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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Can I choose to move from my father's house in the UK and live with Mum in Canada?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I'm 16, and i was living in Canada for most of my life, until a couple years ago moving to the UK to live with my father (my parents divorced). My mother is still in Canada, and after all this time I've wanted to move back. Only recently have I been ...

My Mother has said if I don't gain weight I can't see my bf...this is so unfair! Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Ok this a very random question but i need help. My mom and i keep getting into arguements about my weight. Im 20 years of age and i weigh about 107 - 108 pounds. My mom is nagging me about my weight and is constantly telling me that i need to g...

My 15 year old son got suspended from school-for fighting..how do I deal with his aggression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I am a father of two. My 15-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he started a fight in the classroom which resulted in an innocent boy going to hospital. He refuses to discuss why he has aggression with us, and we don't kn...

My sister and I are happy with our bigger sizes, but mum just won't leave off about how fat we are!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hello, me and my sister have both put on weight. We both used to be a size 12 we are now a 14 - 16 but are happy and content. The thing is, all the family are slagging us off. My mom finds it embarrassing that we have put on so much she is forever ...

I'm a grown woman, but my dad still wants to guide my love life! Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I have had to return to my parent's house following a divorce, although I am waiting to return to my own home, which should be in about four months. They have been very supportive and we have managed well even though I have become a born again te...

Our families are fighting,what can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Hey. I am in a really bad situation. I am 17 and my bf is 21. I meet him through our family because be were really close friends, but now both our families are fighting and they have put us in the middle. My bf still visits my house and hangs ...

My sister won't leave off about my friendship with a man. We're all adults and I think she's obsessing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I am after some advice about my sister’s behaviour (she is 28) which I find unacceptable. A male friend (from childhood) and I have recently got back in contact after around 12 years. I am early 30’s and he is early 20’s. We are good friends, ...

I left my wife and kids...and now they won't talk to me! How do I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I am leaving a very unhappy marriage after many years which was very unemotional. I moved out of the family home a few months ago, but have not had the kids staying at my house. I spend all weekend and many nights at the old martial home. I am try...

Is my mum trying to live vicariously through me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - My mum is trying to control my life. She is always doubtful of me, and constantly reminds me that I should do more exercise. If I mention to her that I don't get told off in school for my short skirt, because my friend's is shorter, she immediately ...

We are married and in our 20's...but he wants to wait until we are in our 40's to have children. Should I agree with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I am 22 and my husband is 24. I was talking to him about the possibility of having children soon and he said, "Wait till we're between 40 and 44 years old. Then we will have enough money to raise a family." He is hard-working, but also very af...

Should I tell my mum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - well theres this boy in my class and quite a few girls in the class fancy him. to me hes ok. and we were talking to eachother adn invited me to his bday party. i would go but im embarrased about telling my mum. should i tell her? or make out that im ...

He's dealing with his problems and trying to get a job, so why can't my family leave off about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. To start with, he was ambitious, with a good job until he quit. For the last year he is going through a stage where he doesn't want to get a job, and is constantly smoking Cannabis...

Sis was coerced into sex with her boyfriend and she's been crying. Should I tell what I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - I thought i'd give this whole agony aunt thing a go as I like helping people, but to be honest I stumbled across this website while looking for advice to give my sister. Here's the situ: She's just 15, but looks older. About a month ago I walk...

My husband and his adult daughter seem unnaturally close... or am I just being jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 7 years of which time we've been very happy with one another. I was aware for the off that his adult daughter wasn't too keen on our relationship. I endeavoured to be a friend to her but although she is pleasant to ...

I've got my own "monster-in-law"! Is it best to cut off all contact with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am 35 nad have a fabulous 5 year old boy. My hubby is great too, but unfortunately his mother is like every bad stereotype of the bad ma-in-law there is! She throws strops about anything and everything, she managed to ruin our wedding ...

I don't get why my boyfriend goes to his mum with OUR personal problems. What can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have known my boyfriend for almost for 4 years. We were bestfriends for 3 before we actually started dating almost a year ago. (March will be a year) We have both graduated high school and we have both moved on to college. My concern is that ...

I'm 9 years older than him and he won't tell his parents about us. Is he embarrassed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for nearly twelve months. at 34, I am 9 years older than him and have two children who love him to bits. the trouble is he will not tell his parents that we are together. when i question this he says they may not ...

