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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...

B/f went through my cell phone messages and thought I was cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Last night I forgot my cell phone in my boyfriend's car and while he was driving back to return it to me, he went through my test messages. To keep it short, he found some messages that made him think that I was cheating on him in the early stages ...

I dreamt I kissed another man, and the same night my husband dreamt about me cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i had a dream a couple of nights ago that i kissed a friend that i fancy, my husband also had a dream the same night that i might go off with someone else now i cant stop thinking about my friend, plus he lives in the same close as us. what should i ...

My husband feels more like a friend to me than a lover, and now I have met someone else....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I am 31 and have been married for 7-years. Our relationship is good – we talk, laugh and generally get on well. The problem is that I feel we are more friends than lovers and for the last 4-years we have not had sex. 6-weeks ago, I met another man ...

I kissed another man, but then my boyfriend found out about him! Do I keep the new man or try to get back with my boyfriend?

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30 June 2010 (F) - hi i am a 19year old girl.i was in love with a guy for around 5years.he too loved me a lot.but now things are going wrong.nowadays our communication ends up in fight.he uses literally bad words at me.i hate it.but in some corner of my heart i feel ...

Will he choose me in the end over his other girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - im dating a guy who has a girlfriend already he's been with her for about a year and i knew but i let my feelings get in the way and i told him i wanted to be his girlfriend too. so we been dating a while im really falling for him and want him to ...

B/f too possessive of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot. but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me...

My lover who told he will marry me after 2 yrs is now calling me sister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in love with my colleague for the past 8 months, i expressed him and he asked me to wait for 2 yrs, and he told he is facing some problems as of now so he asked me not to call or contact him for 2 yrs and i told him ok ,but we ...

I'm cheating on my lover but don't know how to chose between the 2 guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot.but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me.he always ...

I can't work out how I feel or what I want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, there has been good and bad points and on and off points. After uni I moved with him back to his home town in Northern Ireland. It was there that he cheated on me with an old s...

Need some help with a tricky situation, not sure what to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - What the hell am I doing? I was cheated on by my ex for a girl he sees twice a month and i left him. To make it worse,i still see him every couple of months and we always end up in bed. But to be honest, I am still very hurt of what he did, I ...

The baby's father is ignoring me

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29 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years...he cheated on me once at the start but i forgave him...i found out he has been telling somother girl he loves her and they talk all the time....he said he was sorry and again...like an idiot...i forgave ...

Does he cheat because I'm just ugly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hi, i need some advice, its a quite complicated situation so bear with me. i met my fiance 2yrs ago, ever since we got 2gether things have been rocky. no matter what i find out about him he worms his way out of it, he turns it on me, making out i...

I need advice on a relationship issue!!!! please read and comment!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I need help please! 5 weeks into my relationhip i went out without my girlfriend and this girl approached me to say hi, i immediatley told her to fuck off but later on in the night when i was heavily intoxicated i said some things to her, for ...

She is immature and controlling and I don't know if I want to be with her anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I started dating this girl about 6 months ago, not long after we started dating I found out she had a boyfriend. She said it was nothing serious and she was just waiting on the right time before she dumped him. I thought that was okay. But then she ...

Torn between three men but I only want one, but which one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hie here I have a problem caught in three guys.Something I brought on meself.I left my boyfriend in my home country nw its been two years without seeing each other.there was a break of communication for a period of 7 months bt now we are okay.I was ...

Do you think I should try to regain the friendship with my ex without telling my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - What do you consider cheating? I'm sure this is a common question but I have a particular situation in mind, and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend in the slightest. We've been together for 14 months, and are completely in love. Recently, ...

Who has gone too far. Me or Him???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - what the?? OK so I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 44. he has many girlfriends and is very social, and i love this about him. we've worked in the same salon together for 8 yrs, been living together 1 of the 2 yrs we've been dating. generally very happy. ...

Should I forgive him? And if I do how can we get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me for two months. Sorry this is extremely long but we have an unusual background to our relationship. Let me start by saying that we don't have a typical young relationship, we met in a pro...

He cheated and gave me a STD

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me a couple months ago. We've been working on our relationship and trust but i recently found out I contracted a std that resulted in a early miscarriage. Since I have been faithful all 5 years, my boyfriend must ...

My gf seems to be dettached from me. Could she be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - Hi i got a girlfriend and i think she's cheating on me just 3 weeks ago we haven't been txting or seeing each other cause she's got no txt's and busy i really miss her and love her but i think she doesn't love me anymore its been nearly a month :( ...

My husband is acting strange and out of character could he be cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My husband is acting strange,and out of character, although in nice ways, making dinner, cleaning the house,and generally making unusual effort to spend time with me. He has even been suggesting we make love, (he usually says he's too tired!!) H...

Should I tell a woman that I don't really know that her husband cheated with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Should I tell a woman that I dont really know that her husband cheated with me? I dated a guy for more than a year, I was close friends with his sister. We both had our own issues, I lived with a man, and he lived with a woman. My relation...

Let the past be the past? Or warning sign?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I been with my girl for 1 year,we were having intercourse and she yelled out a name that wasnt mines. I was furious and asked her to explain her self. She told me it was the person she was with prior to me,but that wasnt what borthered me. It was ...

