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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated and lives with the other girl, but he tells me to "wait" for him. Say what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 May 2005 (?) - I'm so confused about my son father. He's 20 years old. He cheated on me and is now living with the girl but he still says he loves and wants to have sex with me and tells me to wait for that. He wants to be with me, but not right now....

I didn't know we would be serious... and I cheated. Now we've broken up but he's still uncomfortable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1062 days ago

29 May 2005 (?) - I'm 18 years old, and after having a bad relationship with a guy, I met someone I fell in love with. At first, I wasn't too serious with him and I thought he would end up being like my last boyfriend. Two months into the relationship, I cheated on ...

If I take my boyfriend back, is he going to cheat on me with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - At the weekend I caught my boyfriend kissing another girl in our local nightclub. He can't remember doing it although I confronted him in the club, he was very drunk! Now he wants me to get back with him and he promises to cut down on the drinking...

I thought he was cranky because of his job... but he was cheating with a younger woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1237 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - My husband of 18 1/2 years left 3 months ago. We have 12 year old boy/girl twins and up until maybe a year ago I actually thought he loved me. He was a good husband and good dad. I thought his criticalness and irritability of the past year were ...

I just can't move on, even though my late husband gave us his blessing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1238 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - My husband died of cancer about a year ago. We were separated. Before my husband died, he gave my current boyfriend and I his blessing, yet I'm still holding on to the past and I cannot move on. I feel like I don't have closure and it's ruining my ...

My boyfriend called out someone else's name in a dream...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1238 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - What does it mean when my partner calls out a woman's name in his dream real passionately? he said he was dreaming of having sex with me but my name ain't ????? and I have been away for a week. Do you think he has cheated while I've been away?...

Should I have let my ex back into my life after he cheated with a mate's girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1239 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - I was in a relationship for 6 years and we have two children together, and we split up 6 months ago because he was texting his best mate's girlfriend a lot. I found out that he had been going round there all the time and there was something going on ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend, even though I know he's cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1043 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - I'm in my last month of pregnancy and my boyfriend recently started to cheat on me. At first he was always here for me and now it's like he wants nothing to do with me. I feel that it is me, but is it really me or is it him? Should I stay with him?...

I'm ready to forget that my guy slept with a friend, so we can move on... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1233 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - I dated a guy for four years, then we split up because of various things like work and money normal stuff, but one of our so called friends decided to play on the bad stuff to break us completely. I think she was jealous of what we had. But but my ...

Do I ignore the rumour and trust my boyfriend, or might there be some truth to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1233 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. However, I have been overseas for the past month. We agreed to stay together but last time we spoke he told me that there was a rumor about him and a girl back home and he wanted to let me know ...

I'm engaged to marry the father of my kids, but he doesn't thrill me like I wish he did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1243 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I just got engaged to the father of my two children. Last year he went really strange and broke up with me while I was pregnant then I found out he had started seeing somebody else... It took him a year but he realised his mistakes and regrets them ...

I think my bf cheats all the time... but then he convinces me that I'm nuts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1244 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - Please help!! I feel like I am losing my mind! I have been with my partner for over 4 years and living with him for about 2 years. He cheated on me badly at the begining of the relationship which I am convinced was going on for about a year; in...

The more he hides his phone, the more I suspect that he's hiding something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1244 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - About sometime last year I found out that my b/f had found other friends while I was overseas studying. there were cell phone messages from these women declaring their undying love for him, and he told me that they were just "hopefuls" - he never ...

I can't forget that my last b/f cheated, but I don't want that to affect my great, new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I dated a guy for a 1 and a half years, and for the first 6 months it seemed perfect, but it then turned sour, yet because I was so in love with him I kept the relationship going. I found out that during the summer he had slept with another ...

I'm playing around because I suspect that he either is... or will be...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1246 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am having problems with my boyfriend. The relationship started as an affair from his end - he got caught and I gave him a temporary place to stay (my bed). Six months later it seems he is still there. I have an opinion of "they do it with you...

After she met her ex and had dinner with him, I don't feel I can trust her any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1238 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my g/f now for 1 year and 6 months but her ex won't leave her alone, and nor will she, texting saying he loves her. Anyway, a few moths ago she went to meet him behind my back, stayed with him 3 hours, had dinner. He brought her ...

When he's on the phone with the bedroom door shut, he tells me I'm imagining it. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1246 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hi I'm 21 and my husband is 22. We've been married for 4 years with 2 daughters. He's always speaking to someone on the phone wih the bedroom door locked and when I ask him who was on the phone to he just says that I'm imagining it. Also when it was ...

