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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should I send my daughtersto stay with my ex's sister? Teenage daughters need a woman to look after them and I'm physically disabled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - i asked something here a couple of days ago and got some good advice so i thought i'd ask again, following something my collegues said to me... my fiancee left me for her boyfriend like 2 days ago now and she's basically told me to take the kids and ...

Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...

Please tell me what you would do if in my situation. I really need your advice!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Can someone tell me what the hell they would do in my situation? I'm 23 years old and live with my parents. I am completely independent and fully pay my way - EXCEPT that if I happen to get home from work and my parents have made some dinner...

In my relationship, I miss my family and friends who live a long way away. It's affecting our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HI I have a wierd guestion ... Don't know where to start. Me and my BF have a great relationship .. I know that he loves me and I love him. He is year younger ... has his whole family here in NY, his friends, job .. his whole entire life ......

Will it hurt my boys not to have a male influence in their lives?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Curiosity question here. I am currently separated from my husband and seriously considering divorce. Of course at this time in my life I feel like I don't ever want another man in for life for as long as I live. Every experience I've EVER had ...

My son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. How do I solve his problem of not wanting to use the toilet except for urine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - hi readers. i found out last year that my son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. its not very well known of and some people dont even know it exists. My problem is, he has just started primary school and he is confident enough to ...

For his 16th he wants to eat at every fast food place in the area.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - In three weeks time my 15-year-old son will become 16. I've asked him what he wants to do for his birthday, and he said he wants to eat out at every McDonald's, Burger King and Pizza Hut in the area. I've said to him he can go to one of those r...

Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling ...

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

Will my partner love our future baby as much as his child from a previous relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Will my partner love our future baby as much as his child from a previous relationship? Hi, me and my wonderful partner are trying for a baby getting married and moving to a bigger place and i couldn't be happier but he has a lovely 5 year old son ...

Why does my girlfriends mum limit us seeing each other to weekends only?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend's Mom is so over protective but she does give me the chance to date her but every time i speak to my girlfriend she tells me upsetting news about her mother, for example she has been cleaning the house all day and everyone just happens ...

Can I legally move out of state with my kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I am thinking about moving to a different state with my children to "start over". The problem is that my husband and I are only separated, not divorced yet. He is abusive but I have never legally filed a complaint against him. Can I legally leave ...

My mother was a good person, and I miss her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - i need help. im 16 and my mother died 2 yrz ago of cancer of the colon. she didnt smoke, drink or take drugs she didnt deserve 2 die. its soo hard and i cry nearly every day. i have no one to talk to and i feel like nobody else cares. how do i stop ...

I am shorter than average, and my sisters upset me by hiding my things in places I can't reach. How do I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I am a shorter than average person,i am 4'11 tall or not so tall.My problem is that my 2 sisters are very abusive to me and i am the older one.This has always been going on especially while growing up.My 2 sisters are 5'8 and 5'9 tall.When my ...

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...

How can I tell my mom I'm not a virgin without freaking her out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - how do u tell your mom who is a massive freaking out person that there 15year old daughter isnt a virgin?...

Is it bad for me to wish my mum was dead, just to have some relief to know that no one is in danger - including herself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My mother is an alcoholic. She and my stepfather were married almost 10 years before they got a divorce. I understand why he did it. He had to choose either his 4 children (including me) or my mother who was helpless. It was a hard decision for him ...

How can I tell my family of my relationship with an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Im in love with an older man but know my family would disagree with the relationship, how can i tell them?...

I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has ...

My bf already has a son, but I want to have a child together. He says that he doesn't want another child, though!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi there everyone... I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now. I'm 30 and he's 33 and already has a young son who is 9 but I feel like I want a baby of my own with him. He says he doesn't want another child cos he has a son already... I'...

My fiance visits sites like this and says she wants to leave me for her lover! I'm disabled, but do what I can - what else can I do to be a better partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - through it being a shared comupter and my fiancee not deleting her history as she usually does. ive found shes visited a lot of sites like this one and talked about leaving me for her lover. i dont want to lose her. im disabled- i can walk slightly ...

The Turkish guy says he'd leave all behind to be with me and marry, but my family think he'd doing it for a ticket in UK. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Somebody help me, i recently went to marmaris in july 2007 i met this turkish guy who worked at the hotel where i was staying, i noticed he was staring at me all the time because i am blonde and i know the turks love blondes but then we got chatting ...

Should I let my son's father have contact with his child? I fear he'll mess with our baby's head like he's messed with mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hey, so.. my son is nearly 2months old, hes 1month 18 days, and all of a sudden the father has tryed to get in contact.. he put me through complete hell while i was pregnant with riley (my son) we are still very young, but his actions were really ...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

I feel I have to choose between my daughters happiness or my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello... I have been with my partner for almost 4 years...we have a 2 year old daughter together. In August 2006 my partner, his friend Paul and I went out for the night clubbing in Bournemouth. The drinks were flowing and by the end of the night...

Could my son be gay or is he just going through a phase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Is my son gay or just "going through a phase"? He is nearly 17 and he says he wants a relationship with a guy but says this doesn't mean he won't ever want a relationship with a girl. He has had a girlfriend, it lasted 6 months when he was 15, it ...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

My brother-in-law is in prison for child molestation! Could he have been molested? Does this mean my husband was molested, too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been married 3 months. My husband's brother was just convicted of molesting boys ages 12-14. He started doing this when he was 20. I am really struggling w/this. I am glad he is in prison even though my husband and his family are grieving...

