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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

Problems with my step-children; am I in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) - My step kids are 37 -34 one is a female and one is a male The daughter was marred and has a child she is now divorce. And the son was marred and divorce and now re marred and expending there first child ... I have three girls 37-34-30 They all...

Thinking about the future -- would it be safe for third-cousins to have children together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we love each other very much. But recently we found out we are third cousins and we are both thinking about the future. Is it safe for us to have children together? ...

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together...

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us ...

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even...

I've been hiding it, how do I tell my mom and brother that I am gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hello , okay i am not quite sure how to ask this question , but i am living in a constant battle with myself , so i figured if i asked total strangers who lived what i am living right now it will help me ... See i had a rough year , i failed my la...

Should I worry about his relationship with his cousin?

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28 February 2011 (F) - i love someone very much.he is very lovely and talkative. but recently i got to know something which is disturbing me a lot.that is my lover is very much close to his uncle's daughter.both of them share their personal matters to each other.personal ...

Family that never apologises...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - To begin I feel like the whole world is against me. I am married my husband's mother hates me. I am very nice, and polite to her. She loves to say mean things to me and I let it roll of my shoulders. After my son was born my husband and I moved a ...

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around ...

I'm planning on running away with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm Taylor* 20, smart, high ranking job. I have a boyfriend, Adam* 20, smart, high ranking job. We are madly in love, we first met when we were 14, more mature than most our age, we had a moment, nothing physical, both slightly not sure what to ...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

Help with confidence sucking friends...ideas?

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27 February 2011 (F) - So i have been with my gf almost 4yrs nw. her old bestie ditched her once she knew she was going out with a girl even though hangs out with a group of leasbians. The bestie is straight (or supposedly). when me and my girl started going going ou...

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to ex...

I'm a good person in everyones eyes except my mothers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My relationship with my mother was never good and it is even getting worse as we both get older, despite my frequent attempts to improve our relationship from my side. I am very obedient. I always did what she wants me to do hoping this way she ...

Agressive partner or scared child??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they ...

His brother is trying to sabotoge our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much and is very much serious about him. I know that very well that his brother doesn't like our commitment. Recently I came to know the reason behind this hatred, his brother liked me before. But I accepted my boyfriend's ...

My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...

How do I control a family situation that could spiral out of control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, Thank-you very much for your past support. At present my daughter is at Boarding School. What I suspected would happen has, with my Mother and now Sister calling me up to 4 times a day. Previous to my daughter going to Boarding School m...

My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ...

Can our friendship be salvaged after all the mess thats been created??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been really good friends with a guy in my class for almost a year now. Up until recently, we told each other everything -- our deepest secrets, what we were going through at home -- everything -- and the other always listened and offered ...

He liked me until he met my sister. Is my reaction of feeling hurt and betrayed justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy and i was sure he liked me back... until he met my sister! We are complete opposite she is skinny and beautiful and i'm like the ugly duckling next to her. I had a birthday party and it was a very special to me because he was going ...

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About ...

My boyfriends is taking care of his dieing father - being long distance I feel helpless and don't know how to help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend (let's call him M) and I have been together for five years. We have had obstacles in this time (grad school, debt, moving) that we have overcome together, and have been better for it. However, we are now in the midst of an awful time, ...

I'm depressed so often, and am so scared of my loved ones dying before I do. How can I help myself to move past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl and recently I have been concearning myself about the deppressing thoughts I have been having. I keep thinking about death and how there's nothing I can do to prevent it from happening to me or my family, I'm scar...

He told my uncle he wants sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to ...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...

My family forbids me to see my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've liked a guy for 3 years. Three years of trying to grab his attention. Whenever he talks/talked to me I feel adrenaline pump through my veins in excitement. Recently We have been extremely close and about 3 days ago he o asked me out. I was so ...

How should I tell this guy I love him, without him mocking my wheelchair situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Okay, there is a boy who is 16 and is amazing. I'm 14 and for this current stage in my life, I am in a wheelchair. I’m not sure that if I should tell him that I really love him. Will he understand, or just laugh at the fact that I am in a ...

I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How can I break the news to my parents? Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I've got a bit of a problem regarding moving in with my boyfriend. It's not that I'm having doubts about doing it, but that I daren't tell my parents. I'm 21 and have been with him for just over a year and he currently lives with a friend who is ...

