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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Can you explain how a guy dates many girls at one? Are there any feelings involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I guess this is a question for guys. Why do some guys like to date many girls? I just don't understand how and why they do it. How about the feelings? Do you like one girl better than the other one and so forth? or how do you manage this? Do ...

She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...

I keep dreaming he's cheating, how can I make the dreams stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I keep having dreams of my fiancee cheating on me! It normally happens if we argue and don't resolve it that night, but yesterday it happened randomly. It starts with some girl in bed with him, and me being really hurt crying, etc. and him telling ...

Married women: what made you cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - A question to all you women out there who are married, to a man who has been faithful to you, and yet you decided to cheat: why did you do it? What lead you to cheat? Was it something you were not getting from your husband? Was it something in ...

How do I mend my broken heart? I've been having an affair with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - how do i mend my broken heart? Im a married woman and i have been involved with a married man for the past 5 years, i fell deeply in love with him he said he loved me too. I helped him pay off bills and have been there as much as i could. He is a ...

I think I may be pregnant with my married FWB's baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this isn't a relationship question but didn't know where else to ask I have recently three weeks ago finished with my fwb as I found out he was married with three kids now I think I am pregnant I keep on feeling sick and I'm really tired ...

I think she only wants me on her terms and I've had enough now, should I tell her I don't want this kind of friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Me and my friend are coworkers. She was my schoolmates for two years but we don't know each other very much. when she joins she has a boyfriend who is going to marry someone else they did not marry each other because of religion. I was attracted ...

Why is my ex so spiteful to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I am going through a tough break up we were together for almost a year and he cheated then broke up with me it has been almost a month and yes i have called. And text.wanting answers he blocked my number because i want my sons things back. He is ...

How can I stop letting the past creep up on me and make me upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been through alot! we have a 7 month old daughter, i dont know where to start. few the past few weeks things with my boyfriend and i have been great! they couldn't be better. he is super nice he tells me he loves me every ...

I'm married, and falling to pieces because I had sex with another woman. What do I do now?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I did something really stupid. I had sex with another woman, therefore cheating on my wife. It only happened once and my wife doesn't know. I have no idea why on earth I did it. There's no chance that I'll ever see the woman I had sex with ...

I didn't enjoy seeing my wife kiss another woman. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I'm a guy. I've been married for 2 years. Tonight my wife was out at a friends. I know she's dabbled in lesbian sex, and I'm ok with the idea, or thought I was. Tonight her friend was with kissed her while I watched. (I was at home we were on cam) ...

My boyfriend gets upset when I don't answer the phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - i am 46 single and live in uk and my muslim boyfriend is 26 years old, we met on a dating site. I look much younger than my age,we are planning to get married. My boyfriend gets really upset with me, when he cant get hold of me on the phone. He se...

How do I get over this breakup when I have such strong doubts that he has been flirting with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - it hurts me a lot that i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, because i ve loved him so much.. but i can't also live with a doubt because I think he flirts ...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

How to leave an affair if you love the person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Yes affairs are wrong but if you fall inlove with someone and they feel the same and you determine it's not infatuation and what you feel is love. How do you stop seeing that person and leave them if you love them so much? But deep down you know you ...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

Why is she flirting with me, if she has a boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - There is this girl in my class that I have a crush on! Shes so pretty and has the most amazing personality! I just met her about a month and a half ago. We talk in class and we kinda flirt. Smile back and fourth and she will complement me when I do ...

Is he using me for sex even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - this is a long story, everything i will mention is pretty important to the case but basically i just want a strangers point of view on what i should do... im 16 and i was dating this boy (j) in september, and i really loved him. sounds silly but...

He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...

Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...

Is an emotional affair like texts, emails not cheating and more like porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I am right now very numb... Two days ago I woke up and was going to paint getting ready for my long term bf to finally move in. He had slept over and left his iPad. I was looking at the furniture that we had been looking at the night before on it ...

Why did my g/f make me wait 3 months to sleep with her but she slept with a friend she hadn't even dated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - Ok here goes. Let me start off by saying I love my girlfriend and she loves me. She's 21 and I'm 29. The age thing rarely bothers me. (Only when she wants to go to her younger brothers for parties and such. He's 19 and I'm to old to be a house ...

