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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together for the 4th time but problem his family doesn't want us to date. they say i treat him like crap and im not mature. i really want to be with me him cause i know for a fact i love him but he texted me ...

My sister made a comment about guys in college and that has made me re-evaluate my love life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - In a conversation with my mother, My sister laughed when Mom made a comment that maybe someone at her school would ask her out if she takes a break from her current boyfriend. In response, my Sister explained that nobody askes anyone out on dates ...

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...

What do you do when you love each other but have to break up for religious reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - ok so im with a guy been with him for a mnth and a half and he loves me more then i love him he tells me that if he cld compare his love to everything in the world it wldnt come close, only problem is he is muslim and i am orthodox and my ...

My wife thinks we should terminate the pregnancy because we still haven't had a wedding dinner. Please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - i have ROM in Jan 2008 but have yet to have wedding dinner due to the death of my dad. Recently my wife was pregnant and she don't know if we should keep the baby as she is afraid that her dad will be very furious as we have yet to have the wedding ...

Should I still take my daughter to see my ex's daughter even though he has told me to stay away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I ended it with someone 8 months ago now. He has moved on with someone else and all is fine in that way, but before this, he used to use his daughter and mine still wanting to see each other as a contact to me, which i put up with for the childrens ...

His mother is not willing to give him up! Should I stay with him or let her have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hello, I had met my soul mate when I had been on holidays, although we were both expecting nothing of it at first but a summer fling, we both fell in love. He had proposed to me, and I came back home the happiest girl. Its been 4 months long dist...

He claims he isn't trying to salvage his marriage but am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - He claims that he is not trying to salvage their marriage; but he seems to be bending over backwards to appease his wife. She wants everything switched over into her name and he does so without any hesitation. She says it's because of me and I might ...

My cousin and I had casual sex a lot when we were younger. What does this mean now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a problem that I want to try and sort out... Me and My Cousin moved away from each other about 9yrs ago...she was about 20 then and I was 13, Now when were younger...we had casual sex alot..we didn't plan it to be like this..but It ...

I want to be able to see my daughter because I have quit on drugs, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - my exhusband has not let me see our daughter in almost 5 years because of my past drug use i now have been clean and sober for 5 years what should i do and coull you show me some web sites on how this effects my daughter to not see her mom...

My father could be more discrete with masturbating, I'm starting do think he does it intentionally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - First, I need to give some background information. I am 25 years old, in grad school, and living at home with my parents to keep my expenses down until I graduate this year. My mother is a flight attendant and she flies three day trips once or ...

Why would my friend not mention his family anymore while deployed? Should I ask if his family's OK? I'm worried about them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I have a friend who's military, He's on assignment away from home (here in the US but far from his current base). I asked him if his countdown for going home started since he's finishing the time assigned. He said that his duty is indeed coming t...

My family have chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - my family has chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son and she always tries to cause trouble between my new wife and me what to do...

My family prefer my ex to my new wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - my family dont seem to like my new wife and they still talk to my ex wife and go around me to her about things they would like to do with my son my wife is mad and rightly so what can i do...

I'm caught under my dads pressure, what can I do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

30 August 2008 (?) - School starts up again soon and I was planning to try my best for A-level. I haven't been working for a while so I thought it would be easy to get back into it. The only thing is, last year my Dad continously blackmailed me with chucking me out ...

Did this boyfriend steal my 10yr old daughter's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Met a guy, few weeks later he took me and my kids out for the day in his sisters car (she was away on business) My 10 yr old daughter took her phone, decided before we got there she didn't want to carry it round so i put it in the glove box. Fo...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY ...

She took my dog away from me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...

I want to keep contact with my dad but it seems that my mom has a different view of him. This is upsetting me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - For 11 years I've been brought up by just my Mum. With my grandad around too. My dad left when I was 3, I saw him for about six months after my parents split and then that was it. I didn't see him after that. I've been thinking about it recentl...

My husband has filed for divorce and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I am 34 years old w/ 3 children -2 boys (16 and 13) and a girl (8). My husband and I became friends first. We talked until all hours of the night (he was still with a girl he had been with through high school- 9 years). We saw each other a few time...

My boyfriend acts different with everyone else except me, what can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so confused! I started dating my boyrfiend 6 months ago and im head over heels in love with him. Ive had so many bf's and never fell inlove before. A few months ago i truly felt that he was the one and i wanted everything with him...

I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

I'm having problems with my partner's daughter from his first marriage, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - where to start, ok ive been with my partner for 6 years we have two young children and he has 2 daughters from a previous marriage.who are 15 and 17. i have always gotten on well the the girls and never had a problem before. The youngest has ...

How can I deal with my younger brother's destructive ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - I'm literally at the end of my rope with my younger brother, and I'm looking for some advice on what I can actually do about it. He's always been louder, more social and more physically fit than me. In a lot of ways, he's the brawn and I'm th...

