New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244965 questions, 1084303 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in November, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (3), 2 (7), 3 (6), 5 (4), 6 (4), 7 (6), 8 (4), 9 (7), 10 (6), 11 (2),
12 (1), 13 (7), 14 (8), 15 (6), 16 (2), 17 (6), 18 (1), 19 (2), 20 (5), 21 (6),
22 (6), 23 (6), 24 (5), 25 (6), 26 (1), 27 (6), 28 (6), 29 (4), 30 (5),

Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...

How do I move on from here? I feel horrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. When we started dating, he was dating someone else and lied about it. Didn't come clean until she burst his bubble. I did something before him that I am ashamed of. I slept with a married man and denied it. ...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...

My insecure girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Help please I want to save our relationship from ending Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years and 4 months and are considering marriage Right now we want a court wedding because of financial issues But recently today she th...

What's going on between my B/f and this other girl? Do they have a history? Does he want her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I noticed that my bf has been exchanging messages on fb with a girl he's not friends with on fb. She lives in our area according to her profile. I secretly viewed their messages and it seems that they are not flirting or anything. I'm jealous bc ...

Should I leave my husband? He's accusing me of cheating because an ex co-worker randomly texted me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been having problems for a while now but our marriage is still surviving (Husband Money problems, Infertility issues from my husband side, problems with my In Laws , etc). Just to make things more complicated one night while ...

What do I do about my dirty little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - what do i do when i really like this guy, i've dated him before and we've had sex lots of times, were not dating right now, i'm kinda making him my dirty little secret (cheating) but i really like him and i don't wanna hurt the guy i'm with...idk ...

Do you think he could have cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a ...

Girlfriend of 19 years left me for a married man and is now pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi me and my partner were together for 19 years , and had 2 kids , we both now have a child each . we split up 13 months ago and she is now pregnant .i was in hospital and when i came home she had left, it was 2 weeks before i found out that she ...

Feeling used, yet culpable in becoming intimate with a 'taken' man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but ...

I broke up with the woman of my dreams. Why did I do that? What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I'm 33. She is 30. Last year I met her and she was the best woman I have ever met. Gorgeous woman, had her own home in a great part of town, was referring to me moving in with her but for some reason I decided it wouldn't work. I ended up mee...

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...

Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...

Should I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Should i break up witih him? We met on the internet. He tried to have sex with me on the first date. we've been together for 1 and 1/2 yrs 1) He cheated on me. a) with a girl he met on the bus, he told me its because he thinks i am unfaithful...

My former friend with benefits is knocking at my door!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi everybody my fwb and I have just recently broke it off we agreed not to see anyone alse I was fine with that as I never wanted anyoone else and so was he. now all of a sudden he has broke it off with me and accused me of seeing someone else whe...

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me, but I'm having a hard time getting over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My ex bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for three years and I broke up with him because he cheated on me one night he was out at a party. I have not spoken to him since we broke up. I made it clear to him that we ...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote ...

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relation...

My wife's flirting with my younger brother enhances our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - my wife flirts with my younger brother. as we are in an open relationship, we talk and I know it all. when she talk this things we come to good mood and end up sex. such way I feel the way she behave helps our sex life shine. is it harmless ...

Is sex outside the marriage infidelity when it's a 5 year plus sexless marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I have a very long term friendship with a woman. Her marriage has been dead for many years but stays because of her high school children and financial reasons. My marriage has been over for 10 years. During coffee last week , sex became a topic. She ...

His flirtatious behaviour and sexual conversations with other girls really hurts me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - First of all, I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read my question in advance. You see, there is this guy, my ex. We dated for 6 months and had a relationship that was all I had ever wanted. He was honest, caring, understanding and just ...

He acts like a complete jackass towards me but I cant let him go, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Hello. What to do when your boyfriend of almost 3 years stops having sex with you, doesn't talk to you like that anymore, ignores your calls/texts, acts like he doesn't want you around, constantly lies about little simple things, rarely spends times ...

Can you trust again after being with a cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend cheated on me when i was pregnant i stayed with him i probably felt vunerable , 13 years on and 2 kids i cannot trust i go through his phone always imagine him with someone else he has shattered my confidence my self esteem my trust it ...

