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female
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41-50,
*ittlenewyorker
writes:I've recently had very steamy text phone calls with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have liked each other forever. I want to act on it. But guilt makes us stop. I truly believe he could be everything I've been looking for. Should I move on? Stop dreaming? And just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2013): depends when you broke up with him and whether your doing this for a quick fuck like revenge type...or just cause you can,either is bad.if im correct,then mind if i ask how old you are in your tiny head? so if im incorrect and you do want to have a real grown up relationship then talk to them so it doesnt cause futher problems (i say it depends in the situation) xoxo your average teen
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 March 2013):
 ok so you are having phone sex with your ex boyfriend's brother..... and that makes you want to have a relationship with him?
what makes you think it will work out or is it just to scratch an itch.
if you just want to have a fling I would say NO
if you want to have a real relationship with this man, then it depends on how long ago you broke up with your ex... how bad the break up was, why you broke up etc.
EITHER WAY you two need to go to the ex boyfriend/brother and talk to him first... NO SENSE in blindsiding him and making bad blood.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (26 March 2013):
 I think it would be wrong to go with your ex's brother and selfish on both parts. this could cause a family to have nasty arguments and cause a rift between them. if it's raunchy txts you want text a hot line and leave this guy well alone. there are plenty of fish in the sea why choose this one? maybe harbouring feelings for your ex and know this could make him jealous? its wrong very wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): If you want to base a new relationship on steamy phone calls and texts then go for it.He is an EX's brother so maybe he should mention it to him before he asks to date you, then it's all out in the open
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