I need to stay strong for my family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Back again. I have bored everyone with mt tales before of my Husband who cheated lied was not good with my kids he had started to get better on some things not on others when he came out with kids and i he still lookedlike it was a chore. A week ...

My boyfriend's sister refers to me as his "mate" not girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for over 5 months (albeit in a round about way) and considering the various obstacles we've faced, it's going really well. I had previously met his sister and their mother, both of whom I get on really well with...

My 21 year old is dating a 28 year old married with 3 kids! I don't want him to ruin his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My son is 21. I learned a few months ago he is dating a woman who is 28. She has 3 children - the oldest one being 14. He says he loves her. I think she is using him. I have stated my concerns such as she's married, she is 7 years older than ...

My Mum is coming between my first love and me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Ok so i'm 15 in yr 10 goin' on to work experience etc and my friends who don't go to my school (they go to a grammar one) have a friend who's in yr 11 (just turned 16) and when i met him he was really nice and fun to talk to. Then one night (l...

I can't stand my family and friends derogatory remarks regarding my girlfriend's weight...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - I've begun seeing a girl I care deeply for. We get along great and are friends as well. The only problem is I can't stand my family and friends dirogitory remarks reguarding her weight. I'll admit in the past I really wouldn't date a bigger g...

Should I tell my parents that I kissed a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My friend and I kissed, we're both girls. I'm kind of confused about my sexuality. I mean, I like guys I know that but is it possible I like girls too? And should I tell my parents? The only problem is I dont want to complicate things when I'm so ...

I can't get my baby's father to help unless its convenient for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and I got pregnant with a guy I never had a relationship with. I went through my whole pregnancy alone, but when I was in labour, my baby's father showed up. He was really great for the first few months and my baby absolutely loves ...

My partner has cheated on me, given me STD's, beaten me, and threatened me. I fear for the life of my children and I. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - How best do I sort the storm I feel I’m stuck in? I've been involved in a very strained on-again off-again relationship for nearly nine years. We have children together and I've also endured a miscarriage (as a result of a beating) to this man. ...

My husband flirts with other women, and it makes me feel terrible. How can I get the strength to leave this miserable marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I'm thinking of leaving my husband. We've been together for nearly 7 years and dated for 5 years before that, but I feel like my life revolves around him. My husband loves women, and the more attention he gives them, the less I feel about my...

Should I continue to sleep in the same bed as my soon to be ex wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - My wife of 25 years notified me several months ago, that she doesnt love me anymore and wants a divorce. We went to marriage counseling for a few months, and she told me yesterday, the counseling hasn't worked, and she still wants to divorce me. ...

Is it more important to have time to spend with people you love than achieve your life goals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Currently i'm working very hard for my AS levels and i know that my life from now on is going to be very difficult and tiring because, wait for it, i want to be a doctor. I want to go to med school and eventually become a consultant. But even now...

My boyfriend's Mum keeps inviting his Ex round to the house!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now (seeing him for 6) and everything was great at first. Also, I got on well with his Mum. Not long after we got together, his Mum's Grandma died (my boyfriends great grandma) and I missed an import...

Girlfriend is hiding me from her parents, kids and friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Please can you help me with my problem with my girlfriend. Shes utterly amazing in most respects,and I'm so deeply in lover with her. She says shes in love with me and keeps asking me to remember that what ever happens between us, she will always ...

Is he going to pop the question soon???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - so here latley i met some of my boyfriend's family and ive been staying with him a lot. we are expecting and we are both 18 but here's what im wanting to know. Every time he tells me he loves me i say it back but then he says he loves me more so ...

Is "our bond" strong enough to last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had ...

We have a beautiful daughter and a nice house, why would he want to put that in jeopardy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My Fiance and I will be together 8 years in May, we have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in March, we have a house together that we bought 4 years ago. My Fiance recently found an old girlfriend on Facebook and he has be chatting with her for ...

We're toxic in a relationship because of the stuff going on around us. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I started seeing a man a year and a half ago. He was separated but not yet divorced. It was and still is a messy custody battle, and his ex has been diagnosed with personality disorders. This man's life is not stable at all. We have broken up a...