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Family: Help and advice

I feel disrespected because we make plans and his son changes them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hello everyone I’m reaching out for help as I’m very frustrated. I’m 40 my boyfriend is 42 both divorced and has a kid, same age 12 years old. We have been in a relationship for a year and kids get along well and once in a while we plan for them to ...

He says he will never marry me, which makes me think I am not good enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1509 days ago

29 February 2020 (F) - Hey all been with my partner for a year I've moved in with him and it's going great he has 2 young children who he sees alot and we have a great time together. Hes been married twice and engaged once. I've been engaged twice and married once. We ...

She left because I didn't propose after 2 years of dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

28 February 2020 (M) - Hi, I will quickly describe the situation, though I ask you to please not to condemn me harshly. I am in my upper 40s, never married. Met a woman two years younger, also never been married. We dated for two years. It has been my first long-term ...

My sister is never there for me. Our relationship is so unbalanced

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1519 days ago

27 February 2020 (F) - I've been really depressed recently. I've had bad anxiety for years and it's really starting to get me down. I used to have times when it would come and go but now it's a constant. I've made a lot of changes like eating hwalthy, not drinking, ...

My boyfriend has a leash on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

25 February 2020 (F) - I am starting to really dislike my boyfriends aunt because she has a leash on him. I want to clarify that I have been in a happy relationship for about 7 months now and I am really in love with him but I cannot deny that his aunt annoys me. I wo...

I was asked to be a Matron of Honour, but I can't really afford it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

22 February 2020 (F) - To cut a long story short, my friend got engaged 6 months ago and asked me to be her maid of honour but since then she’s asked me to go to one wedding fair (which I couldn’t go to due to my child being ill) yet her bridesmaid has been to several ...

My in laws have caused so much friction that my husband and I are on the verge of splitting up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

18 February 2020 (F) - Hi aunties.. firstly thank you for supporting me in this very tricky time in my life. I feel very alone at the moment and am struggling to make sense of everything going on.. so here goes... I was dating a lovely man for around 3 years before he...

Should I try again with the woman I dumped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

17 February 2020 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend because she had a degree and gets paid more than me. She has her own place. I moved back in with my parents because I’m going through a divorce. I have a crappy job she tried to help me find a better one. I kind of ...

Arranged marriage, should I tell my fiance about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

17 February 2020 (F) - HI , I am 25 from India. So i was in abusive relationship with a guy from school for 5 years approximately. Through those times he cheated multiple times and dumped me badly. So i was heartbroken went into depression. It was very bad phase in lif...

Am I too messed up and damaged to ever have a happy relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1526 days ago

16 February 2020 (F) - I am 26 and have lived in a toxic, emotionally abusive household my whole life. I come from a culture where you're guilted into never moving out until marriage. (I'm saving up to move out as soon as I can though). Also, if I ever go no contact with ...

I need answers and support.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

12 February 2020 (F) - My last post here I got super judged on here and went into a depression. More then I already am. So please be kind. I m a 30 year old single mom of an amazing 4 year old. My child’s father and I were together (we never’ married) for 5 years and ...

When my partner gets mad I get the silent treatment

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - I have this ongoing issue with my bf of 5 years. Whenever he gets mad at me, he gives me the silent treatment. Sometimes it's a few hours; sometimes it's days. He's even gone a few weeks, which was absolute torture, but I'm getting better at ...

My boyfriend needs help to move on from the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and a few days ago he felt very vulnerable and opened up to me about his past. I knew that he suffered but he didn't open up until now. He told me that his mom and dad got a divorce wh...

My idea of dating doesn't match that of my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts!! In need of some opinions and maybe an insight of my issue here. A little background story; I'm 21, Malaysian Chinese and in my final semester of my undergrad degree. Started dating my bf for about 10 months now and everything is pretty ...

I feel guilty for wanting out of this toxic relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

10 February 2020 (F) - Why do I feel so guilty about wanting out of this toxic relationship? It's killing me inside, almost daily to think that it's finally coming to an end. Backstory 7 years, 4 kids. My daughter from a previous relationship (8) his 2 from a previous ...

How do I get over the lazy, lying man I dumped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

9 February 2020 (F) - I have failed to get over my ex.. We dated for 2 years.. We were amazing together... The challenge was always two things.. He was a liar and not financially dependable.. I am a working woman of 34 years with a daughter.. I can support myself.....

How do I make my husband love me more than his mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

8 February 2020 (F) - My hubby is so loving by heart he will not express it..he express his love n romance only during sex at night..he is super romantic during sex..but when it become morning he is angry and busy dont have time to care me..even during my periods....

Is my daughter's three way relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1535 days ago

7 February 2020 (F) - My daughter is in a ridiculous ‘relationship’ with a man and another girl. How can I get her to see sense and realise that it will never work in a million years? It’s been going on for about 7 months now, although up until last week I thought she ...

My partner and I are arguing a lot more since our baby was born.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

1 February 2020 (F) - So I had a baby boy 7 months ago and myself and my partner have argued more since having a baby than we have in the 6 and a half years we’ve been together! I’m really struggling with becoming a mother as I am not very maternal, I also lost my mother ...