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in ...

I'm constantly put down by her - then she leaves w/ our baby for days at a time! This time, it's been 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Hi all, i a have been with my partner for two years and we have a 9 month old baby, for about the last 18 months our relationship has changed somewhat, where no matter what i do its not the right thing and i'm constantly put down or criticised fo...

He left me for his ex and mother of his two children the day after our miscarriage! How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, im going through hell. i have just broken up with my bfriend, he has left me to move back in with is ex. we find out i had a miscarriage on the tuesday and on the wed he moved out with his two kids, who i helped surport. They loved me...

My mother treats me unfairly, and favorises my brother. Can't see what I have been doing wrong.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I struggle with my mum's relationship with my brother. He's a year older than me. I'm very envious, which often makes me nasty towards both of them. My mum seems to think he is the most perfect person in the world, even though he dropped out of ...

My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...

How do you know when and what your "pupose" is, so you can teach it to your children and be blessed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I'm sorry if I offend anyone by bringing religion to the table, but I have a question for the belivers. It has been said many times that everyone has a purpose in this life and that you will be blessed in abundance if you follow that purpose. ...

Could my son be gay? He has an odd friendship with a (much) older man...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - My 17 year old son has befriended a 58 year old man. He visits him every week and stays all day says he has a bbq and a few drinks. He says he finds he can talk to the man easier than talking to me or his mother. He receives a lot of gifts some exp...

We've been dating for 5 years, has he avoided to tell his parents because he's ashamed of me? We're from different cultures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am a white female who has been dating an asian guy for 5 years since I was 16, we met in college and I love him very much. However he still has not told his parents about me I always ask and he says he will tell them but he still hasnt, and im ...

Since my last question, things have gotten worse! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - The situation has just got a whole lot worse!! Hi some of you may rememeber me i wrote this question about 2 days ago, heres the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-very-good-at-what-to-say.html anyway read that for more info, basically...

How can I figure out if my feelings for my cousin are love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - My cousin (18) and I (17) have always had this very strange connection. I don't know if you would call it love, but we just have this amazing relationship. Ever since we were kids, we have always been best buds. Whenever we would get into a fight ...

Now my daughter will not talk to me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I are having trouble and my wife allowed my 20 year old daughter to become aware of the problems in her version - My daughter now won't talk to me and I haven't seen her in 5 months and prior to this incident, we had a good relationship ...

My bf is pushing his child on me and my family. How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of three months is pushing his child on to me and my family. im 24yrs old if i wanted a kid i would have one. i cant talk to him about this because he ALWAYS takes it the wrong way. i do care about him alot... how do i stop this with ...

Me, my boyfriend and my brother - Is there something wrong or am I looking into this too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am having a problem with my boyfried we have been together for a year and a half he is dad to my son who is 4 and we have everything a relationship probably most desires. Stability. Any how lately he has neglected me emotionally. I feel like he ...

My abusive wife and I are splitting - I want to tell my sister-in-law that I love her! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - i have been with my wife for 12 years now married for 5years of that now . she has given me black eyes and more we dont have kids thank god. it been 4years now and iam still in deep love with her sister i have tryed to keep away but all that has ...

How do I get things with my wife back the way that they used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - hi people . well here it goes ive been married for 13 years now i married at 16 to the girl i love with all my heart. i dont really wana go into it to much right now it will take me all day.but i left my wife a couple of times this is because i fel...

My oldest brother sexually abused me and left scars on my body. I want to tell someone, but I don't know if I could handle it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - This may end up being rather long so i apologise in advance - its just tht i hav never really spoken about it in detail and i need help before it consumes me I think i was about 11 or so when it happend am not sure but i kno i was still in junior ...

My wife and I have become incredibly attached to each other! We don't want this to cause us problems - what can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Right some of you may say this isn't all that bigger problem but its getting in the way of things. Well me and my wife have been together since we were 16,known each other all throughout school and been married 7 years. Just recently though we have ...

My racist grandmother says things just to annoy my latino husband and I! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I don't know how to handle my grandmother. She says things just to annoy my husband and I. For example, she knows that it disgusts and annoys us when she says racist things and calls people things such as the "n" word, etc. (She and most of the ...

He broke up with me b/c of his family - now I want to make his weekend as miserable as possible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - this is the third time that i have been to this site to ask for help in the last two weeks. i am in my sixtes and my so called bf is in his late sixties. it involves a very emeshed and fused together family.we have been dating for almost 3 years ...

I have lost my daughter and grandchildren forever because the boyfriend controls her! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - my daughter quit talking to me. how can i repair our relationship? it was over her relationship with her boyfriend of ten years. please help! my daughter won't even give me her phone number. i know her boyfriend is behind of all of this. when she ...

3 times in 9 months my boyfriend's family has had problems, and he backs away from me. Will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - This is the 3rd time my b/f has done this to me. We've been together for 9 months. His mother will be telling the whole family that she wants a divorce from his step dad. I know this is worrying him alot. Each time he spends more time on that ...

I'm begining to get very anxious about the future with my husband when our daughter leaves home.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - Iam beginning to get very anxious about the future.My husband and I have been married for nearly 30 years are in our early 50s and have been happy apart from the usual niggles people in a long marriage have.For awhile now I have been getting really ...