14 almost 15 and i'm 26 weeks pregnant with twins..i am super happy and so is my boyfriend and his family..my family on the other hand..i'm thinkin..not so much..i can see why they are upset/disappointed but right now all i need is support..i ...