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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Are my nan's tarot predictions correct???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Im 16 and had my period about a week ago, but now im worried im PREGNANT! I keep getting brown discharge in my underwear and feel quite bloated and keep farting a lot. My boobs are sore sometimes, on and off. Im on the contriceptive pi...

How can I cheer my cousin up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Ok so one of my best friends was dating my cousin who is like my brother. I was against it from the start but I they're grown and I felt it wasn't my business to get involved. They've recently broken up and now there both being weird with me. My ...

He keeps on running away from me but I know he still loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - im a 18 yrs old girl..i have problems with my bf.okay....here's the story....my bf was being trapped by his own cousin, his cousin smashed his car windows and until now i don't even know what is the exact reason. This happens in a sudden and he ...

Help! I think my dad is having an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Am suspecting my dad is having an affair with a lady, about 2 months ago he had to go to another town for a contract that was awarded to him and comes home on weekend. I've not really been around though but last week when i came back from school he ...

My wife had filed divorce because of my internet addiction, how can I get her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for almost six years. It is a second marriage for the both of us. When we first started dating the passion and love making was amazing. As we continued dating and became engaged, things stayed fantastic. As we ...

Suddenly I hate everyone and everything! I feel very empty and sad..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi, Well I used to always be loving and caring but now all of a sudden I seriously dont love anyone or anything and I used to care for my mom the most and stuff now I dont feel any love for her, my dad, or sister, Is something wrong with me? My mom ...

Do I say yes and be his girlfriend? Or listen to my dad and keep away from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - There was this boy that i like, and he likes me too. He's already told me he likes me and i told him i like him too, but when i told my dad if i can have a Bf, he went all crazy and said that i can't have one Until i'm 18, and i'm barely 15. Then ...

I feel hopeless... Is he ever going to stand up for me? Should I leave and try to find a new life without him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I feel hopeless, violated and disrespected I have been with the same man for over 7 years, also we love each other very much, of late it seems like nothing is happening. We have some problems, but three of the most prominent are the constant int...

Living through a nightmare with her family! I'm scared for her and for my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Until October last year I was living with my fiancé and our 2 little boys aged 3 and 1 but the oldest child has special needs and also he isn't my biological son but I treat him no different, love him as if he was my own and there isn't a day that ...

Her daughter is standing in the way of us taking it to the next level!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Need opinions please. I’m a 47yr old male in great 3.5yr relationship with 50yr woman. The woman lives with her 27yr old daughter and I do not. The daughter smokes pot daily (moms more of a friend than a mom) has dead end job, never has had a car ...

Ways to deal with my aggressive mother...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I'm bisexual and have been in a relationship with a guy for eight months now. I spend weekends at his, and make up excuses to my parents who are conservative and petrified/repulsed by homosexuals. To the point that any defence of homosexuality is ...

I am not going to continue rewarding abusive behavior! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am a single mother and have an 11 year old daughter who has been used to seeing me being abused by her father, my mother, my sister and my father. This abuse from her father escalated when I tried to have a relationship with a man that I was ...

My mother in law insists we have a baby when we are not ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Dear all, Im married for a year and half. We love each other a lot. My father inlaw and mother inlaw have come to visit us and they are here for a month. During this time my mother inlaw is insisting me to give birth to a baby and she give a kind of ...

My parents forced me to to leave my 40 year old married boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16 year old who had a boyfriend before who's older than me his 40, and married already.Were 1 year and 1 month already,he had a wife but they are not staying anymore because of some misunderstanding and he don't have a plan to be together with ...

Her daughter told me she is cheating on me...who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - i got a question for you all.. i have been in a long distance relationship for 12 months. 3 months ago my girl cheated on me with another ..he was an old boyfriend..she said it was the distance and booze that helped her do it.. she said that in wil...

I have no idea how the emancipation process works!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am 17 and I turn 18 In 7 months. I can't take the stress anymore. My mom is power hungry and my father will tell you that..I already financially support myself and I have since I was 15 years old. I know I can provide for myself but at 17 I have ...

Forbidden love - I'm in love with a Muslim but my parents won't accept it! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi well im a mess at the moment. im in love with a Muslim man and i am christian, we have been with each other for 2 years and still my dad does not know. we come from a very religious family and everything is about respect, my dad asked me ...

My mum-in-law-to-be's questions make me feel like I'm in a police station!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - right so my partner and i have been going out over 2 years but mum asks loads off questions and i duno what to answer as i can say pretty silly stuff, witch can make me very stupid and some questions makes me uncomfortable. i cant say to my bf as he ...

Is he trying to get me pregnant again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger ...

How do I get out of the house for a trip with my boyfriend parents don't know about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys slight prob and need some help... my boyfriend has booked a 4day trip away from home for me and him to go on togther... the issue is that my parents dont know about him and i cant tell them about him... so i need an excuse to get out of ...

How can I help my mum with her depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - my mum just told me that shes really depressed and she has just gone onto anti deppressants. i dont know what to do. help?...

My mum doesn't think that we make a good couple!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - So I was talking to my mum eariler and I asked if she thought me and my boyfriend made a good couple, just for something to say....and she looked abit shifty, and said no, not really. I was kind of shocked - we've been going out for about 10 month...

