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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...

My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders ...

I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them ...

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really apprecia...

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house ...

Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I ...

My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son. He has previously had weekday and weekend contact including stay overs but our relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that I don't want to see him anymore. This is obviou...

I cannot let this relationship go, but travelling to see him implies lying to my family that does not approve of it! Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in a mess. My family were very harsh to me about my boyfriend as they were against the relationship (I was separated from my husband) and they wanted me to go back and make the marriage work - made my life hell about it. My boyfriend has moved ...

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was...

I'm young and in love, and want it all!! Is that wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally). He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's real...

He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...

My parents DON'T understand!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in ...

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a ...

My husband had an affair and says he's fallen out of love with me! Am I doing damage to my kids staying with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My husband hasn't given me affection for over 10 years now. Our relationship is diminishing with him not wanting to deal with our problems or even discussing them. I very lonely and feel like I am loosing my mind. He won't talk about love at all ...

19, dating a 25 year old. Will it work? What will my parents say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - hi iam 19 and going on a date with a woman who i think is gorgeous but she got 4 kids different ages young; oldest is 7 and she's 25 do u think it might work out and also i am worried what my folks might say aswell. just want to know what ur ...

I think my Dad is having an affair....I found pictures! How do I find out for sure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I think my Dads having an affair, I found pictures on his work phone of a family friend topless, he often goes round to their house as he's best friends with her husband. I dont know what to do because I dont know for definate that he's having an ...

He has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...

I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it ...

How can I trace my lost Dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Please help me i want to find my dad and have very litte information on how to do so.....HELP...

Why has my wife's feelings for me changed since our daughter was born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - so my wife says that she doesnt feel the same way about me as she did. we have been married 2 years and she said she has felt this way basically since our 1 year old daughter was born. any advice...

She is my soul mate, lover, best friend, wife, and mother of my children. All she wants to do is party!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - My wife of almost 8 years left me for partying, and to "miss me" so she can fall in love again, from what she said. I know she is just out partying. This wouldn't be as big a deal, but we have 10 years together, 8 of which is marriage, and 3 chil...

Feelings for my cousin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - For some reason I'am attracted to my cousin. It all began when I went to a family party and I remember I didnt go so early. and when I got there everybody else was there and she was there too. And when i started to enter into the apartment she told ...

How do I tell my parents he's 20 years older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my partner for about eight months. We are so in love and I really cannot picture life without him. He is 20 years older than me (I am 21 and he is 41) and he is separated with five children. This however, is not the problem. ...

I don't know how to tell my parents of this age difference... how much longer should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i posted a question before asking for advice on how to tell my mum about my older bf(am 16 and he 21). that i went out with him and we get on really well and i really like him that i told her and she doesnt like the age difference at all between us ...

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months befor...

24 and still at home, is that normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a ...

Shall I go back or get on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...

I'm married and afraid in case our families find out my brief fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - help i've been unfaithful once with a freind and worried our familiy's my find out.i'm married but my husband does'nt work i have 2 jobs and we have three kids.he talks to me ugly and wants to party with his friends? been with him for a long time ...

My boyfriend is having a child with some one else, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and we broke up. After a couple of months, we started seeing each other and reconnecting. Things are so much better now for us however during the break-up period he got someone else pregnant. He says he car...

Help!-I am obsessed with my mom!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Ok,this sounds very creepy but,ever since i was 8 i have wanted to have sex with my mom Extremely Badly!! i mean u have no idea.i am only 13 but you know i have had soo many dreams about having sex with her and i just cant tell her how i feel. i mean...

Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is ...

How does an eight-year-old end a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - How can an 8 year old tell one of her friends she no longer cares for them and would like to stop the friendship ? ...

I'm scared to go out with anyone because I'm worried I wont marry them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Right well.. I'm 15 and all i think i want is to get married and have a kid. I'm incapeable of going out with anyone because of this.. Because i'm scared that if i go out with the person i like at the moment i won't marry them when i'm older. The ...