My gf's Mother died and I'm worried she is falling into a depression. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriends mom died about a month ago. It has really affected her and is now starting to affect our relationship. She says that everything is ok with us but she doesn't show me any sign that she loves or cares about me. I know she has a lot ...

What is happening with my uncle??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - this is weird. ever since i was little (iam 15 now) my uncle used to tell me to sit on his lap. he has never touched me badly, but every time i see him, he still asks me to. no one in my family thinks its weird because we're all close, but i think ...

My ultimatum: get your own place or it's over. Am I being unfair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - My partner still lives at home with his mum and dad. He declares that he loves me and treats me well but I find it hard to stay at his house because his mum complains of us talking late. I suggest he gets his own place but he explains that he needs...

The man my parents chose to be my husband won't show any respect to them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I had an arranged marriage. I got married about 4 years ago. We have been living together for 2.5 years since he was in school when we got married. My problem is hurting me. My husband does not like my parents. My parents gave us...

Can I help my 12-year-old sister with her love life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I have a problem with my little sister. She is 12 and is in sixth grade. She has this boyfriend who she has been going out with for 3 months now. The thing is they didn't even know each other when they met (guess their friends hooked them up). The...

My family just can't come to grips with my choice to use my maiden name, even though I'm married...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I've got a real problem with my family members. I got divorced some time ago and made sure the divorce judgement specified that I would return to using my maiden name. Again and again I've told my family members that I am using my maiden name and ...

I'm madly in love with the son of one of my first cousins. We're both adults, and we want to be together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - In October of 2005, I visited my parents' hometown to see relatives I haven't seen in several years. I met a cousin who I never knew before. He's actually the son of one of my first cousins, so that would make him my first cousin, once removed (kind ...

Am I mad... Or is my sister sleeping with my man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - For a long time, I have had a suspicion something went on with my man and my sister. I asked and was told I was being stupid, so left it. The trouble is, whenever they are together I feel like there is something between them. This has gone on for 2 ...

My little sister is naughty and sneaky... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Hey people, I don't know if you can help but here goes. My little sister is so annoying. She is really spoilt and wants me to play with her all the time even though I'm almost 15 and she's 9. She can be really hypocrytical as well, for instance...

Our 16 year old son is with a 43 year old woman...what do we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Recently me and my husband found out that our 16-year-old son has been dating a 43-year-old woman and has got engaged to her. We asked our son if this was true, and he said it was. He told us he is talking of getting engaged to her and havin...

I want my wife's sister...

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - for weeks now my wife sister my sister inlaw has been giving me mixed signals ,you know a little touch hear and a long stair there, my sister inlaw other half went away on a business trip and me and my wife stayed over for the night so my wife could ...

I have sexual feelings for my twin sister...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Somebody please help me. I don't know if it's normal but i have started to have sexual feelings for my twin sister. My bedroom is being re-painted and i have been sleeping in her bedroom, i can't stop staring at her when she is asleep. She is really ...

Happy with my wife, but I can't stop fantasising about a threesome with her and her sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - I'm a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t ...

He's a drug addict, but I love him and I promised his kids I wouldn't leave him. Now I'm pregnant, and I don't want a drug addict around my baby! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - I have a problem and don't know what to do I got involved with man who I love so much but he is a drug addict his first wife and left him with twins they are 11 now and his daughter got me and her father together now i had a miscarriage on march 12, ...

I gave my sister's good friend a Christmas present, and neither of us have heard a word from her since! I think I've ruined their friendship, but I really like this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

16 January 2006 (M) - I really like my sisters friend, they have been friends for years, they met because they used to work together and have been like best friends ever since. Im older than her but I like her she used to live near us but then moved away to Cyprus a...

There are different rules for my kids and my husband's daughter, and he lets her get between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Me aad my husband have been together for 4 years. The problem I have is that I have 2 boys, 15 and 20 years old and he has a duaghter 9. He always complains that my boys are lazy, but when his daughter is over she is not made to do anything...

I'm having sex with my third cousin. Is this wrong?

This question has 105 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Recently i have been having sex with my third cousin, it's been going on for the past month now, i really really enjoy it, and i feel like i love him, i cant get him out of my head. But when im not with him i think about the what ifs and get really ...

