New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2020, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

8 (3), 11 (1), 15 (1), 18 (1), 20 (1), 22 (1), 23 (2), 24 (3), 26 (1), 28 (1),

Archived questions from: December, 2020 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I am struggling with how to handle her mood swings, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1214 days ago

28 December 2020 (M) - Please can someone offer me some clarity and maybe some advice. MY wife and I have been married 10 years, we have a 7 year old boy who is pretty much perfect and no trouble at all. I have an older daughter in her early 30's lives away and she has...

How do you process the death of a parent.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1214 days ago

26 December 2020 (F) - In 2017, I lost my father to cancer. We fought a lot, he was really over protective even when I was an adult. I can’t look at his photo. A pain shoots through my chest. I tried anti depressants to see it will help it has not. I tried therapy it...

We broke up and now I'm not invited to the wedding where my daughter is to be the bridesmaid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

24 December 2020 (F) - Hi I broke up with my partner in June and moved out as he wouldn’t we are still on speaking terms and get on better now than we did we have 3 children it was my birthday last week and his family didn’t even get me a birthday card I still get on ...

My Mom Feels Trapped With Her Psychotic Husband, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1213 days ago

24 December 2020 (F) - TL/DR; My stepdad verbally abuses my mom, lives a double life (straight married man to cross-dressing gay man), and my mom is scared to kick him out because he's psychotic and has a history of making bombs in his earlier years (She's afraid he'll ...

Where do I begin to find the children I gave up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1214 days ago

24 December 2020 (F) - My alcohol history started in my teens and I remember being interested in alcohol, cigarettes, bikers, punks, gay people. drugs, sex, masturbation as soon as I heard of them. I thought God, Jesus, Mary, all the saints and apostles and angels were ...

Why does My Mum’s boyfriend blatantly lie all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - My Mum’s new boyfriend talks so much BS I can’t tell if he’s just joking around or being deadly serious about it. Anyone who is familiar with the Inbetweeners, he’s basically Jay but in his early fifties. He reckons he’s done so much in his life or ...

My nephew came out as transgender. I am not happy about it. How can I be supportive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1220 days ago

23 December 2020 (M) - My nephew turned 24 years old this year and he announced to everyone via Facebook that he is transitioning to a woman. He has started hormone therapy, growing his hair our, and dressing like a woman. His mom (my sister-in-law) claims that he is be...

My daughter is fragile and pregnant but her behavior of not remembering the past the way it actually happened bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1219 days ago

22 December 2020 (F) - I would appreciate advice, please, about an issue related to my daughter who is now 32 and in a steady job, has a long term partner (7 years) and who I generally have a good relationship with but who I am concerned about. I may be enabling ...

I'm not interested in having my husband's baby. He won't accept no as an answer

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1220 days ago

20 December 2020 (F) - Hello all happy holidays I just got engaged and now my husband to be is talking babies already.I did mention I don't have the desire of becoming pregnant again even for him.Im feeling like he is not trying to hear anything I say he wants to adopt ...

How can I help my boyfriend get past the guilt of leaving his wife for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1221 days ago

18 December 2020 (F) - My boyfriend left his wife for me. It was a 30 year marriage. His children are grown and have families of their own. He is happy with his decision but can't help feeling guilty for what he's done to his wife, kids and grandkids. He was not happy in ...

Is this a toxic relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1225 days ago

15 December 2020 (F) - I’ve been with my significant other for 13 years, and with my history of questions I’ve posted here, you can see it hasn’t been all paradise This pandemic had showed me a lot. I work In healthcare so when the pandemic happened In March and things...

How do I keep my distance from this cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

11 December 2020 (M) - When I was 13 years old (I am a male), my second cousin, who is the same age as me, pressure me into having sex with her. Over the years, until I went away for college, we would have sex once every few months. I am embarrass that I lost my virgin...

Should I forgive my abusive brother-in-law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1232 days ago

8 December 2020 (F) - My sister has been with her fiancé for 16 years. He helped my sister raise 3 of her children from another man. They then had a child together. Through the last few years, my sister has shared with me he has put his hands on her when he gets drunk. ...

Am I being a mug? I think she over-spends on gifts at Christmas!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1224 days ago

8 December 2020 (M) - Im not sure if I’m overreacting to the Xmas gifts. My gf and me don’t have much money yet she has spend her whole salary on Xmas gifts for family that do not care about her the rest of the year. I have not said anything. It’s her own money so she...

Should I choose a career path that is not acceptable by my society?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1230 days ago

8 December 2020 (F) - Hi all, I hope you can help me with a cultural question. Sorry if my English is not very good. I speak English at home but I grew up in a Southeast Asian country. In my country I am considered a banana. This means I am yellow on the outside...