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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My mother gives me a message that I am someone to be hated! It has deeply affected me..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

31 March 2007 (M) - Dear Agony aunts, Please help. My mother gives me a message that i am someone to be hated whereas many other females give me an opposite message and think that i deserve to be loved and to be treated well. But my mother is also quite strong in ...

I want to tell my dad I've decided to date a 20 yr old, he wont approve! What should I do ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - hey hey..... thanx kay fay and martini for your replies it helped me alot... and i think i know what im gnne do... theres just one thing that i would like to ask... i wana be with the 20 year old and stuff but iv got a prob like what must i do...

I already have 2 children from a previous relationship but my partner wants to have kids and I'm not sure I want any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - Hi Guys, My girlfriend is 23 years old. I am 31 with 2 children and seperated. We disagree quite often on things and not so long ago the issue of more kids came up. The problem is she definitely wants some in the future, and Im not so sure I do...

I found him with a prostitute! 12 Months on I still cant forgive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - hi, what do i do, i have been married for 16 years, together for 20, we have a 10 year daughter and 1 year old son, when our son was 2 months i found out my husband had visited a prostitute for oral sex whilst i was pregnant. eventually it came out...

What did I do to my kids that they ditched me here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - hello An old man told me I have worked hard for my family, I have done everything for them to have a good life and now I am old, I can't do that much and I need help. Nobody helps me, the kids are busy with life and I am here lonely in eldery h...

His mom married my dad's cousin. I know it doesn't really make us related but it seems weird. What do u think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I'm 21 years old and I like a guy who is 34. I've never been into older guys but I really like him and I know he likes me too. The thing is he looks like he is only 25 and we get along great. But there is another problem. His mom married my dad's ...

I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...

Due to get married in two weeks, I cant go through with it, I hate his kids and Im going off him day by day, How do I tell him!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - i am getting married in two weeks and i am sick to the stomach. the thing is planned, mostly paid for and i just cannot go through with it. I hate his kids, his family and i am going off him by the day. but how do i go about telling him without ...

I wanted to end it, but she said she cant "live" without me, I cant live with that guilt, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - i told my gf. that i wanted to break up with her because everyone including my family and friends and those of hers disagrees to the relationship we have.. she alwys tells me that she cant live without me.... and that she will die if ever i leave...

I loved him but he didn't want kids in his future, so I broke it off. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I had been dating this guy for a little over a year and we got along great.We rarely argued and we loved each other very much,however, he warned me that he wasn't sure if he would ever want children.I have always wanted children,so we broke up, but ...

How do I tell my husband that after 3 kids...I am pregnant again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - im 30 odd and ive had 3 kids i decided i was done with mothering but yesterday i was late, so i went to the store and bought a test and it was positive. however i made a big fuss over not getting pregnant again. how do i tell my husband with out ...

He almost left us for her! we are trying to work it out but he still hangs out with her! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - My bf was going to leave me and our children for someone he was cheating with. We are trying to work things out but he wants to still hang out with her. My nerves are shot because he won't stay away from her. Should I stay or should I go?...

She's trying to blackmail me, but it wont just effect me other people will be involved! Please advise what to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - I would appreciate your help and advice on this. my question is do you ever have to stand down your grounds if someone try to blackmail you? lets say that action may effect other poeples and thier families emotionally? I can't just bac...

I feel a sense of duty to my Asian family, how do I get on with my life without feeling guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - I belong to asian culture. We tend to have a close-knit family. I feel guilty about growing or getting successful in my life due to the sense of duty that "i must also take my family members with me" wherever i go. In other words, make them as happy ...

My mum wants me to stop seeing my gf as shes older, Im just worried that she may hurt herself if I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - what should i do when my mom dosent want me to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of our age gap..... n how can i tell my gf that we need to break up knowing that she would hurt herself? the reason why i went into a relationship w...

The guy im seeing is 16 years older than me, potential relationship in the pipes what do you guys think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - My question is simple. I am goin to be 19 in a couple wks and i am currently kind of seeing a guy who is 16 yrs older than me. Thus he is 34. We were friends for aprox. 4mths before anything happened so one can say we have a good friendship; the ...

