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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...

She wants us to start again. What would be the best thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - I have been seeing my girl for nearly a year. My pal is on a dating site POF. He told me my girlfriends photo profile came up in a search, so I checked it out for myself. He wasnt lying. It said she had logged in within the last 24 hours. I ...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

The 'what if' person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2911 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys! I'm new here but felt like I wanted to share an experience with you which kind of made me lose sight of who I was. So there is a guy who for the past four years has decided to come in and out of my life whenever he fancies. He sav...

The Cheater's Badge

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27 April 2016 (F) - Can you ever forgive me? Will you ever believe me? I swear it, I love you. It was not you, it really is me-my fault. How could I ever tell you about it all? I love you because you remind about the best I have within myself. I can laugh with you. You ...

My Bf has secretly been having sex with this woman for more than 6 years. Should he remain friends with her and her partner? I say no.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been friends with this couple for 20 years. They moved states away a long time ago. They email, talk and text Facebook always. I found out recently that he has been having sex with her for like 6+ years and they have secret ...

He sleeps around but lies about it. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Me n my man been off n on for a year n have its been not so good in the first it was awesome then he stopped showing he cared he snaps n yells wants to always go out with out me I have to ask to come or even have a drink with him I have too do what ...

He’s been chatting with women online and now has booked a solo trip to a country where one lives! I need opinions on this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Me and hubby have been together 7yrs and married for 3. We have a 4 yr old daughter..He has been talking to women who he has friended from social media. He doesn't know any of them. But to some he will start talking in a way...

He's with a girl I know. I have a crush on him. Is it love? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Dear Cubid Basically I have had this crush on this guy for a long time now. I know I feel something for him however I do not know if I love. I am young and I do not know what love is yet, but I know I care about him a lot He is is so sw...

I need a virtual shake to get back to reality and stop chatting online with men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I'm worried about some behaviours I have started to develop and want to ask advice. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years with a kind and successful man. We moved away from our home last year for his work and I gave up my job to move. I'...

Does human love really exist? Do you really believe in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - My love life is not exciting at all,all relationships i have been involved they were nothing but heart breaking.I realized that that i was meant to love or dating for that matter. I will never love again. You give your all to your partner,but som...

Should I accept? Ex bf has a gf, but wants to start over with me as friends and see where things go

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - I need to start off by saying I am emotionally in a bad place these last few days, and I may be all over the place with this. I severely need help from unbiased views. I feel uncomfortable talking with friends about this. An ex bf of mine (was ...

Do I end this friendship with my ex? I'm feeling very hurt and confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I'll start off by saving for the past 5-6 months I have been in an emotional tornado regarding my ex boyfriend. It has been hell for me, seriously. And I'm extremely confused about everything I was with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years, HE broke ...

How do I address this situation and this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I got involved with my friends boyfriend A , we still dating even now behind her back.i always feel awful about it.I tried to break up with him but its not working we always find a way to get back to each other. Now A and my friend S have beautifu...

I'm furious my boyfriend exchanged pleasantries with his former mistress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. Long story short. My boyfriend of 6 years was having an affair earlier with a married woman about 3 years ago. It lasted on and off for about one year so I was lead to believe. I don't think I was ever given the whole truth of the ...

My ex and I talk about reuniting but I can't compete with her current boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

17 April 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I talk about working things out on a very deep, personal, and regular basis, but her new boyfriend is ten years older, four inches bigger in penis size, and gives her drugs. She says she wants to get back with me and as soon ...

I want my boyfriend to understand how unhappy I am that he cheated and had sex in a massage parlor

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 4.5 years has been a very loyal and humble person till recently. He had gone on a vacation and has sex at one of the massage parlours. He told me the very next day and has been very guilty and emotionally unstable since then. On the ...

Husband lied for four years about sleeping with my friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years this year, married for two. We have three children together. Two girls and a boy. 7, 4 and 9 months. I have a friend, we will call her Lee, and we started becoming friends about two years ago when she foun...

I told my married ex lover I had a boyfriend and he burst into tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for 10 years and he said that we could be together properly once the children were off his hands,but we split up due to me being bored with the situation....anyway I met someone else and although I don't love him I ...

My BF has two red marks on his neck which were not there this morning. Should I worry he cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - My BF has 2 red marks on his neck. They look like pimples only larger and flatter. They are close together. You could almost compare it to a vampire bite. What could they be? Background: He was supposed to come and see me this afternoon. He ...