I hate his father and sister, how can I get them out of our lives

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - hey there, i really need help with Father and sister in-laws....ive dated this guy for a year and a half, he went to America for 6 months this was in 2006.. thats when everything started..his dad and his sister and i never got along we always use to ...

Did my husband REALLY mean what he said???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Ok now im confused. My husband and I had a fight last night and he pretty much told me the only reason he's staying with me is because it's cheaper to keep me than divorce and pay child support on 3 kids. Then later he tries to apologize and says ...

I think I have some anger issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - okay well i am 13. i been told i need to chill and that i have anger issues.. i dont get mad easily but sometimes the simplest things you say would make me want to punch you in the face.. i was in my room and i was feeling perfectly normal and...

I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the ...

I was molested and nobody believes me. How do I make them see?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I was molested by my step dad @ the age of 4-12 when i said something to my mom she dint beleave me i was 15 when i finally said something. I was put in a foster home right away, my mom dint want to look @ me. I was to testify but befor that he died ...

Forced to raise a brat!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have lived with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have been thru a lot and I really love and care for him. The problem is he has a 14 year old bratty son who no one has ever diciplined and now the child's mother wants to give up custody and have us ...

How can I make amends with his mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I was at a party with my boyfriend a few days ago. I was really drunk and ended up saying some really harsh things to him. He says he's ok with it now and forgives me but I haven't seen his mum since. Apparently she's taken it badly and I think she ...

Do I let my son go and see his dad and hope he does not turn him away or do I let him and hope everything turns out ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Last night me and my son were talking and out of the blue he announced that he wanted to see his dad for whom he has had no contact with for 2 years, it was his dad's decision not to see him, my son was deeply hurt by this but never showed it and i ...

How should I tackle things with my cheating hubby...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Dear Readers Hi! I'm a 31 years married lady and mother of two young kids. I'm beautiful fair and my hubby and his family and friends thought him to be very lucy to wed me I'm married for past 7 years. I can't recall a single day when i could ha...

I keep having fantasies about my cousin, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - For the past 2 years, i keep thinking about my cousin. I like him soo much!! i have fantasies from dating to sex. He's my 3rd cousin and he was adopted. And everytime i see him, i get nervous and i always want to be around him. Sometimes, i catch ...

I'm fed up with my boyfriend's childish behaviour, but I don't want to end things. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. In the past the problems we had were because I was obsessive and tended to get upset about a lot of things when I could have just let them go and been fine. My boyfriend has told me that ...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...

Does my ex still like me or is he still interested in a family member?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I was going out with a guy for about 5 months and I know he really loved me! Then we broke up because a family member of mine liked him and she was trying to get at him but he doesn't like her. Even though were not going out we still go out to place...

My sister's been very disrespectful and I resent my mother for her reaction!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I dont even know where to start.....I'am worried that i might be heading for unhapinness for ever. ok so this is the deal. I am 22 with alot on my shoulders, not because i have to but because i choose to. i have 2 jobs. so this sat i came home very ...

He won't let me around his children!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I love him and he says he loves me and wants to marry me someday, but here's the thing... he has 2 kids. Now, the kids themselves are not the problem. I am more than willing to come in and fulfill ...

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back a...

I would love to ask him out, but I'm worried about how my younger cousin will react to my taking an interest in him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My cousin has a friend. I get on very well with his friend. His friend is very good looking. My cousin's younger sister and I both have a crush on his friend. My older cousin, his friend, and me are all 14. My younger couin is 12. My cousins friend ...

Sibling sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't ...

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

He won't see his daughter when shes menstruates!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi there, I have been divorced for some years now and since my daughter started her period, her Dad has refused to see her the weekends she menstruates. I was wondering if any Father's or other Mother's have had the same experience so so...

I can't stand my sisters behaviour anymore. Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I don’t want to know my sister anymore . She has turned out to be : selfish ,cold hearted , nasty and manipulative. She gets jealous of anyone and everything . Sadly her current boyfriend changed her beyond recognition . My eldest sister (C...

My girlfriends mum tried it on with me! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I'm in a rather uncomfortable situation and I don't have a clue how to handle it at all! It concerns my girlfriend's mother. She's what I can only describe as a "sex pest". I don't know any other way of describing her behaviour. When I first started ...

What's the best way to tell my parents I want to be a footballer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - i really want to be a footballer. i believe that i should be trying to get scouted or play for a team. i have found a trial scheme where you can go and have a trial with other players at first team venues.there are scouts there from the team who ...

He's too thoughtful and considerate to his family! But it's not mutual!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i don't know where to start... I am married with kids. my husband is like a little puppet or puppy whenever things concern his family. he loves them too much he is too thoughtful and considerate when it comes to them. the thing is it is not ...

I want to have sex with my girlfriends step sister without my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - Ok, first off i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and i am in love with her. One night a while back my girlfriend, her stepsister, and i were at my apartment drinking... Now my girlfriends stepsister is VERY attractive might i ad, ...

What will happen when she finds out I'm pregnant with her brothers baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - my best friend has polycycstic ovaries which makes it difficult for her to have children she isnt happy that i am engaged to her younger brother.shes always wanted children and said if she found out i have a child with her brother she wont see us ...