I know I won't go back so why I am so upset that my ex has moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - i av been on and off for four years with my ex boyfriend. he cheated on me and was foreva on dating sites. this time he has met someone off a dating site and simply moved on. he treated me terrible,but now he has someone i feel angry. i know i wont ...

Why do women who cheat, cheat on someone they love,who gives them security,who they don't want to be without?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Why do women who cheat,cheat on someone they love,who gives them security,who they dont want to be without? I have seen friends lose their soulmate by cheating with someone they knew would never offer a relationship,or anything more than sex. My ...

She has asked for a break, does this mean she is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - When your partner lies and hides things from you and all of a sudden ask for a break with the excuse that she needs time to let go of the fact that I cheated 3 years ago and now she's asking me for time. Does that means she's cheating on me? She ...

Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first be...

Is the past just the past or does it come along into the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hi! My ex was cheating on me because he believed and still believe that I was doing things behind his back. I forgave him, though he asked me to make an end, for if it were the contrary, he had never taken me back. Week passed, and he began to ...

I can't stop thinking about my ex even thought he cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused as what to do even though i know the right way to go. I can't stop thinking bout my ex, i love him so much and don't know why. He's cheated, treat me like crap and eventually kicked me out of his house. I've never put a foot wrong and ...

We've dumped each other and now people are asking questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - i'm 16 and a few months ago i cheated on my boyfriend with another guy from school. later on i heard he had cheated on me and i dumped him. some of the story got out and now everyone is asking question about what really happened. should i tell the ...

My body failed to respond to my ex boyfriend's caressing.what is wrong with me.am I over him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - hai everyone.my ex and i have been broken up for six months.it was a bad breakup (he cheated on me),so i broke up with him.but i have forgiven him.well he asked me back and he has shown me signs that he wants this to work,but i don't know what i ...

I love her but she is destroying my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - This is a long story, but here goes. I'm a girl, and I've been with my partner, also a girl, for a year and a half. After about 3 months of bliss I found out she'd been messaging another girl behind my back, telling her she loved her and that she...

Should I worry about my boyfriend's response or am I nitpicking?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I have read on a few websites that the direction that someone's eyes move in tells whether or not they are telling the truth. It says when they move their eyes up and to their right it means they are constructing a response (lying) and when they ...

My ex cheated on me so why can't I get her out of my mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - Me and my now ex gf have broke up several times due to her cheating and addiction to dating sites. Each time she ends up turning up in an emotional mess and i get suckered,before i know it i am saying to myself, 'i am with her again'. Then within a ...

How do I make sure my husband doesn't cheat again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - i am married for 2 years now. my husband has been cheating me.when i confront him he seems remorseful.what do i do to make sure he doesnt cheat again?...

Could he tell that I had had sex with someone else the day before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - ls it possible for a guy to feel that you had sex with someone else? l had sex with my guyfriend at a party and a day later my boyfriend showed up and we had sex. afterwards he said nothing and ignored me the whole night, in the morning we tried ...

He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a diff...

Feeling really depressed and lonely, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - Hi. I recently started going to college, after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend due to her cheating on me. At the time, I was really hopeful that I'd be able to find another girlfriend at college. But I can't really find anyone. Almost every girl ...

Should I just end things? B/f being mean and I wonder if he's cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and our past isn't the best, however we have agreed to put that behind us and move on. Lately it hasn't been great I have the feeling that he's cheating and he's been being really mean not wanting to ...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (M) - So recently my girlfriend received a text message from an unsaved number. I told her to respond to it and she did it very hesitantly. She responded who is this. I then asked her to turn on her on sound because i was suspicious. So we were on the bed ...

He's ok till we are with others then he starts to get weird and doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 November 2011 (M) - I have been seeing a very nice guy for about a month now. Fell in love and everything is perfect when we are alone together, but the moment we are in a group with friends its almost as if he gets very insecure abut us. He tells me I look around at ...

Why does he have issues with our 7 month relationship being the open?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - hi im in a relationship since last 7 months. the man im in a relationship with is known to have a very colourful past. though, he denies it all and says that he has had only 2 girlfriends in his past. i have nothing to do with his past. i dont eve...

So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...