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Family: Help and advice

What should I do about my passive aggressive sister in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1425 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - My husband and I travelled cross country to visit his brother and his brothers family (wife and kids) over Christmas holiday. It was the first time I would really get to spend one on one time with them. I get along very well with all the rest of my ...

I've met a guy I like, but he is friends with my ex baby daddy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - I’m trying to decide if a guy is interested in me. He is a divorced single Dad. The issue is he is friends with my ex baby daddy. We saw each other out with our kids. His daughter is friends with my oldest daughter. So I asked if she could come over ...

Being in lockdown has forced me to see how unhealthy our relationship is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

30 May 2020 (F) - Hi all! I would appreciate some advice on how to handle an issue with my husband or rather a problem hes has that is seriously influencing my life. In a nutshell, he has some problems with relationships with people (I understand WHY). R...

I need tips for dealing with the mother of my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1423 days ago

29 May 2020 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me almost two months ago, and his mom keeps contacting me. Why would she do it? I always had the feeling she didn't like me during the first years we were together as we have very different views ...

How can I do what's right for me knowing my parents won't approve

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - i recently started a job in a care home on a rolling contract so it may come to an end in a few weeks, although It will most likely be extended . im sadly not enjoying it all and it is way more tiring then I thought and the hours I really long an...

My married boyfriend is moving to Panama for 6 months and is leaving me behind. He wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - I know I won't get any sympathy here but I am looking for some advice. Mistresses have nowhere to go. My married lover (he is more like a boyfriend now) is going to Panama with his wife in September to spend 6 months out of the year there, ever...

I feel trapped in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve been in a long term relationship for 8 years we have a coming up 6 year old son my partner 3 years ago suddenly started smoking weed he was good looking and smart when we met the relationship was great we both were working we went on ...

How can I remain upbeat when the father of my child creates conflict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1435 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - Experiencing ongoing conflict with the farther of my child who I left over ten years ago. On yesterday's date, I contacted a helpline for dealing with domesticated issues regards to communication taken place. As a result,they referred me t...

Commitments to my work and my compromised family conflict.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

21 May 2020 (M) - Currently i am trying to juggle my personal life with work. They keep clashing, my boss calls meetings always towards the end of the day which means i am late getting home. I have 3 disabled family members waiting for me to get home, carers help ...

Writing on behalf of my friend about his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

21 May 2020 (?) - Hi everyone, this is my first post so please bare with me. I am writing on behalf of my friend (M 22) who had a situation with his ex (F 21) recently which I am very concerned about. They have known each other for about 8 years so their history is ...

I'm in the US, sister in UK is making some rash decisions, how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - I moved to the us 16 years ago. My family is back in the UK and my sister had a diagnosis for early onset Alzheimer's a few years ago. Her and her partner have broke up and she says she wants to move back to London - she lived there for some years ...

I don't consider myself to be gay but what was the homosexual experience with my cousin all about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1438 days ago

16 May 2020 (M) - This thing happened to me when I was 13 years old. I used to meet my cousins on vacations when we had a large family get-together. I had this particular male cousin who was of the same age as me. We both never had any girlfriends ever and were ...

This guy I've met shares a house, and sometimes meals, with his ex wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1441 days ago

14 May 2020 (F) - I have met someone He is divorced and has 3 grown children the youngest is 20 and still in college. The ex wife and he share a house he lives in the basement and she lives on the first floor. They sometimes share meals and when daughter comes home ...

My partner's family never acknowledge my birthday

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

13 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 63 and my guy is 65. We both own our own businesses, both fairly healthy. No children. We got together six years ago and both had no children from before. He lives with me in my house and they have often visited here and spent a ...

I don't understand why my sister needs to make me look bad to elevate herself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

11 May 2020 (F) - Hi there. Thank you to all who respond to this question. I have a sister who is seven years younger than me and a brother some years older. I was very close to my brother growing up...from a military family...starting new school all the time...t...

How can I deal with a negative person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

10 May 2020 (F) - Best way to deal with someone who says things like "I'm not being funny but" "I don't mean to be awful but". A family member is constantly saying these things. She doesn't always refer to me but generally when talking about other people. Like ...

Is normal for my boyfriend to bath and shower with his six year old son

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

10 May 2020 (F) - Is normal for my boyfriend to bath and shower with his six year old son. He also, sleeps naked and allows his son to see him naked is this normal. Or red flags to where I should be concerned and running away from this man. I don’t have children. ...

I'm still grieving the death of my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1448 days ago

7 May 2020 (F) - My husband passed away 8 months ago after a two year battle with lung cancer. Since then, work has been able to distract me from my grief but I have been working from home due to COVID-19. It's harder on me being home all the time, surrounded by his ...

I feel I would be better off staying single and just getting a bed buddy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1446 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - I am a single mom. I have been divorced twice. I attract toxic people. Or people who need fixed. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I feel like I truly know myself now. I am sensitive and an over thinker. I am wondering if I should just ...

I believe my husband married me for convenience.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1443 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm married to my current husband for 2 years and been together for 4 years, (2 years before marriage). I am not sure whether i love my husband or not, reasons below. 1. He never told he loves me even once in this 4 years, his reason...

I'm struggling with fears of death since my grandfather passed away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

5 May 2020 (M) - So my grandad passed away the start of March. My mum has been grieving really badly and I’ve been being strong for her. Except I’ve been so haunted with a lot of thoughts about death and dying and family memeber dying and my mum dying.....