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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I suspect my husband of cheating but can't confront him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi, where do I start! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 children. Over the last 3 years I've found several occasions where my husband had been trying to get the attention of other women by both texting and facebook. I'm ...

I gave my ex another chance, reunited and I am pregnant - now I find out he cheated and lied. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi To cut a long story short. I've been with my partner for nearly two years. A little less than a year into the relationship my partner treated me real bad. I don't want to go into too much detail but it left me devastated. We was on and off from...

I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are inti...

Would you consider this emotionally cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I'm posting on here about my friends behaviour with my other friend who's a guy. I introduced them a while back and she and him had a fling, not so long ago, but it ended cause he got a girlfriend. However, even though he's now with someone new, ...

How do I cope with strong attraction to a co-worker who I have no intention of getting involved with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi I need some advice on how to deal with a situation. Firstly I am 23 and do not intend to act on my feelings. So I have fallen for a guy I work with. He seems a lovely, genuine guy and I very much enjoy working with him. To paint a pictur...

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). ...

Going back and forth on my decision to break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. In that period I have cheated on him 3 times, 1 being a one night thing, 2 lasting longer than that. My last affair has been in the last few weeks, and I started to lose feelings for my boyfriend. I ended ...

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...

Found out that my ex had been cheating on me almost the whole time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have just found out that my ex partner has been cheating on me with his best freinds wife I have found sext messages on his phone he Denys it we were together for 5 years but broke up awhile ago this is the second partner I have had that's ...

His Facebook has 300 women and no men on it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm having a hard time with my jealousy over my boyfriend and it has caused a huge fight between us and he is really mad and so am I because I feel he does not understand where I'm coming from and insists that it has to do with my previous ...

I've become friends with benefits with my best friend who has a girlfriend, now I've fallen for him even though I have a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - Ive been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, but now Im falling for another guy, and hes by best friend, I really dont know who to choose. My boyfriend and I have been on ok terms, but lately we have been doing ok. Thr thing Is he never ta...

Why do men cheat?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - Why do men cheat?? Ive had thought my partner of 4 yrs was cheating on me ... in November he moved away 50miles to work saying he qohld come bk every weekend. Well he sumtimes came bk bit also only for a day or one nite ans half the day I kept ...

I love my wife, but I am in love with her sister

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - I think I have fallen for her. Six and a half years ago I found out that my wife had cheated on me, prior to this our relationship had been cold for a while and I found myself having lustful feelings towards her sister who used to stay over fairly f...

Girlfriend talks about new sex positions that remind me that she cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me...

Why is he treating her better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - Me and my ex split up last year and stopped talking then I decided to get back in touch with him. WWe were speaking and seein eachother now and again. Nothing had changed it was just like how things used to be when we were a couple. I then kept ...

Is his interest normal and does this make him more likely to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - I'm not sure if this behaivour is normal or not? I am 45 and my partner is 55. we have been together for two and a half years. We are passionately in love but recently cancelled our wedding. The first thing my partner does every morning is do...

I feel neglected in this "unofficial" LDR

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - This unofficial relationship is driving me crazy! Here it goes, the guy and I live 4 1/2 hours away from each other. We divided soon, we want to get serious. I had sex with a man while we weren't really "talking" and he got upset. We promised after ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month. She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising...

What should I do to avoid making the biggest mistake of my life ???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and I have the best husband in the world but I recently met someone ! We are very close friends but somehow I am attracted to him ! I feel like he is the perfect match for him ! He is married too but I know he is ...

Is the girl in the pics his girlfriend or his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I was so attracted to guy i met at the mall,he told me he don't have a girlfriend. when i check with his friends they said the same thing. he showed me a picture of a girl and said she was his ex girlfriend and they are not together. he asked me...

My girlfriend wants to break up because she has no independence!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

17 January 2014 (M) - Hi, I will try to start from the begging, 8 month ago I started a new relationship with toni who is love of my life. Before that I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex Claire. It was a violent relationship on her part, she use to punch, k...

Has anybody else's relationship become stronger after a cheating episode?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half - we talk of marriage and babies and make future plans. I even had a pregnancy scare and he reassured me by saying that (while it wasn't the best time) we would be fine if we had a baby and ...

First it was just a break,now its an 'open' break, so what does my GF really want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

16 January 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend and i are taking a break from our relationship because she want to figure out what she wants to do in life and i agreed to it. I understand because im in that position too. Then later on we confirmed if it was ok to just talk to the ...

Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in ...

Why can't men treat a good woman right, be faithful and stop that wondering eye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman married 25 years and two children. I married my high school sweetheart, who was a flirt... He cheated on me 17 years ago, and last year... I don't know about all the other years, but I have doubts. He will never admit that ...

Caught my Girlfriend answering ad on craigslist.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I know it was deceitful but I created a fake ad on craigslist to see if my girlfriend would answer and she did. I did this once before and she answered and this was the second time. I replied back and pretended to this other guy and she flirted and ...

I am ADDICTED to HIM!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - When i say addictive i mean addicted to HIM! We had been together on and off for two years, and the relationship that we had was far from a healthy loving stable relationship. Although there were very good moments in the relationship the bad ...

