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My step sister is falling for me. How can I tell her I only like her as a step sister? I have a boyfriend.

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Question - (24 March 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *nashia writes:

My parents at separated and my mom has a bf with a daughter.

That daughter (my step sister) doesn't live with us,she lives with her Mom who is a lesbian. Her Mom lives with a Gf.

My step sister is a month older than me . She has had becom a bisexual. She only told me and a couple of her good buddies.

So recently my step sister and I were texting each other. It started as a normal conversation and then out of the blue she asked " are you bi " I said " why " she said " u know why. I like you ok and I wanna date you do wat do u say ".

I was totally shocked . I didn't know what to say so I went with the thought, and said , "I have a boyfriend."

And I do.

She said ok and I asked her if she still liked me and she said idk.

So I want to know how to tell her I only see her a stepsister and I want to make sure she knows that for now. Thx for reading

Xoxo A

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A female reader, Anashia United States +, writes (28 March 2013):

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She told me that we probably shouldn't date and I said yea but it wouldnt ever happen so Idk if she's mad I won't be with her or what but she keeps texting me saying we should talk a lot more and stuff but yea so

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A female reader, MsSadie United States +, writes (24 March 2013):

MsSadie agony auntI'm cosigning with everything FauxAngel said.

The only thing you can do is be up front that you're not interested in being with her, whether it's because you're just not feeling it or you don't like the idea of being with a stepsister. If she's angry about that, that's on her.

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