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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

I'm pregnant, and it's not a good time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - I just found out I am three weeks pregnant - it's not the best time for it in that Myself and my boyfriend have just moved into his parents house for the year so that he can afford to start his own business. (I have a permanent job.) And right now, ...

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be befor...

We'd like to announce my pregnancy as a couple, but that means we will have to wait another six weeks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - ive just recently found out im pregnant and cannot wait to tell everybody!! somehoe - unbeknown to me I am already 15 weeks gone....but also its past the 12 week safe mark which means me and my hubby can tell people. what is bothering me is.....

My mum is depressed and having trouble at work, and I'm not sure how to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, Just need some advice on how to help my mum. She suffered with depression, had medication and seemed to get out of it. Just recently she seemed to have slipped back into the depression. She's having trouble at work as they'...

Is it worth keeping in touch with this seemingly disinterested relative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

28 March 2014 (M) - I have a relative who never sends me e-mail but does usually reply when I send her one. She is about my age and our relationship is okay. I am a little offended that she never sends me any, and was just thinking maybe I'll stop sending her all ...

How can I turn my life around? What can I do about all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hey everyone well I'm sorry that this is going to be a long complicated sob story but I'm in desperate need of advice and I know you all give great advice. I'm 21 years old. I'll start off by saying I was abused a lot by a lot of my family growin...

I love my teen sister, but do not like her behaviour.She disrespects our parents and causes mayhem. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. My younger sister is 13 and she is currently causing a lot of problems for my parents. I am in my 20's so there is a big age gap, but whenever I go home she almost always plays up. She swears at parents,...

I'm questioning my break-up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, Thank you for taking time out to read this, especially since it is so long. I was in a relationship for 14 months. He and I got along very well. I have never enjoyed someone's company as much as I did with him. I found him engagi...

My wife disgusts me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - Hello all! I am almost 41 years old and I have been with my wife since 2001. There are still some things that thrill me about her, but often I wonder what I ever saw in her. She is lazy, drinks too much liquor, has let her good looks go, and a...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

I feel lonely and alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Basically I feel very lonely and alone in life. I unfortunately lost my mother a few years ago and it's just me and my father. I'm grateful for my father but he is literally the only person in my life. A lot of my family live in different states and ...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

How do I put my family problems behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hmm... I don't even know where to start. My life has been all over the place since I've returned to school. I was living with my mother when I came back, for about 2 1/2 months until we got into an disagreement, which turned into an argument which ...

I'm thinking of giving the baby up for adoption but getting no support

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm having a kid soon, and I was wondering what the cons of adoption are. When I first discovered I was pregnant, I nearly had an abortion, but was convinced not to follow through by my mother and friends. Now that I mention adoption...

The bio father has never shown any interest in her but she's been messaging him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - My daughter has recently been messaging her biological father through Facebook. I'm really not sure how to handle this or feel about it. He has never shown any interest in her and has never actively tried to see her. I know that now she is 14, I...

Feels like no one is genuinely excited about our engagement. There are challenges. What can I do to cope with it all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - It feels like no one is genuinely excited about my recent engagement. I've been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months and he recently proposed. We are in a long distance relationship, and there are a lot of challenges to us being together-t...

Is it wrong to look at other women and come to the conclusion that some are better than my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - Is it wrong to look at other women if you find yourself thinking they are better than your wife in some way? For example you see a woman who has long shapely legs, and you catch yourself thinking for a second she has nicer legs than your wife. I ...

What are the embarrassing/funniest, best, or worst moments with your siblings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

25 March 2014 (?) - so i've got a typical annoying brother )16), and two sisters. One is the eldest )17) and the other 1 and a half) is the youngest. i am the second youngest in the family. obviously, i've grown up with my siblings, and i've gotten through so many bad ...

When do I know when he wants to become official? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I need some help haha. I have been seeing a guy for some time now, we constantly text all the time, and we have also spent some time together. I asked a couple of weeks ago what was happening between us, he told me he wanted a relationship however ...

I'm clear that it's over between us, he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - My "ex" boyfriend and i have not talked in three months. i wanted the break but hes not over me. he texts me, calls me and emails me. I told him i dun wan this relationship anymore. he treated me bad. now i've moved on. i've been hurt too much to go ...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

I'm so worried I could not sleep .........

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - What is happening? I've still not heard from him:( I'm worried? I spoke to my boyfriend saturday afternoon and he said he was going to take a nap he will ring me when he wakes up. He didn't ring me in the evening, I tried to call him but I ...

I am already pregnant. So how do my husband and I handle his parents who flipped about the pregnancy because my husband is disabled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with the things going on in my life at the moment. I Will tell u the back story. My husband and I were involved in an accident a few years ago and it left my husband significantly physically disabled and I'm now ...

He was rude and dismissive until I resigned ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I'm feeling a little upset and annoyed over something so your advice is appreciated. My mother in law has been widowed for the past 6 years and has always been very independent. Unfortunately over the past year her health has deteriorated so ...

Dating an ex of a family member...right? wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Do you think it is wrong to fall in love with your cousin's EX husband? We have been friends since him and my cousin got married 6 years ago, and they've been divorced for 4 years. They have a 6 year old son together, who my cousin hasn't se...

How do I tell my family I'm pansexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

21 March 2014 (?) - Hi. Ok, so um, im a pansexual. This is something that has been known to me since I learned what it was. I have always been pansexual. I have told two out of my three friends , they are completely accepting. But I actually find it extremely annoying ...