Will there be much contraversy if I want to spend my life with my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my question is simple. my cousins mom starts to suspect about us and its posible that she knows about us already, i feel like i really love this girl and plan to have a family with her and spend the rest of my life with her. we have been together ...

"Stand By Your Man" should also apply for women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I really need to know if I'm right in this case because if not, I do want to apologize to my husband and his friend. Basically, his best friend, we'll call him D, lived with us when we were first married. Actually, my husband owned the house an...

I feel he has taken her away from us! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i know this isnt really a relationship problem, but it kinda is.. Ever since my father passed away in feb of 2006 me and my mum have become very close, i was 13 and had no brothers or sisters but my mum was 34 and pregnant. i think because my dad w...

Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...

My dad died and I can't help but hate mum's new boyfriend even though he's a nice man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - My dad died before christmas. My mum and dads relationship before wasnt very good, and my mum has moved on and has found someone else. My mother is now 5 months pregnant. I already have 3 other siblings under the age of 5, and they have all star...

Help! Very troubled relationship here, and there is a baby involved.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hello I'm in a little bit of bind and if someone could help me I would grealty appriciate it! Here is my situation..... I have 2 children with my ex and a baby with my current boyfriend/fiance. My bf is a great guy but he only thinks of him se...

My stepdaugher is trying to break up my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Stepdaughter in law trying to break up marrige. My husband's daughter tries to stir up trouble by telling lies about me, says I am rude to her, etc. She is 36 years old and has her own family, has always been a daddy's girl and only child. Her...

How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...

His parents blame me for his running away! He's back home now and still wants to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Well I Have A Boyfriend And Were Bout to Be A Year That We Been Dating..Well @ 3 months going out he ran away and his parents blamed me 4 it..well just 3 days ago we had a big argument and he called his parents and now hes @ home? well see while he ...

In love with brother in law but my relationship with my in laws is not good now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I am in love with my Husband's brohter. we are married for 3 years. but when i entered there house he was the youngest and the charming person who always loved me, adored me and did what ever he can for me. i have lots of problems with my in laws...

My mom found out I had sex and it changed everything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - ok so my mom found out 2 weeks ago that my boyfriend and i had sex. and ever since then she has treated me like crap or worse and i cant to talk to her i just cant its too hard for me and my boyfriend wont talk to me until i do and i tried and ...

Her father died before the wedding and she wants to postpone it. I told her no, but it's causing fights. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

28 August 2008 (?) - My fiance's dad just recently die before our wedding. When I got home she crying her eyes out. After I calm her down she say she to hold off the wedding for a bit. I dont its a great idea cause if we do have to wait another a year to got merried. ...

My brother has romantic feelings for my girlfriend of 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have a younger brother he is 16 and im 18. i have been been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and always noticed that my brother acted weird around her and would always bring her up in conversation. Last weekthat he has always ...

How do I stay gone from him once I'm gone?? I keep coming back to him as I miss the good things that have been.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have been in an mostly emotional- sometimes physically abusive relationship for 7 years. We have 3 kids together- I have left this man at least once a year b/c I get to the point where I am so sick of being called a b____ and fat____ or dumb or ...

Can my ex just throw him out?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Im a mother of 3 children - 1 boy 15 who has lived with his father for the past 12 months, and 2 daughters age 12 and 6. My son who lives with father has thrown him out and now wants to live with us but unfortunately there is no bedroom space and ...

I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always b...

After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they ...

I have 4 children but want more, my hubby's done a vasectomy, please help me accept this, and my saddness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have 4 children and in my heart I still want more. My husband had a vasectomy nearly 2 years ago as he doesn't want any more. I haven't been able to get past this and our relationship is about to end. Can anyone help me find a way to accept and be ...

Girlfriend wants kids but I don't, as I already have 2. I'm afraid she will leave me as warned.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I am a divorced father of two children, 11 and 9 years old. My current girlfriend has never been married and would like to have children. She has pretty much given me an ultimatum, "have another child with me or our relationship is over." Quite ...

Pressured to a have child or lose my partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years since we were just teenagers. He has recently told me that he wants marriage and children within the next 2 or 3 years but I am not sure I do. Its not a flat no from my side but I just dont know (if ever) that ...

I think my family hate me, I don't want to stop visiting them, but I don't want to see them either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I think my family hate me. I've been through years if abuse from my mum. It got worse on my 17th birthday, which was last December and I didn't expect to wake up from it. I was meant to go into care at 12, but they somehow managed to stop it. I g...

I want to move abroad with my new girlfriend and see the kids during school holidays. Should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I cant stand my ex girlfriend anymore. We were together 10 years and have two children together. I cheated on her whilst she was pregnant with our second child and I am not proud about that. I am still with the girl I had the affair on her with. We ...

I accused my boyfriend unjustly and he has forgiven me, but his mother has not. Should I stay with him after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have to be the most stupidest person in the world, well not stupid gulible. I accused my bf of kissing a member of his family (well his cousin to be exact) cause someone told me and I believed it so when I accused him it came out as if it was ...