What do I do about my secret other life?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Help me understand this man? I have been in a long distance relationship 10 yrs with someone I used to work with.I am married with 2 children whom I adore and would never hurt,my husband is a selfish man,I have been to a therapist who told me if my ...

He cheated to be with me, now is he cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid, I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 1year. At the time when we first met, I was in a rocky long distance relationship and he had a girlfriend of 4months. I began liking him but didn't act upon it ...

How can I be his best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now. Our relationship didn't start off very good-- he had a girlfriend at the time we got together, and it went against everything I thought that I stood for, because I strongly disagree with ...

I have caught my girl cheating three times!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - my girl has been cheating on me, i have caught her more than three time now, she saying that she will not do it again but she keep liyimg to me , im fed up ,what do i do? [Mod note: text was edited for clarity. I hope I got it right.]...

My wife has cheated and claims to be trying to change but I'm not sure how to handle this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - my wife and i have been married for 6 years, about a year ago she found out i had been lying to her about a drug add. we moved into my dad's free home to get away from area. i lost my work do to economy (contractor). she went back to work at ...

I don't want to share my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I have been married for 24 years I love my husband and he loves me. He has become unhappy in the last three years stating he no longer wants to be in a relationship. But he still loves me as much as when we married. Recently he has developed ...

Is he remenissing about his ex girlfriends?

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27 June 2010 (F) - This may sound like a silly question and I know it's not a big deal, but I found that my boyfriend's been looking at loads of pictures of his ex's on facebook, quite frequantly. He once told me how he misses his ex's and wishes he could talk to them ...

Does cheating count when your a kid still?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...

My girlfriend cyber cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - my gf and i were together for 3 years . we lived together one and half and two weeks ago i found out that she texting another guy literally cyber sex there met up last week nd they slept together .she confirmed it in last txt message she never knew ...

I'm still in love with him, I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I broke-up with my x for cheating on me. The girl he cheated with was a 'one' time thing. We were still dating for 8 months after that ended. I just couldn't deal with the emotions and needed to break-up. This happened 1yr ago.. We wanted to hav...

My boyfriend is a jealous cheater

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - No matter what i do he still cheat on me.my boyfriend of 1year and some months wont stop cheating on me i dnt know why and the funniest thing is that the girls according to him cant be rated with me yet he cheat. am a beautiful girl,sex...

My wife had sex with her cousin and wants a divorce

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - My wife a couple months ago found out her cousin on the other side of the country had cancer and wanted to go see him. Well they were never close but I didnt understand why but I let her go, she came back a week later and started fighting afterwar...

He keeps cheating on me and lying about it, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. It is very clear that he and I have a lot of passion for one another. We have everything in common and spend a lot of time together. To make a long story short ... I started noticing signs here and ...

How do I make a choice between two men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - So I am currently in love with two different men. I live with my boyfriend of a year and a half. But i'm seeing another man behind his back. I've been seeing the other man for about 9 months. Prior to this he and i were together for a few months and ...

How do I know if he's actually single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - heyy. right, i just started a new relationship today, literally 2 hours ago. :/ he's a great person and we got on great. he seems totally genuine etc. I'm 17 and he's 18. the thing is, i was looking at his msn updates when i was bored a minute a...

Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not ...

Is my girlfriend using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - [Mod note: OP original title] Hi, I am quite troubled with my relationship. I love her a lot and just her.. I have never tried to cheat on her and would just never do it. I am so sure of my love for her.. But thing is like that there are doub...

Loves Me, But Not In-Love. No Explanation?

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25 June 2010 (M) - [Mod Note: Op's Original Title] I've been going out with my, as of last night, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. Only two years in the age difference, but i think the maturity difference has a big gap. I've been in bad relation...

I had a dream my boyfriend cheated and my emotions are driving him away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I had a serious dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with some chick. i've been suspisious but now its driving me crazy. what should i do he says i'm too emotional for him...

Why is he locking himself in the bathroom with his laptop?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - This guy and i have been together for over a year now. i thought everything was going fine. now he locks himself in the bathroom with his laptop. is he cheating or am i just paranoid?...

I am friends with this family, but I am attracted to the husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I have known this man for most of my life and we have always been close as friends, but lately I have started to feel as though it is more than friends. It feels very natural and normal when I am alone with him and my feelings for him are starting ...

He trades pictures with women and masterbates too often to be intimate with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any ...

After four months, I am having trouble reading the writing on the wall!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - Okay, in a 4 month relationshsip, that basically has gone awall. Awall in the effect, that we both been stubborn towards one another. She wants it one way, and I want it the other way. We both have had a tough few weeks with our jobs. She is ...

My boyfriend's mistress is his music....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my musician boyfriend . But he's always spending time with his music . I go to the gym regularly and there is a really sweet guy there . He's cute and he seems to be attracted to me . I get butterflies around him sometimes and i'm ...

Why would he offer me a job under these circumstances?

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25 June 2010 (F) - I was involved with a married man. We saw each other for several months but we never had sex. So then one day he stopped coming over but we still talked on the phone occassionally. I was laid off from work and several months after, he offered me ...

He lied about where he was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I have know my boyfriend since we were 13 years old. I have had a very close friendship with him on and off. We are now 23 and have been dating for 4 months steady. we had dated for 7 months last year and broke up because we weren't ready to be as ...