I have no one to talk to about my parents' divorce. Even my older friend wouldn't listen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - Hi My parents spit up this year and I'm really torn up about it. I'm fifteen now and they have wanted to get divorced since I was nine. I have never talked about it to anyone. I decided that I was gonna try to talk to my friend (30), but when I t...

I am lusting after my "brother-in-law" and am terrified he knows it! Any suggestions on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

13 January 2006 (F) - I am lusting after my "brother-in-law" and am terrified he knows it. I have been with my boyfriend for several years so I am a part of the family. I have been lusting after my boyfriend's brother for some time and am afraid he can see it. I a...

My mom, 50, told me she's having an affair with a guy, 25... How do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - My 50 year old mother is having an affair with a man who is 25. I am the only person she trusts enough to tell and I don't know what to say to her. The problem is, that she loves her husband (My stepdad) very much but she is young at heart, she acts ...

I feel invisible. Are women treated with less respect after they become mothers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Are women treated with less respect from society once they become mothers. I dont know if its just me or if this is common but I have noticed that since beoming a mother it seems that Im totally disregarded by society in a lot of ways. It kind of ...

My mom treats me like a naughty schoolgirl... And I'm 21! And not naughty (usually).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Help! My mom won't talk to me anymore. She hasn't spoken to me in nearly a week. She is angry because I am 21 years old and I'm tired of being treated like I'm 13, so I told her what I thought about her practically oppressive parenting style....

I'm 38-he's 25..his family won't meet me..his mother thinks our relationship is 'disgusting"! Need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Older Woman Younger Man I'm 38 and my bofriend is 25. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. The problem is his family... they dont accept our relationship and refuse to meet me.. his mother said that our relationship is ...

I'm 21 and my parents don't want me to leave and live my own life! I want out of here...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Howdy, need some advice, I'm too nice for my own good, I cant say no, I do everything I'm told, my mother is way too emotionally dependant on me, and when I want freedom to go out and travel to another country I cant because they wont let me go, i'm ...

Her dad won't allow her to be with me...what can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm 21 and my g/f is 16. Here's my problem: We have both been a part of the same social group for months, with friends ranging all in between our respective ages. I had met her parents once before when we had a big group hang-out, way be...

Two brothers..one is an ex bf, the other I date. The ex bf wants me back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

11 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my ex boyfriend for 2 years and we have been broken up for over a yr. We have 2 children together. He cheated on me with his brothers girlfiend and is with her. He has been broken up with her for about 2 weeks. He called me and ...

I suffer from depression and just haven't progressed in my life, so how can i stop feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

11 January 2006 (F) - Hi, i've suffered with depression for a couple of years now and had such problems with social situations that i had to leave university and quit my driving lessons. My problem is that while i have been sorting myself out with counselling and ...

I'm Indian-she's black and we want to start a life together. Not sure how to tell my family..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - hi im a 19 yrs old well experienced indian guy with a typical indian family (you want me to marry a indian girl) but for the past three years i have been with the most wonderful woman ive ever met and shes black. we've both decided its time for us ...

Should I have tummy-tuck surgery now or after I have kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I was talking to my mom about having a tummy tuck surgery and she said if I really wnated to do it, I should since our insurance will cover it, but that I shouldn't do anything to my breasts because if they move my nipples (I wnated to get a breast ...

We love each other and have a strong relationship, but family and friends just don't want us to be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hey, I have been going out with my BF for a long time now and we love each other very much and are love is very strong but it is very hard to maintain our relationship because there are a lot of problems not exactly to do with us but with mainly f...

If you are married, do you still need your parents??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Do adults still need their parents love and support once they're married and have kids? My daughter recently got married and is pregnant. Am I still needed in her life? We have a pretty close relationship, but I can't help but feel as if I'm going ...

I'm a divorced man who loves my son. But my new girl wants me to see less of him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I am a 39 year old man and my marriage broke down in june 2004 in september 2004 i meet a girl that i really liked, she gave me the impression that she had no problem with me being divoiced and supported me thourgh the whole thing. she even played ...

I don't understand why Grandad has to get married again! I think it's disrespectful to Nan's memory...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6683 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - The situation is ... I've lived with my nanna and grandad since I were young. They loved me as if I was their own and iI loved them like they were my parents. My nan died a couple of years ago, but after two years my grandad is getting married ...