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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Red flags all around but girlfriend insists that nothing is wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I have a big issue and need alot of help. I would like to say thank you for reading this ahead of time as it will quite long but required in order to understand the issue. So, thank you. I have been seeing my gf for 5yrs or so, granted within ...

Boyfriend cheated - What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and I've just found out that when he went to south africa in november for a month he kissed some girl who was friends with the family he was living with. I found out because he asked me to print so...

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...

He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has ...

I cheated on my LDR g/f, am ready to end things but how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for three years, but we recently broke up to give each other distance. We still talk everyday and act like a couple, yet I made out with a new girl I met the other day.it was a one time thing and I feel absolutely ...

I care more for boyfriend's friend than for the boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, my problem is i have been dating with my guy for a year, but i liked his friend too. As the relationship with my guy went on, he cheated on me a number of times then my love for him decreased each time i found out because i nolonger ...

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ...

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known eachother for years. We finally started a relationship that was almost 2 years now. I took a break I wanted it. It didn't feel like a break at all. We were still sleeping together. He wasn't giving me space. So I ...

Should I stay in this sexless relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years and we have a 5 month old baby. We also haven't had sex since I was about 6 months pregnant making it 8-9 months total with no intimacy excluding greeting hugs and kisses. While pregnant he said he wanted to ...

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I ...

My wife is pregnant, did she cheat on me and is having someone else's baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been using the withdrawal method of birth control. If the timing works it is about 96% effective. While there were a few occasions several months ago where the timing may have been in question, this past two months, since her last ...

Caught my boyfriend cheating but he claims it was just a friend, I don't know what to believe! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So i dated this guy for the longest time. About a year and 6 months. We argue a lot but we only broken up once and it was for a long period of time, we got back together but i never really had time to talk to him as much as i would like...Not ...

Does love no longer exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Why does this keep happening? Does love not exist anymore? So my ex boyfriend cheated on me. I thought we were in love. We were on the phone all the time, I knew when he was showering or eating. I thought I knew his whereabouts but I was wrong....

I had sex with this girl, but I have a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I was camping with a bunch of people and one of the guys brought his girlfriend and her friend. Her friend was cute and very flirty. I have a girlfriend we've been together a couple months. Every time me and my girlfriend have sex I don't cum which ...

How to deal with boyfriend getting another woman pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend, we have been dating off an on about 5 years.Serious about an year and a half. I just found out a few months ago the he got some other woman pregnant.He didnt know she was prgnant till after the baby was 9 months old.So now she is ...

My mistress asked me to 'make love' to her. What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I am single and I have been having an affair with a married woman for about 6 months now. She is very sexually adventurous, encouraging me to take her any way I want her. Sometimes we dress up and do roleplay. We just thoroughly enjoy sex with eac...

Still being judged for an affair 12 years later

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - 12 yrs ago I had an affair with a married man which resulted in his divorcing his wife and leaving their 3 teenage children. A yr later he and I married and have been happily married ever since. His ex wife continues to call me an adulterer and has ...

I'm so sick of being punished for something I didnt do! What can I do to prove to my boyfriend I didnt cheat?

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28 May 2012 (F) - I've never cheated in my entire life. My long lost colleague found me on facebook and ask for my pin for bbm. Since then we where busy chatting. He greeted me by saying hi love once and my bf saw it and now he assume that I'm cheating on him. I've ...

I cheated once and now I can't get my fiance to stop smothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - When me and my fiancé were dating, I cheated on him. We stayed together several months later we got engaged ad we had a baby. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. My fiancé treats her like she is his own daughter. The only thing is that ...

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...

He is a good husband but a womanizer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good ...

This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's ...

Why do girls cheat on their boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Do they do it because they are horny over another guy? I'm not trying to make it sound like guys don't cheat but I already know why guys cheat, because they're horny....

Drunk, hooker and emails to exes (

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I've engaged for 3 years, planning to married soon around this year. We have up and down relationship, as we have different culture (I'm Asian/Indonesian and he's an Australian), but so far, we're trying to get it through. 2days ago, i call...

After 21 years, wife has found someone new and will go to counselling but wants to see him too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Today is my 21st anniversary, we have 4 kids, we have never fought, and just 3 days ago I found out that my wife met someone on a trip with friends. She has seen him one other time since then, again on a trip with these friends, they've kissed ...

I told my husband I want to end the marriage and now he's acting all pitiful

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - After being married for 12 years I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out. He's been cheating which I found out and even after that I've put up for 3 years. We have 2 kids and I have been telling him since a year that I am not happy ...

I'm married, she's married but I love her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4354 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Hey pals I had a wife for 2yrs but had never been happy with her coz she became my wife after impregnating her and was imprisoned but 2months ago I met and fell in love with a married woman who said she never wanted an affair but rather a ...

