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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

We have two children together. He's my fiance. Should I forgive him for kissing my younger sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - so my younger sister confessed to me that my fiance kissed her!! she seemed pretty upset and she didn't know how to tell me she said she pushed him away and told him that was wrong and was freaking out. he told me he didn't know what he was th...

2 Questions: 'Coming out' advice needed and how to get over a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Ok so this will be really long, I'm sorry I have 2 questions Question 1: I am... well I'm not sure but I think I'm bi or Pansexual. I have been attracted to guys and girls I've had 2 boyfriends 1 of which I never really had feelings for (mention...

How do I tell my parents I'm going to date the boy who used to bully me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hey, i like this guy, and i am going to try it out with him. except a month ago this boy was bullying me only because he was with this new girl who did not like me, he was only doing it cause he was under peer pressure. he has loved me for lik...

Which plans should I cancel; those with my mum or my date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - What should i do? It's my mum's birthday tomorrow, and we are supposed to be going shopping in the afternoon, and the cinema at night, but this guy i am dating said he wants to meet tomorrow too. Should i go to the cinema with my mum in the afte...

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

Talking to mom about the girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So for 2 and a half months, almost three I've had a girlfriend and I really like her. The problem is that I don't know how to tell my mom about her. Every time I try to talk to her about it my neck gets hot, my body goes numb and I start to ...

My little brother has aspergers and hurts me when he gets mad. How do I get my parents to believe me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - my younger brothr is 9 years old and he makes me want to stab myself or him!!! the reason for this is that he has a type of autism called aspergers. all the time i have to hear "just ignore what hes saying" or "its only the aspergers" and even ...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

I want to get involved with my sister in law who lives with us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - The wife of my brother-in-law lives with us. I want her more than my wife and her husband is in abroad. I'm 36years old and living a happy married life. We are living two families together. This means my family and the other family is my wif...

I need to learn how to interact with guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do ...

My wife says I play games too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Okay my wife says i play my game too much that we don't have time for each other anymore. Okay i work all night pretty much i work 4 Nights a week and then on Sunday i go to work and open. We have a 15mth old daughter together so those two days that ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

I feel knackered and old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I'm in a very dark place. I feel immense loneliness, empty feelings no matter who I'm with. I'm threatened by evrything. Mainly people preferring other people to me cause my personality is shit even though pple reassure that its not I feel it deep ...

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things a...

Why is my sister in law and friend is backstabbing and acting up to me as if I've wronged her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two almost identical questions combined. She (P) was my friend before i even met her brother, my now boyfriend. I also have a mutual girlfriend with P called (E) When i started dating her brother she would back stab me and stuff, sayin...

How do I tell my family I'm dating a woman 28 years older than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Hope someone can help, I got talking to someone on a internet chatroom and we have a lot in common. After chatting for a while we both wanted to meet each other and we did and got on really well together, only thing is that she's 55 and i...

Is this my gut talking or my insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating Mr. K for 7 months now and he is pretty great, however, I have some concerns. When I met him, he is was transitioning from California back to Chicago and he was being reinstated with his old job with the police department. ...

What hope is there for this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Bit of a long story so please bare with me. Met my girlfriend at work 5 years ago, she was an Assistant Manager of 21, I was a 38 year old employee. Despite the age difference we hit it off straight away and started dating almost immediately. During ...

How can I build a motherdaughter relationship with my stepmother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Well i'm 13, and when i was 8 my mom and dad split because my mom fell in love with a black guy. At the time i didn't understand i was only told that my mom and dad didn't love each other anymore. Me and my dad were so close that i wanted to l...

I feel depressed and sad that my parents are still trying to have children and they aren't thinking about me and my feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - i recently came to know that my mom had a missed abortion with a 9 week fetus. I feel so embarrassed and angry and sad because i am 20 and old enough to have my own kids but they want a second kid after so many years. I found out that she had a ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating because some guy texted me saying he wished I was single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4473 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him because of this guy texted me and said something about he wanted me to be single and after that i didn't text back and haven't talked to him since then. My boyfriend sister went through my phone and told him ...

Boyfriend's mom won't let him be in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4473 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - how can i ask my b/f to do the right thing when his mum won't let him be classed as in a relationship with me, she bullies him every time he sees her which is only 2 collect his money as she won't let him use his own bank account, we've been ...

Not being able to contact him is interfering with child visitation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Im at my wits end with my baby sons father. Our son is almost 2 and me and his dad are no longer together. We have a really good routine on having our son, where he will have him for the whole weekend every other weekend and then for a couple of ...

We're dating, but her family is trying to set her up with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I recently started dating a 17 year old girl. As a couple by ourselves we work out great. We agree on many important things. She's pretty mature for her age too. The problem is that I think her family is trying to set her up with another guy. Her...