Missing condoms have raised my suspicions

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Dating a great man for about one year and he is not ready to commit. He has been divorced for 5 years and is not ready for a serious relationship ( I know I know I'm stupid for staying loyal to him ) He is 34 and I am 31 I went to his house on Sat...

I suspect my wife is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - I am married for my second time and feel I may have made a major mistake. She is a teacher and on the surface seemed to be the kind of person I was looking for. She was into family as at the time we both had kids about the same age at that tim...

He cheated on me and isn't trustworthy! Do I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - I recently had a breakup after a 1 year long relation .he cheated on me for another girl but now he keeps on sending me texts and calls me and says he wants me back and he's sorry.on one hand i want to go back but on the other hand i feel like he ...

He asked me to leave my Bf. But is it love or lust with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and in recent events he stopped being there for me. Its a long distance relationship so its understandable he gets busy with work but it become all he cares for. Certain things have occurred where i need...

He is cheating on me emotionally with his ex what should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

11 January 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy from last 7 months. But I have recently discovered he’s been emotionally cheating on me with his ex. He broke up with his ex (as she only dumped her) nearly one year ago. Only after that he started hitting on me but now a days he ...

What can I do with my cheating ex's love notes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - So this is my last post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-that-my-ex-said-he.html I'm now over my ex. He's completely dead to me. I think I only hate toward him now. I was reading the love notes and cards he wrote to me which I d...

HIndsight after breakup..I think the man I fell in love with never existed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I am struggling to get over a recent relationship break up because I feel as though it was all a lie and his words were just that - words. I used to work with my now ex boyfriend. We were in the same department for little over a year and in that...

Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman? I have been married for 7 years and from the beginning I have expressed to my husband how I feel about this subject after reading a conversation between him and another women about how ...

How to fight jealousy after she dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - We have been friends for a long time. I always had feelings for her, more than being friends but circumstances made it impossible to show her my affection. Finally I took a chance, when she needed me the most. But it turned out that she wasn´t ...

Isn't coming clean about cheating better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - I found out yesterday that my ex cheated on me with a callgirl. We are living apart and still seeing each other after living together for 3 years. I found his other phone and home and I am not one to peep at others ph, I felt this strong need to ...

I broke up with cheating boyfriend but went back to him. Should I not do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - dear cupids, i need your time today to find an explanation rather than a solution because i think the solution is easier to be told than done. i am in a very serious relation ship with a guy who is working two jobs now to get the money for us...

What would you consider cheating?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

6 January 2014 (?) - I have a question for everyone. Would do you consider as cheating? I am divorced and single and have started dating again. I am talking to a new guy mostly texting and he is very interested in me but is uneasy about me talking to other guys he consi...

My partner betrayed my trust and I don't know what to believe now...and we have a 3 month baby so leaving him is not an option

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - Hi I have been with my partner for 2 years. We live together and have a 3 month old baby. We are both 25 years old and we plan to get married in the near future. He is a good partner and father but I have a problem. When I had known him for on...

My husband left me for my best friend. How is this all going to work out for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - OK, so here's my situation... it's a bit long, but still. My husband left me for my best friend the day after Boxing Day, and I found out because there was a photo of her in a bikini and him topless cuddling up to her in the snow in her garden saved ...

He has been sleeping with my best friend but wants another chance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend who is18 slept with my best friend during our entire one year relationship . He says that he is sorry and doesn't know why he did it bit wants me to give him another chance...

She and me, we are a pair of cheaters!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

5 January 2014 (M) - i'll keep things simple my girlfriend went to a new years party and did shrooms n ectasy and had sex with another guy and she told me about it. i have cheated one her before but i told her and then she cheated one me after that now she did it ...

Am I wrong to keep this quiet or right not to get involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I need help working out what to do for the best here. Basically, on New Years Eve one of my boyfriends female friends got very drunk told me that she had an affair several years ago with my boyfriends oldest brother. He was ...

Is it a normal thing to stay friends with an ex or do those situations usually turn out badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

3 January 2014 (M) - A year and a half ago, my 3 year relationship with my ex ended pretty badly. I found out she was actually cheating behind my back with a mutual friend of ours. I still loved her a lot and tried to work things out but in the end it didn't end up ...

Do I go with the guy that everyone approves of or the one I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - I currently have 2 b.f's both a year older than me.I think I should stop cheating and settle for the best...The problem is I love them both soooo much but I don't know which one is the one! well first guy #1 is sweet,funny and makes me feel good...

Our sexual interests are completely opposite. Can I satisfy my needs elsewhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - I am happily engaged to an amazing man; we are getting married this coming October. He is my best friend, and an incredible person. I love him so much, and the thought of him being hurt is just too much for me to bear. However, when it comes to...

Did my boyfriend cheat with this random facebook girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have gotten extremely close over the last 6 months or so. However, before that, we weren't so close - we only spoke every couple of days, whereas now we're inseparable. My boyfriend and I go to different universities, but in the ...

I cheated on him with my ex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - I am 17 years old about 7 moths ago I slept with a guy for the first time I left him . And now there is a new guy I slept with him, Because he said it was the right thing to do we have been together for 1moth and 2 days ago I cheated when he left me ...

What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

2 January 2014 (M) - my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...