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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My husband's comment about "you women" made me immediately think he's cheating!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I have suspected for months that things have been going on at my husband's place of work although of course he has strongly denied as he really has too much to lose. However, we were about to go to bed for sex the other evening and it was cold so ...

I'm 8 months pregnant b/f cheated, he lied until the girl sent the video of them having sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I am 8 months pregnant and just found out my boy friend cheated, he said it was a mistake and he's so sorry but I don't know what to do, I want to be with him but I dont at the same time! The worst part is she filmed it and sent it to me, he ...

Is cybersex cheating and is it forgivable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My husband of 15 years was caught having an affair online with a colleague. He left "chat" open and I read all the sordid details. He claims everything happened online but I discovered they had plans to meet. I feel beyond betrayed and hurt and...

I think he's got a girlfriend after seeing a photo of them on the internet. Do I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Hi to all people here n dear cupid..I met this guy his 30 he really seems nice and gentle we been texting 2 weeks b4 we go out for a dinner he's cool guy .. we still texting now and planning for a 2nd date.but I found out tht when I search his name ...

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relation...

Has anyone with retrograde jealousy ever come to terms with it and found peace?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - About 2 years ago I posted an issue in this forum about how my wife cheated on me while we were dating and how lost her virginity to another man. This was despite her telling me she would not have premarital sex with anyone until married and I ...

Is cyber sex considered cheating?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...

The thought of this man really excites me but I don't want to lose my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am riddled with guilt, anxiety, and excitement. I am married 15 years to a man I have known 20 years. Recently I met a man at a place I usually shop. We struck up a conversation, and met almost every day there. Finally he asked me if I am ...

Attracted to a married man. He is making me feel guilty because I pulled away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I had a falling out with this man I work with. He is married. I am single. We have been friends all along but there is an attraction between us which changes the friendship aspect of the relationship into something more and potentially something ...

I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated: I am not sure if I want to be in love. I mean, I enjoy being loved and to love, but it seems that every man I was with had a tendency to cheat or lie, or...

How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have...

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but ...

I want this older man but his wife is fighting tooth and nail to keep him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - hi i just want to know what you all think i should do about this situation. im 23 and i met a guy at work, we have been talking alot, and he watches me when i work, i work in the office on the second floor and he works at the desk on the first floor ...

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3988 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be ...

Is my boyfriend cheating or am I just being paranoid, please help my hearts breaking

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Well this is abit mad but I need some advise, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and I cant help it but I just keep thinking hes cheating on me since one day he was at work and called me and said he has to go back to ...

I cannot imagine making myself emotionally vulnerable after everything I have seen and heard

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3990 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - I grew up sheltered from the outside world. I believed that no one was having sex in high school(at least at mine), that most people were monogamous and honest in their relationships and that cheating was a very rare occurrence. however, A few years ...

How do I know if he has another girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I'm 22. my guy is is 27 and we've been dating almost 4years. We both see each other we pay each other visit ,call each other on phone and joke but now his attitude towards me change suddenly, i don't seems to get him any longer if i pay him visi...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and ...

My boyfriend is out flirting with women while I'm home studying. All I get from him was a drunk text 3 days ago. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Today at night I received a message from our mutual friend that my bf was flirting and kissing with women at some party. Not a woman but women. I am pretty hurt. We had a good relationship but last three weeks he behaved really weird. He didn't w...

Why does he stay with this girl? How do I stop being upset about his relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I can't stop feeling so upset that my good friend continues to be with a girl who is always being unfaithful to him. I've known the guy for a long time, he's a good friend of the family and is really like a family member to me. ...

Struggling to trust my girlfriend after she kissed another man....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - My situation is that my long term girlfriend of 9 years kissed another man at work. She came clean about it all and turns out that this dick has been pursuing her for about 6 years! She said she got curious and kissed him and that she immedia...

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies ...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

My boyfriend is deleting messages on his phone, am I just being insecure or should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - i recently caught my boyfriend of a year and 8 months texting 4 other girls and he deleted all of the messages between them but i searched words on his spotlight search and the messages came up. we broke up for about two weeks and i started back ...

Dodgy messages on husband's phone, suspicions of a prostitute, should I phone the person to see who it is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have been married for almost ten years and we have a six year old son. My husband has always been interested in porn (every year or so he slips up and I "find" something, particularly quite young women although not illegal), but I have had no ...

Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3993 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural...

My boyfriend tells other women he's single when he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I don't know where to start, other than to say simply -- I'm conflicted. I have been with the same person for four and a half years, since I was 17 and he was 18. I was his first serious relationship, and we were each other's first loves. But he h...

I broke up with him because of this girl and now I feel like she's replaced me. I'm really hurt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he was basically cheating on me. He didn't sleep with her or physically cheat on me, but I found out that him and her were flirting a lot and always up talking all night and exchanging ...

Do you think Steve and I will ever have a normal relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I've been with Steve over 1 year. I'd consider myself a fairly attractive and confident 26 year old, he's 31. We've had an extremely tough year so please bear with the long background info. I used to work with Steve then...

Should I participate in hanky panky with a colleague while out of town?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Just feeling a bit naughty I suppose. Soon I will be going out of town to San Diego for a 4 day class and conference. My husband has declined to join me so I am thinking of sharing a hotel room and bed with a very nice attractive young gentleman in ...

He keeps promising to marry me but seven years later...nothing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years an we've even bought a house together cause we were both tired of him renting small places. My problem is he forever promises to marry me an when the time comes he become agressive. On the past 4 months I...

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me ...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3995 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...

Grass isn't green on any side it seems...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - So here is my Story, I am in school for Police Foundation and I would one day like to become a cop. I met this girl in my college that seems to also be going for the same thing i am in seeming we are in the same classes. So we start to talk and it ...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. s...

I have been invited to attend my married lover's birthday party. I don't think I should go, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - Hi.All I'm in a very long term relationship with a married man,please no judgements,we can't end it so it goes on and has done for years. We are both in our late 60's and have known each other for over 30years.he treats me with the utmost respect a...

Does my ex-girlfriend want to reunite or remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3997 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the ...

He "wants to bang other girls"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year at the end of this month. He went on a "rugby tour" with alot of his rugby friends about a week ago, and since then a lot of his people have been saying to me "I just want to bang other girls" now until ...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

I want my ex to regret treating me badly. I want him to know I am happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - My bf and I were on and off so many times. He cheated on me twice and while he studied abroad I found out that he kissed some other girl. I forgave him and gave him a lot of chances. We were in a long distance relationship before I broke up with ...

I like him but I have a boyfriend and now he's acting weird with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3996 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - i've known this guy since i was little. He was a very notorious guy, but now he has become very quiet. He's just tryin to get himsef out of the mess he got involved in. Im a very quiet n simple person, i hardly move out of the house, im a medical ...

Am I in danger of crossing the line with this older married man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - We work together in the same gym. He is married. I am single. He is 15 years older than me. Our relationship in the last couple of months has become much more friendly. He always found me attractive and there was the long, lingering eye co...

I want to get back with my ex but I cant kick my boyfriend out because he owes my parents money! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3998 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been 'together' for nearly 3 years right at the beginning it was a casual thing we were only young and I kissed someone at a party, and up until yesterday that was all I had done. Whereas he has cheated on me 5+ times...