My fiance was away for 4 months and I slept with his boss. Now I feel terrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I am to be married in 1 week. I love my fiance very much, but while he was away on a trip to Brazil I felt quite alone as he was away for 4 months, and I slept with his boss. I feel soo terrible about what I have done and I even made a confessi...

I kicked him out after he cheated. Now I wonder if he'll ever reform his ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1238 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - My live in boyfriend cheated on me last year by getting a happy ending massage. I found a credit card receipt for the massage parlor hanging out of his wallet. (Obviously, he's not that witty when it comes to covering his tracks). It was deva...

I don't know what to say to my best friend when she complains about her cheating husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1249 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - My best friend just found out that her husband is cheating on her. Our relationship has become very strained. She gets very defensive when I give her advice or ask her how she knows certain information that she has found out about her husband. This ...

If I admit I kissed my ex, it's over for sure. But would that be for the best anyway...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1250 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and at the beginning of the relationship I cheated on him 3 times, which I am not proud of and told him as soon as it happened. Since then, we have broken up 3 times and got back together...

His other girlfriend is pregnant with his baby. Now I want to know how to move on without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1249 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I started seeing my boyfriend when I was 15. I'm now 18 and he's 22. We were always seeing each other on and off 4 the last 3 and half years that we've known each other. During that time he treated me terribly, kept going off with other women, has...

What are the signs of a cheating partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

10 May 2005 (?) - Hello, what do I look for when I suspect that my fiancee is cheating?...

Do I leave the stable-but-boring relationship for the man who says he "adores" me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - Really need some outside advice! I've been married to a chap for 2 years (together for 7) who is mostly wonderful except for he hates the fact I am much more social and flirty, naturally than he is. I was like this when he first met me (at 18), but ...

I'm keen on him, but I can't be sure how he feels about me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1251 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - Approx a month ago I started seeing an amazing guy, he's gorgeous, fun and has a great personality, oh and great in bed. The problem is that he doesn't seem as keen on me as I am on him. Plus I've just ended a long term relationship with my caring ...

Don't know whether to marry my "a-bit-boring" boyfriend, or not!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have been with boyfriend for over 5 years now and we are about to get married this year. We also have a place together. In the beginning I was truly in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him, but as time went by I fell out of l...

I never worried about cheating before, but now I've heard my new guy had a fling with his ex's sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeing this really great guy for about 2 months now. We get on really well and he is great with my kids. The thing is I found out today that last year he had a fling with his ex-girlfriend's sister. Usually this wouldn't bother me, but ...

I've rediscovered my "other man" and now I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1251 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - HELP, A few years ago I met a gorgeous man, unfortunately he was in a relationship (and I am married and have been with the same man for 10 years). Anyway this man and I started a sexual relationship and it had the potential to be a lot more than ...

I already know that something was going on. I just want my wife to tell me the whole truth...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - i have been married for 5 years and been with my wife for 8 years. During this time life has been good and we have 2 wonderful children. Recently I have found out that my wife has been having an emotional affair with a guy at her work place. T...

My girlfriend has been acting weird and different... is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - I just wanted some help on this situation. Me and my Girlfriend have been together a year and 2 months now. I'm 17, she's 22. Yea she's old for me. We have been together off and on. We are now, we have a kid together. She already has a 3 year old...

I didn't get to enjoy our threesome... and now I can't stop thinking of the other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1256 days ago

5 May 2005 (?) - I am married to a wonderful man. We wanted to spice up our love life so asked one of my husband's male work colleague to join us in a threesome. But after I gave him oral sex he backed out of the idea. Problem is, I want to take it further,...

Can't seem to stop myself from snooping on my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I'm a jealous person and I always thinks my man is cheating on me. It gets to the point where I try to figure out his passwords to his emails and stuff, just so I could read his emails to see if he has anything from any other girls. I know it's ...

When he gets phone calls that mean "nothing", he still rushes to answer them...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend gets lots of phone calls from so called "bunny boilers". He tells me they mean nothing but he always walks away from me and tells me to shush when they phone. Has he got more than one girl?...

He had his choice and he chose her... but now he wants me, too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - Over a year ago my best friend was given the ultimatum by his girlfriend: her or me? He choose her but now he constantly rings me telling me how much he misses me. I've told him to concentrate on his relationship and to forget about me but he's ...

My best mate treats his wife terribly... but I've loved her for 12 years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - I have been in love with my best mate's wife since I met her 12 years ago. 3 years ago she started going out with him. He treated her like a queen at first, but now he's just nasty to her and ignores her. I'm so jealous. I couldn't believe it when ...