My partner has starting hitting me, where will I live with the children if I left him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 11 years and we now have three children together. Recently he has started to hit me [once causing a black eye]. He says its because when we argue. I won't back down and resort to tears which makes him angry. Beca...

How can I cope when my family have abandoned me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I've been abandoned by every member of my family, I had a really tough childhood. I've been lucky enough to find a man who will do anything for me, we 're even getting married and trying for a baby. Sometimes it's easy for me to cope with my pas...

Mommy's 'Baby Girl'...how do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - My 5 year old blew me away recently. She said her private area was tickling her. I let her know it is important that she can talk to me about things. I did express my concern that this should be private to her. I've noticed stuff that I don't want ...

If your boyfriend always goes on about your cousin, what do I do because it is starting to p**s me off proper and I have been with him for 3 years and he hasn't done it ever before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - If your boyfriend always goes on about your cousin, what do I do because it is starting to p**s me off proper and I have been with him for 3 years and he hasn't done it ever before....

Why is daughter's dad bugging me to phone him all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Maybe I'm buggin' over nothing. I've heard from my daughter's dad but that's unless I text or call him first. Then he'll ask I haven't heard from you. The phone works two ways. I don't have to call you all the time. Then he text me this mor...

How can I talk to my mum about sex and tell her that I'm having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - im 17 and iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we have been having regular sex. my mum already knows that im not a virgin, as the boy i slept with his mum told my mum, my mum was really upset and disapointed in me. now im with someone ...

Stuck between my mum and my new guy... I want to keep both.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Okay, from the top... My boyfriend and I broke up last month. Since then, I've met a guy and we've decided to start a relationship. I want to tell the world, but I don't know how to tell my Mum. I know she is going to overreact, because only ...

My boyfriends mum has just been fired how can I help them get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My BF lives with his mom and brother. Both he and his brother go to the university here in our city, and their only financial support is their mom, as their dad was abusive and abandoned them when they were kids. The thing is, his mom has work...

My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

27 March 2008 (?) - i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...

I'm falling apart! I need help with my family, my boyfriend, my independence

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We lived together at my parents house for 2 of those. My dad has a drinking problem and one night after coming home drunk, he got into it with my bf and told him he wasnt welcome in our house and if he ...

We were only sleeping together, innocently, is her mother angry at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - My new girlfriend got home from work early and her parents were both working, and it was 10pm and stormy/windy outside, so she called me kinda spooked and said "i wish you were here with me", and i told her i would come over as long as her parents ...

Fight for my feelings and stay here or move to another country and expect he waits for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much.. but my brother and my parents want me to go to canada when i turn 18..i don't want to leave him..and he don't want me to go too..but i really need to..i said that if he loves me..he'll wait for me..but he said if i rea...

I want to break up... for him not to feel my pain...and the strictness I have to obey?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - i am fifteen years old and i have a boyfriend.. i really love him so much..we have many plans together for the future..but my parents don't like him..for some reasons..and it hurts me so much..because they don't want me to be with him..i know i'm...

My aunt and uncle forbid me to see my BF, shouldn't I learn from my own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I've liked this lad for about 3 weeks and he's recently become single. He asked for my number and text me asking if I liked him more than a mate and I told him I did. He told me he liked me more than a mate, we kissed and later decided to start ...

I get on great with this guy at school but mum says I've to back off because he is older. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - i really like this older guy, he's four years older than me, and he likes me back. we talk every day on msn and sometimes hang out at school. he's super smart and i trust him with everything. we're both into the same things and when we're talking ...

I'm fifteen and want a baby with my boyfriend (16), should I wait?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 March 2008 (?) - Ok your gonna all think I'm absoultely crazy and some may tell me I need mental help but please tell me your thoughts about what I'm about to tell you ok. Ever since I was very young I've wanted a baby.I'm 15 years old now . I know I'm going t...

Should I tell my boyfriend his brother tried to kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hi I'm in a great relationship we have been together for three years and are talking about marriage.I could not ask for more. I do however have a problem my guy has a little brother two years younger than him they are extremly close and love each ...