I'm nervous about meeting my boyfriend's family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hello, I have a question! I've been dating this guy for a while, and it's come up in conversation that it's time for me to meet his parents. He's already met mine, but I'm feeling very nervous about meeting his. He has explained to me that his y...

I'm virtually going to be homeless and this man has hurt me more than I can say! I'm so lost and afraid, how do I cope?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, would love some advice as this issue has gotten to bad its tearing me apart. A few months ago I was a single mum with a one year old. Then a friend ive known for years came into the picture and long story short we moved in with him. I g...

I want the money that my Dad saved for me while I was ill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

20 March 2014 (M) - I have been on abilify for four years and have been slowly getting smaller doses. And I want to be off it cause of increased urinating, tremors muscle twitching. I was on Geodon for a while. I am really hoping to get off of it next week cause I got ...

How do I deal with my parents' concerns about a joint mortgage with my partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi guys Hope you can offer me some advice as I my head is in two minds. Basically, I have been gifted some money to get a mortgage and new home (Whoopie!). I have a lovely partner who I have been with for years. My parents want me to do ...

My relative may pass away in the near future. I want to date, but should I delay and wait until I have work through my grief after my parent passes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, It's looking likely I will have a parent pass away in the next few months after what has been a pretty tough time helping support them through their decline. I am single and would love to meet someone. I have had short term...

How do we help an adopted child give a presentation about her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Last year my brother adopted a wonderful 8 year old girl and she's fitting in very well with our family. Thing is, she's about to start my son's school and he had to do a life story project (with the help of an adult) two years ago when he was ...

I want my older sister and her kids to go back to her own home!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - Okay, so I have an older sister who is 34 years old!! and she really annoys the shit out of me. When she and her 3 kids come to visit my parents I avoid her and stay out of the way.But lately shes been coming over the weekends. Her kids are all ...

My friend is living a double life and I'm uncomfortable covering for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - Hello. This is a situation where I could really cause some pain and heartache with a good friend of mine but at the same time, I want to respect my elders and follow their rules. Trinity and I have been friends since grade school and we both ...

I had a dream about a man and now I don't really want my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Hey everyone so I think im going a little crazy. I had a dream last night and usually I dont really take dreams seriously. But this dream was different. I dreamed that my family and I went on vacation to a different country. The beginning of my dr...

We have a child together but he doesn't make much effort with her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I have a daughter with my boyfriend (he is the only boyfriend I've ever had), and he goes 3 weeks to month with out seeing us sometimes. We see him the most once a week if that and he lives 15 minutes from us, but he says he doesn't like to drive. ...

Is 26 too late to start a new life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - I've suffered from serious bouts of depression and anxiety related disorders since I was 18, and used to binge drink regularly to alleviate my woes. I'm almost 26 and I don't know how but i'm managing to overcome this mindset which has made my life ...

Since the beginning of this year all we've done is argue, I'm 18 and have a boyfriend and I want a social life aside from looking after her, she treats me like a child and it really annoys me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - My mum has COPD, emphysema and diabetes, all of which she has had now for 4-5 years. She's on oxygen 24/7 and needs a lung transplant. Since then I've had to grow up and take her role, cooking, cleaning, shopping. Over the past two years she's go...

Would a blood test tell if she were still pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - this is a kind of medical question so i only really want to know if its possible. so basically in early January my sister told me she had just miscarried at 3 and half months. however since then she has yet to get her period. she also has gained ...

My parents don't approve because he has a son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - I'm a senior in high school and recently started dating a classmate Austin. He has a 7 month old son, holds a part time job as a cashier at a local grocery mart, is a straight A student BUT my parents keep telling me that he is a bad guy and I ...

My Bf is depressed about his parent's recent divorce. His behaviour towards me has changed. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend are the same age and have been together for one year. We really do love each other a lot. However, his parents recently got divorced, and he is very depressed about it. Lately it seems that all I can do is upset him. If he says/does...

Old me vs new me. He loves how I used to look. Should I stay with him, now that he's so critical?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - I have had a boyfriend since highschool six almost seven years. We have a daughter together, and in the first 5 years of our relationship I was in shape and fit and he was chunky. Now the tables have turned and he is the one in shape and im the ...

How do I stop basing my life around him and his visits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 and half yrs on and off , we broke up last time In November last year although it was just like any other time I imagined where we would reconcile after a few weeks or months . This time though I found out just after Xmas he ...

I want my lazy husband to leave my house but he wont go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - hey I'm 39 years old married to a man who is 36 years old we been married for 10 years and have to children together I had two children's from my own things were good until my husband lost his job since tat he become different he don't wanna find a ...

How can I build a better relationship with my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

15 March 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have an older brother; let’s call him Scott, who I have a really hard tie connecting with. It’s been like this for years but now I think it’s starting to bother me a bit. We’ve lived in the same house ever since I was born but we ...

I am not allowed in his best friend's house and have to sit in the car!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone I need some advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. And we live together. But living together isn’t the problem. The problem is his mom and his best friend don’t like me at all. I’ve met the only once and ...

I feel like my dreams are dying ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I'm 29... finding myself and becoming skilled at something... discovering my talent or passion... if it was going to happen, it would have happened by now? I feel like my dreams are dying, because I don't have any special talent or quality to de...