What should I ask, when I speak to my Bf, about a stained black dress I found under my Bf's bed?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - I found a black dress with dried up white spots on the front under my boyfriend's bed. I do not live with my BF. I was in his apartment tidying it up for him. Now I wonder if he cheated? First I would like to know, does semen dry white when ...

What do you think of a guy who is torn between two women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - This guy and a girl date for a year. it's not an easy relationship. They fight a lot but somehow make it work. One day he cheats on her, she finds out and they break up for 9 months. She wants him back so they get back together. Right around t...

I'm convinced my boyfriend is cheating on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - I really need help. I have been distancing myself from my boyfriend of 2 years for the last little while. Maybe 6 months or so. It's been a slow and steady process. Designed to protect my heart from getting hurt very badly. I just could never trus...

My friend's sister and I have been secretly seeing each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

13 April 2016 (M) - I have two questions. I'll start from the beginning. I've been friends with a guy "Scott" for a few years. He has a younger sister who is pretty amazing but we are total opposites. She was dating a guy that her parents loved, coming from a politica...

My husband has had an affair. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2935 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - My husband has had affair. We have been married 30 years?. He had affair 16 years ago. Our two kids know about it. What should I do?...

BFcheated and confessed the next day. Do I cut him some slack because of his honesty?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 4.5 years. Everything was smooth until now. My bf had gone on a vacation and had sex with some random girl. He knew he was doing the wrong thing and wasn't drunk but it still happened. He's still away but ...

He says my vagina is too loose and that I'm cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend since i was 16 im 23 now. Our sex life has always been good but now he has been saying im too loose and he thinks im cheating on him, which im not!! I have been feeling the difference also but im not sure why my vagina is ...

She never checked his social media or snooped around, now I want to expose him! What do you think of my plan?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - My best friend has been seeing someone for the past 3 years and was starting to fall for him. I did a bit of snooping on his social media and found that he's been with a girl for over a year now. My friend trusted this guy 100%, so she never ...

Do I expose his lies or just blank him ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

7 April 2016 (F) - Hi everyone 4 week ago me and my ex decided to give our relationship another go he spun me lines and i fell for them. My friend is on a dating site and saw him on there so told me im glad she did , im tempted to message him and tell him liars al...

What would keep you from being in a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

7 April 2016 (M) - What's up guys, I've been away from here for almost a year but I've had something on my mind for quite a while that I'd like to here people's opinions on why they don't want to get into relationships. I've heard this from a large number of my fri...

In debt and I'm feeling low. Is there a way to get through all this pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

6 April 2016 (F) - I feel my life is going down a dark hole. me and my ex decided to give our relationship another go but hes made no effort and is on a dating site , he doesnt know that i know hes on there (my friend told me so i checked it out myself ) i have 1 ...

I gave him an ultimatum, but am wondering if I’m being an idiot for giving him a last chance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

5 April 2016 (F) - Me and my current partner have been together for nearly a year now. i moved from manchester, fifty miles to be with him. we live together, our sex life is great, everything is going smoothly. we've discussed our future, kids, marriage etc. Howeve...

Should I respond to my ex? Do you think I would look like a fool if I did? Or should I leave it and just delete his number?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

4 April 2016 (F) - 3 days ago, my ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue and asked if I wanted to meet up for lunch and catch up. I decided to ignore the text completely, but honestly it has been on my mind constantly ever since. I think the reason this is botherin...

My dad is having an affair! Will it last?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

4 April 2016 (M) - My dad is having an affair with the tennant that lives in our house that we rent. She is literally the scum of the earth (this is not an opinion). She is possibly on job-seekers allowance, claiming benefits, she's never owned her own house ever, all ...

Every relationship I've been in, every person I've ever dated, has always left me for someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

3 April 2016 (F) - I feel like I've been finally worn down by constant romantic rejection and heartache. Every relationship I've been in, every person I've ever dated, has always left me for someone else. My ex with whom I was with for years, left me for someone e...

Met this girl online but now I feel I've lost a new friend. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

2 April 2016 (M) - I recently made friends with a girl online and we really got on well to start with but past week we have had arguements around me being moody because I get anxious when waiting for a reply; I end up being rude. She is in a relationship but has chea...

Do you think he and his wife think they'll get back together? what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

1 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a man who's 6 yrs younger than me and he's married with 2 kids but they are not living together. This is the second time they seperated. When I first met him he said he wasn't sure what was going on between them yet. They have t...