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*issdesign
writes:I'm a newcomer to this country and I'm having troubles with finding a new job and my marriage. I got here few months ago, found a job which was my dream job since college. Bad news, got laid off weeks ago. It is a terrible feeling not having a job since my husband and I still lives with his parents.During the time, I was still working I was so stressed and unhappy. My job being my dream job became a nightmare. I had a hard time adjusting with the culture. Many times I felt like I'm in the wrong place. Being laid off before deciding quite a relief in a way. Is that weird? After a week of de-stressing, I kinda feel my husband is very distant. He kept on playing PC games instead of spending time with me with the struggle of losing my job. Back when I was working he was also unhappy about me working so much and even mad at me for choosing work than him. Imaging working and dealing with him whining about everything I do.I'm keeping myself busy and think positively. What's happening now it just part of reality. It happens and whats matter most is how handling these sort of unfortunate events.Any advice? Is it okay to feel a bit irritated with my husband being not comforting with my situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, kissdesign +, writes (24 November 2015):
kissdesign is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey caregiver! Thanks so much for the comprehensive advice. Yes, you're right I'm very sensitive now. I'll take your pieces of advice. I'm now de-stressing to clear my mind and preparing myself for a fresh start not only in my career but life in general. I need my husband now more than ever. I really appreciate your insights! Thank you so much!
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