He my brother's best frind and my mate dates him. I like him a lot-so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - I like this guy that is my brother's friend. I only get to see him about once or twice a week. Sometimes he gets close to me and acts like I wold think that someone who likes me would act. But then other times he'll ignore me. Another problem is he ...

Does my mum favour my brother over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a ...

My mum brought home her new boyfriend and it turns out he was my one night stand! Should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - hey im in a massive mess right now and would really appreciate any advice people can give me ok Im 19 and about three months ago I met an older guy in a club. He started hitting on me and i did fancy him back but thought he was too old. he then ...

He's almost 40 and his family is threatening to disown him if we date again! Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - My partner and I have recently started getting close again after being apart for 14 months. We were together for 7 years and we have a two year old son. His family have never liked me nor have they even really bothered getting to know me and our ...

He left me and our little daughter! I'm a mess..how do I cope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - hi my partner has just left me after 4 years together we have a 2 year old daughter as well.. i just cant seem to cope im lonly i love him so much and i would do any thing to have him back he rang the other nite saying he regrets it and wants to ...

Am I getting my wires crossed and making the situation confusing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - A few weeks ago I was talking to my boyfriend about how stressful it is still living at home and about how my job is pretty much the same ( I work with my downed syndrome brother, which I mostly do the job to help my mom because she's been through a ...

How can I get her to talk to me and be honest with me about what she is feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - My gf of 6 years and I have been havin a lot of problems and have split up twice now this year. We have 3 young kids together. We split up for around 2 weeks in Jan, during this time we spoke about all our problems and said that we both loved ea...

My mate's mum fancies me, I'm sure of it, how can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Hi. This is really embarrassing so I hope someone can help as I cant ask anyone I know. My mum has this friend who's my mates mum and she always flirts with really young guys. She's 52 and it's a known fact she fancies younger guys. My mum thi...

I think I'm still in love with my ex as I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hey there. I am very confused and dunno what to do. My first love and I went out for nearly 6 years, it started out really well, we got engaged after 3 years and I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. But things changed. We are ...

My husband changed his mind about kids and says to wait 5 years for him to decide! What if he decides "no"?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Before my husband and I got married, we decided we didn't want to have children. Then last fall I ended up getting pregnant even though I was on birth control. We both decided we were going to keep the baby and were even pretty excited about it - ...

My bf said we're finished if my kids visit me! I met someone else who i occasionally sleep with. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I met my b/f 3 months after my husband left me. My 21 and 23yr old who live away from home, cant stand him, won't speak to him and cut him dead if they meet. He says that if they come to my house and he finds out we are finished. He has a temper ...

His kids are causing problems in our relationship, Am I being selfish !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Please help. My relationship of 2 years is about to crash because he has children from a previous relationship. We have always argued over his children as they were very spoilt and ungrateful. Just recently we have been arguing because his children ...

When I turn 18, am I entitled to the right to care of my brother ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I really need help i am in a hard spot right now...i am 17 years old i will be 18 tuesday,and my brother is 16 years old.. Yesterday i went to pick my brother up so he can hangout with me and when i was taking him home he started crying, ...

Been together nine months and havent said I love you, or met his kids ? Is this long enough to wait ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi Im feeling quite emotional at the moment I have a bf who is great and we get on really well and enjoy spending time together our relationship was long distance at the begining but now hes closer and all together weve been going out abo...

Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...

Help, my mom is overprotective and won't let me date! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Help! My mum is being way to protective of me. I am 17, turning 18 next month and she doesn't want me to have a bf. I have been going out with this guy who I met through my classes at university for just over a month now and she doesn't approve, not ...

Last night I saw him at a party and he completely blanked me out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - a few months ago i snogged a family friend at a weekend away. i really like him but the only problem is that i am 17 and he is 27. it was my first true kiss but it felt wrong because i saw him as a friend. the age gap really bothers me. last night i ...

What is the best way to console him about this boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My husband and I have "looked after" R since he left an unhappy home when he was 16. He is now nearly 38 and we have known that he is gay sice he was 20. He has been in several "relationships" all of which have failed to be sustainable. He is an ...