Is this man who I'm having an affair with claims to like me so much, then why is he avoiding me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Ok I can't believe I did this i never in the 21 years that I’ve been with my husband cheated on him. People on this page can’t think any worse of me then I think of myself. My husband is the first man I ever been with. I’m 38 now I take very good ...

My husband wants to bring another wife into our marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 13 years and have two children. I have severe Rheumatoid Arthritis that has required 17 surgeries. Our life has been stressful, because of the disease, but I try to stay focused on my husbands needs and even ...

I cheated on my husband, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - hi my husband has been gone for two months in a program for people that violate there parole just the other night i slipped up and cheated on him he will be getting out tuesday iwant to tell him my question is what should i do...

Is my colleague playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Why is she doing this to me? and is she playing hard to get or not? I am a guy aged 35 (currently married but on separation) who is interested in female working colleague. She is a 43 year old widow who has one a 17 year old son. We have been wor...

Is this love worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - sooo i dont know what to do... so im 20 and ive been in a relationship for 3 years with a chick i dated my highschool days, I guess you could say highschool sweetheart, we've had a pretty rough past. shes cheated on me a few times, no physic...

My married man said I cant have no one else but him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I have been with a married man for going on 8 months now and it seems that we go well together, meaning the relationship between us just keeps going, we dont seem to have any problems, yeah sometimes i get mad at him when i cant be with him but he ...

Guys, should I leave my wife for a more attractive, younger woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - For the last year I've been having an affair with a woman who's ten years younger. We love each other very much. She's got everything I wish I would have found in someone, before I married my wife. She's beautiful and has a great body, my wife ...

I found out I got clamydia and my new b/f thinks I cheated but I got it from my cheating ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - hello everyone ... 5 months ago my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up ... about a month and half ago i started dating someone new .. well the problem is i just had a check up and i was told that i have clamydia ... i must of caught it from m...

He left me for a younger woman but he still expects me to be kind to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - my husband left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him.when i found out i was crushed, i saw no problems in our marriage. we both worked long hours, spent time together when we had days off. i cooked, cleaned, did yard work, layed his ...

Can't stop thinking about my ex having sex with another guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship that lasted a year and a half. She's in the US and I'm in the UK. She visited me and stayed here for a month and a half. Everything was fine until this April. We had an argument which made me react by blocking ...

She cheated twice but I still love her, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - Hey guys, i need some advice. My girlfriend and i have been together for roughly 2 and half years. We live in the same home town but go to school 5 hours apart. We wanted to make the long distance relationship work. At the beginning of the year it ...

Sometimes I want to call the other guy just for a kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - The story goes like this, i have been dating a certain guy for a year now, the problem is he cheated me twice the second time i decided that we should seperate for a while and that i needed a break. Along that seperation period, i got into another ...

I can't take it! I cheated and told my girlfriend but the guilt is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

22 May 2012 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 7 months now, i felt so horrible and i told her what i did.. i didnt tell her everything i did though with the girl so i started feeling guilty again then told her the rest i did ...

I've been having an affair for 2 years with a family friend. Should I tell the wife and my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i m 22 years old and i guy i love is 44 and is married with 2 kids. we have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. initially when he started saying that he loves me i tried completely avoiding him but slowly he convinced me into falling in ...

I fantasize about other men during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I fantasize about sleeping with other men when Im sleeping with my husband. It makes me sick just to type that. I really love him. We have dated on and off since highschool, and after a big break up in college he got really physical with mu...

I think boyfriend might be cheating and now he's acting all clingy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hi all, just a quick question please to get your views. if you suspect your BF is having an affair, but know that you are quite insecure, and have trust issues yourself and cannot prove anything, so then you back right off and he starts coming on ...

I think my wife is lying about cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

22 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I maybe have sex 2 times a month and all of a sudden she feels way too loose ,so much so that i cannot stay erect and I know this is stupid but i asked her if she was using toys or if she was having sex with someone else ,her reply was ...

I saw my crush holding hands with another girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Omg...I just saw my crush and another girl, they were holding hands, I can't control my anger or whatever I'm feeling. But I have a boyfriend I don't Like him as much as I like my crush. But He's ok though. help I don't know what to do, I though...

Should I go back to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - So i was with this guy for two years and then he decided to join the air force and the closer it got to hi leaving for basic the more he pushed me away and we fought finally we broke up. A week and a half later he's dating this other girl and three ...

My boyfriend is getting on my nerves and making me paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I think I'm going crazy! My boyfriend is getting on my nerves and making me paranoid. We seem to have 2 different ideas of commitment and relationships. Most of all my lack of trust with him right now is ugly. He says he wants friends but he's only ...

What do I do about this cheating man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I am ashamed to say I had a affair several years back and it resulted in my having a son. The man in question is over twice my age at 55 and has three grown up children. After publicly denying everything he then try's to ring and failing that starts ...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered univ...