I know he is chatting to other girls but he denies it, is he cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much and we are mostly in on off relationship for 6months now..but for the past 2 months now we are in serious relationship than other 4months which when off on... but main problem is that i doubt him most of the time that he ...

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told ...

I keep having dreams of my partner cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - i'm in my early 50's divorced almost 9yrs. and can finially say to some that i'm gay. i just started my first relationship 5 months ago, he's 39. i keep having dreams of him cheating and lying to me. prior to this we've were friends the last 4yrs.i ...

Men and fidelity.....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - do men always secretly want to have sex with other women when they are in a relationship/married...to be specific when they are in love with their partner. are the faithful men faithful because they are obliged to? is it that men have to control ...

I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...

I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a gi...

Please help me, I don't know how to silence my irrational trust issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hiya! I am currently in what is by all means the best relationship ever. Not one thing could possible make me happier. He has never once done anything wrong, and I would never think that he would. Here's the problem. Prior to him, I was in ...

How can my husband say he cares but he wants someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - This is long but I need help! I have been married for almost 10 years with 3 kids. I know all relationships have ups n downs. Here's my story! We have had many great times and also are down times. He plays in a band, works full time his own busi...

After only 2 months my girlfriend cheated on me. Do I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - So I found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me! I took her virginity but still she slept with another guy only 2 months after I took it. I know she was a virgin because she's inexperienced and she bleed the first time we had sex. Also, it ...

If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?...

My husband is taking strange vacations. Why is he acting the way he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - hello am married for going for 19 years he is working in australia for going 6 years i feel he dry to me any more i mean he does'nt talk to me, and he take vacation in the philippines some picture he bring is this picture hes girl?an why he has ...

Could my baby look like my lover?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...

Wow! Cheated on twice in a row

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I am devastated to say the least. The guy I have been dating for the last year, I found out was cheating on me. I know that these things happen, but it seems like they are happenening to much TO ME! I don't know what I'm doing wrong? In a nut ...

Should I stay with him and give him an opportunity to prove himself?

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20 February 2012 (F) - Alright so this is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. When we met, he was having problems with his girlfriend and I was having problems with my boyfriend. We both dumped them and started going out. Everything was g...

I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt ...

Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...

My b/f says I will tempt him to cheat because I won't have sex before marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - hello, i have aboyfriend i intend to get married to,am 25 years and want to settle.we slated adate in actober this year to get married.he wants to have sex with me but i want to have sex after legalised marriage.whenever we go out i came back lat...

I'm getting tired of defending myself against boyfriend's thoughts that I might cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I began dating exclusively from the day we met. He calls frequently and tells me he can't live without me and if anything is a bit over-possesive. He always makes comments that imply that I'm ready to have an affair with the ...

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known hi...

Can I send a message to the wife of the man my sister is cheating with to tell her of the affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - My sister has a affair with a married man, it was a lovely affair, and they had slept together one night, from that day he is not talking with my sister and she suffers lot from that. Because he had told my sister what he did for my sister is not ...

My rich, famous and good looking husband is deceiving everyone! Its obvious that he's cheating on me, then why this show that everything's fine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - On my birthday we left for Hawaii and my hubby announced this trip as 'Family vacation' on twitter(11th Jan) but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together! whats this non...

Why am I still sleeping with this married woman despite knowing that out "relationship" is headed nowhere?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - I can't believe that it is still going on after four years! I posted a question regarding this affair a while back when I thought this whole ordeal was finally coming to an end, but it isn't. We stared flirting, going to lunch. etc., back in th...

I slept with a married man and now he doesn't call me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant ...

How do I get back my confidence after finding out my wife had an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

18 February 2012 (M) - I have been married for 18 year to my college love. I just learned that she had an affair with some one that she use to date before me. I have forgiven her and want to move on with our life together but I am badly hurt. My ego and self esteem is ...

I'm so afraid I'm going to cheat on my fiance

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

18 February 2012 (M) - I have a great finacee but her sex drive has never matched mine and I'm fine with it...I love her and we've been in love for years were getting married this upcoming March. I masterbate every morning after my girl goes to work (she works in th...

My college lover: Should I continue with him or cut all ties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - i am in college; A guy and I has been on and off friends for about 2 years, during that time we have had intercourse and also tried become more than friend. During one of our periods of being apart he got into a relationship, but his girlfriend ...

Does anyone deserve a second chance?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - when someone has cheated, should you give them a second chance?...