My life is horrible at the moment, I feel my parents treat me unfairly, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

25 March 2007 (?) - My life is hell at the moment. my parents treat me like rubbish. i dont know what to do. they want me to be perfect and listen to every single little command of theirs! i spend most of my time at home trapped in my bedroom. i work on weekends...

Is there a way I can help him feel more comfortable with expressing love and showing affection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My problem is my partner (of 16 years, we have one child just over 1 year old) he seems to have a real problem expressing love and affection. It seems to have got worse since we had our baby. He does not tell me he loves me but thinks I should ...

I need advice on how to get me through this summer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - I am only 16, and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. hes joining the army and is going to be away all summer. to tribulize the situation he has a really weird home life, with parents on the verge of splitting and controling ...

His son who no longer lives with us broke into our house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My husband of six years has two teenage sons (who do not live with us), one of whom has been mostly trouble since day one. My husband has never disciplined his kids or made them accountable for their mis-deeds, and now the troublesome 17 year-old ...

My wife is very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - I have been married for 16 year. Several years ago my wife started on line gaming. She got very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships. This cause much upheaval in our life when she started spending 6 to 10 hours a day ...

I am paying for two houses for two women who would be far better off without me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - My life is a mess and i dont know how to carry on I have a lovely little boy, a wife who loves me, a girlfriend who adores me, a great job and a comfortable lifestyle. 6 years ago i had an affair and left, i was really in love and realised this...

My son has been caught making fun of fat people. What can I do to make him stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - I received a phone call off my son's PE teacher yesterday about his behaviour. My son is 15 years old. The PE teacher told me he and a gang of two other boys stripped a fat boy to his underwear and pushed him into the mud, then walked away la...

How can we find time for sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - Hi im a 34 yr old male thats married with 2 kids, one is 16 nearly 17 and the other is only 14 months. I have a full time job although i'm lucky enough to be one of the bosses so i get more time off than others and normally only work from ...

Married with 5 kids! I'm so stressed because I feel trapped in my life. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - I am looking for some advice I feel so trapped in my life i am married with five children. I love my husband deeply as he does me. I spend all of my life cleaning my house I could spend all week in the house and no one would care. My kids just ...

Having problems with my family and friends! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - Well, my family and i are all moving away, which means right now, the house is being all redecked and its all new and nasty. But my mum is really stressing about it, she yelled at my sister till she cried (who is 18) and then my sister left home, My ...

I worry that if I don't get along with his kids..he will leave me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - Hi everybody out there in internetland. I have just met a guy who i have been on a few dates with, the problem is that he has 2 children ages of 8 and 10 from a previous girlfriend, i have tried to explain to him that i am not sure what to say...

Dad insists I should keep up my singing career and I don't want to! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I need advice as this is driving me insane! I am 25 and have been married for 18 months and I am an only child. My dad has always been possessive over me, mum is fine with me but sides with Dad most of the time! Dad keeps droning on and on about ...

I want marriage before kids...how can I make my partner understand that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I am 32 years old a single mother for that past 10 years and I've finally found love again. We've been dating from a distance for the past 6 months and I am preparing to move out of state with my daughter to live with him. Our intention is to be ...

I need some excitement ibn my life...and am looking at my sisters husband!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - My name is Helen. I'm married with 2 kids, but I'm feeling a little unhappy lately. My husband is a migrant (from Lebanon) and lately I don't feel like we have much in common. He doesn't really challenge me enough intellectually, and sexually things ...

Does taking time out to be with my friends make me a bad father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

22 March 2007 (M) - I'm 24 years old, in the UK. Up until August 2006 I was in a relationship which I wasn't entirely happy with for various reasons. We have a daughter who is almost 2. After we split up, there was an initial struggle to get my name put onto our daug...

Im due to meet my fiance's family, Im American breed, they are British, I want to make a good impression, whats the expected etiquette?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

21 March 2007 (F) - I'm meeting my fiance's family for the first time. They're British and live in London and we'll staying at their house for a week. I know this could sound silly, but I was born and raised in America in a family where "proper" etiquette wasn't ...