People think he's perfect. Yet how do I cope with his secretiveness and fact he may be seeing escourts? He has excuses for everything.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm married with two kids and have serious trust issues with my husband. We've been together for 12yrs and everyone who knows us thinks he's the perfect guy as he is a great father, helps around the house and is easy going. About 2 yrs ago I ...

Our living situation is getting to my wife. I endure her regular tantrums. Do I change our whole lifestyle and income due to her whim?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I am 41 and I have been married to my wife for 19 years. We have no children. We bought this house in a large suburb (120K people) 10 years ago. It's near the mountains and we get a lot of wildlife. There are lots of trees, too, and you'd never know...

I'm just so angry with him for having another child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I'm feel like I'm stuck in this mess and really need some answers or guidance from ppl that have been through what I'm going through. So I have been with my fiance since 2007 around Christmas time of 2010 I have found out that he was cheating on me ...

Problems with a blended family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - I've been married for 2 plus years. My wife has 3 children all living with us ranging from 23 to 15. We lived together prior to us getting together for around three years. But I worked evening and got off work after everyone has gone to bed so I did...

Poor communication, a misunderstanding and so her friends abused me for being late. Should I be aggrieved with her since she was unsupportive to me re abuse by her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - So this is my story. I have always wanted to be with this girl and finally, she agreed. We've been dating for a bit more than a year now. We got our ups and downs but all in all, it was pretty good, except for the fact that it was "just" "pret...

Should I just admire him from afar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - My question is kinda long and complex, so I'll try to explain it as best I can. So there are a lot of Czech exchange students at my school, and a few of them have my same lunch hour. Lately I've been admiring this extremely EXTREMELY hot one from ...

My mum makes me feel like having sex, even when in love, is wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

24 January 2012 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and I know its not very long but I am very much in love with him and we have recently started having sex. However, my mum is a very prude person and I can't even talk about us sleeping in the same bed ...

My friend's family is too overprotective. What can she do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Hello, this question isn't really about me its about my friend who i am very concerned about. So.. my friend has a very protective family, she's 15, and will be 16 in a few months. She has a big family, she lives with her mum, dad, two sisters ...

He will Will but I wont!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has told me that he has already changed his will although we are not married yet to make me a beneficiary (along with ather beneficiaries). I have a will as well (predating our relationship) but have not made him a benefici...

I am on my way out the door and about to separate from my wife!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - This will be a long post and I would like honest comments to each point. I am on my way out the door and about to separate. I want to break down the problems so I can improve myself. I'll start with some things that have bothered my wife: -...

Friend and family dumped by dad, now he wants back in but she wont listen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I need elderly advice please. My friends father practically kicked her mother brothers and her out when she was 2. Reason? He had a new cindrella. My friend like me is 20 and never wants to marry. She says men are things she does when less busy! Her ...

The new wife acts up in front of the child!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Im having major trouble from my exhusbands 6th (and current) wife. My child tells me that everytime my child visits, its a none stop picking and fighting with my ex and his wife. My child feels uncomfortable being there. Well thro out their marriage ...

I want more freedom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I'm a straight A honors gifted student. In the 9th grade I am taking a college course already. My parents have always been strict, but I want them to know they can trust me more than they do and that I'm a really smart girl. Whenever I bring it up ...

I'm in the depths of depression. Is there a way out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - Hey guy's I'm going to apologize before hand as on the education front I don't have much. Here's my story.. and why I have self diagnosed myself with social anxiety and depression. I started to realise I was different around the age of 13 I...

Can this relationship really work out for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We ...

Yes My Mom Loves me, but besides that I''m depressed..(just broke up with Bf) How do you cope when you're completely alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I really need advice... I'm 22 years old. My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up about two weeks ago. A few days ago, my best friend and I had a huge fall-out. We've been friends for years, and I can say that this was an argument we prob...

Should I go to Paris alone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - My parents have offered me an amazing deal, but i'm not sure if I should do it.. They asked if I wanted to go to paris for the weekend by myself, as an independent experience and to see Paris as i've always talked about. Sure it'd be incredible an...

How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...

My wife says I should be satisfied with sex once a week or less. I'm not happy. what can I do about this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - My wife only wants sex once a week or less this has made me so mad angry and upset most of the time I cant handle this lifestyle she has a low sex drive. I'm very sexed up every day I masturbate and need sex... Wife says she will never change onc...

I want her and I love her, I would just really appreciate some tips please to reduce all the negativity in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - I really would appreciate some help please. I’ve been in a relationship with X for 11months. Bit of background in as brief as possible… Everything was amazing, I felt that happiest and safest ever until her parent found out about our relat...

Is she playing me? Should I completely ignore her or what?

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22 January 2012 (M) - Hello everyone I have a problem. I am a long time reader of this blog and occasionally come for help. Here I am again. I am a friend of the girl who got introduced to me in Feb when I came to USA through immigration. When I came here my girlfrie...