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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

She had sex with a married "rebound" guy for 6 months before we met. I don't like it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - Hey, I'm on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. It's something that I have caused because, before I met her, she went on a rebound with this married guy (one of her managers) at work (who also slept with loads of other women at her wor...

I am so unhappy that I drink alcohol and cheat on him..why can't I just leave him? Help.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am 22years old and have been in a relationship now for over 6years but have been unhappy for years. Ive tried dropping hints, didnt work. I told him, he promised that he would change and make me happy, which worked for a week, then he went back to ...

He dating his ex and she's pregnant with his baby, but he wants to be with me too. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in ...

I still have feelings for my married ex bf? Help me understand-why we see each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I have seen my ex boyfriend after 20 years hes still the same and we have had fun togther hes married though I dont know whats going to happen between us both.He has a small child also and hes doing well for himself too so why do we see each other ...

There's 20 years between us and he's married, but it's only a bit of fun. Should we leave off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I'm 17, and after a drunken night I ended up fumbling in a back of a taxi with this 37 year old married man. We got intense but we didn't sleep together. I have started seeing him every Sunday, and things are getting more intense as time goes by. We ...

My gf cheated on me and we broke up-so how do I resist the temptation to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago i caught my girlfriend of 4 years, cheating with another man. it was friday night, she went out with her friend to a bar. she called me around 2:20 am and said she was on her way to my house, just down the street from my ...

I still have feelings for my ex who is the Mother of my sons. But I'm married now to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My Xwife and i were married at a young age. We were married for six years and together maybe 2 yrs of the six.Currently we have been divorced for 9 years and I am currently married to another for 8yrs.I am not happy in my marriage and find that I ...

I've just left my married lover-I need to avoid him and stay free of him. Good advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I have just left for my married lover after 3 years. I really need the best advice on how to keep me from ever calling him again and staying free from him. This is not my first, second or third attempt to leave him, but it is obviously somethng ...

I'm pregnant with my divorced, older-man's baby. Now I've seen him in town with his ex-wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I have been secretly seeing someone that is 10 years older than me. We have been together for almost 9 months now. He has been married and has a child. He told me that I was his only one. He said that him and his wife were divorced and I should feel ...

I'm in a relationship of 10 years...but fell love with a married woman. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 10 years,but in the last 6 months I have met someone else, and I have fallen deeply in love with her. We have started to see each other more regularly..as often as we can..and I believe we want the same thing. She ...

I'm happily married....but my heart aches for my wife's married friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - I am 42 male happily married for 14 years. For the past few months I have developed strong feelings towards one of my wife's friend (she is married too). It doesnt mean that I dont love my wife any more. But my heart aches be with her friend, ...

Is this guy putting the moves on me...or just being nice to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - A male acquaintance of mine, he has flirted with me. But he wears a wedding ring. He has touched me as well. On the arm, occassionally a stroke on my back Now he works in this place i am a customer there, sometimes when our works canteen is clo...

The other woman showed me his love letters to her..to prove the affair and he still denied it! How do I get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - My partner had an affair about 2 years ago. Even when she gave me all the letters my partner had written to her he still denied it saying that she had written them to get him into trouble and used to get really annoyed if I questioned him. Even ...

I made a past mistake and kissed a another man..now my bf doesn't trust me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do about trust issues? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He has always been jealous, fights ensuing everytime I want to have "me" time with my friends. Usually I end up staying home, or driving...

He did x, y and z... Will he do it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - in the beginning my boyfriend left for for another girl and later on i took him back then he felt on a girls breast and butt, the last week he slept with his ex and told me. now he wants me take him back and i did. will he cheat on me again?...

What was my motivation for a drunken snog with another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend, when I was extremely drunk and kissed another guy whilst my boyfriend was overseas. My boyfriend has been in another country for 2 months and is away for another 5. He's the only one I want to be with for the rest of my ...

He has a gf but I slept with him..now I think about him all the time! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Im in love with one of my best mates, he's got a girlfreind but i know theres something missing in there relationship because we slept together. we get on so well and i just cant stop this feeling. i think about him all the time. i dont know what ...

He's with someone else but we were so good together...is there any chance for us in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Hi Sorry about such a long question. But I really need advice on my exs feelings! The guy I still believe is the love of my life, the one etc.. has just got a new girlfriend. I'm devasted! We were going out for 3 years, thought we loved eachot...

My husband had an "email affair" (maybe more?) and not sure I'll ever get over it...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - This happened a few years ago but there are times it comes back to haunt me. My husband had an 'emotional' affair. This all started happening when our kids were 6 and 2. He always talked about "Kim" at work...she's so nice, blah, blah. I always ...

Should I confront him about his unfaithfulness now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Dear Agony aunt, I'm 22 and I have just broken up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. We were together a year and a half and also lived together. he still contacts me but says he can't be with me. I have just found out he has been sleeping wi...

An eye for an eye... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I'm having heavy petting sessions with a married associate of my ex-husband's. They are okay associates. My ex and I are working on reconciliation in regards to our relationship. What troubles me is that I enjoy the other guy's company both ...

I thought that he was the one, but he cheated on me twice! How do I avoid similar situations in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I'm just after finding out from my ex thats hes going out with the girl he cheated on me with just 6weeks ago. we were going out for 3 years and I really did think that he was the one!!! I'm heartbroken, we hadnt been getting on for sometime but...

Any encouraging thoughts about this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - So I've given my boyfriend a second chance after he's cheated on me by kissing a girl that I used to work with. To be honest with everyone, I've been a complete emotional rollercoaster... One minute, I can put everything behind me and I'm totally ...

What caused the sudden change in attitude and attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - Recently I started dating a man who stopped by just about every day. After I had surgery, he was stopping in to check on me. We went to dinner almost every night for a week. He stayed over a few nights... then bam- one day he seemed different. He ...

It kinda feels wrong that he's cheating on her to be with me! Is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - ok so I really like this guy alot and he likes me alot too..problem is he wont get rid of his girlfriend...he tells me that he tried to end it with her..but she wont let him go...so really he is cheating on her with me...i dont no what to do it ...

Best friend is going to lose her virginity with her boy. But I've slept with him! And still want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - My best friend is with a guy who's a lot more experienced than her. She's still a virgin, and he said he'd wait for her. The problem is, I really like him. One night he was drunk, and we ended up having sex. We swore we'd never do it again, and ...

My boyfriend talks to girls from his past online. Now he says it's "his way or the highway"... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I`m in an relationship with my boyfriend. Who goes online and wants to talk to women from his past. I`m really bothered by this, But he thinks there is nothing wrong with it. He says it`s all about trust. I`m not allowed to show him affection around ...

What should I do if I think my husband is cheating? Any signs to look out for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I think my husband may be having an affair. How can I tell, or what should I do?...

Torn between love of my life and love for my son... B

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

20 January 2006 (?) - I have been married for 12 years and then one day, I got an email from the real love of my life that had broken down 15 years earlier. I won't get into why it did not work out then other than to say we were young (early 20's) and careers and ...

I fancy a friend at work. We're always chatting on email, but he got uncomfortable when I told him I was attracted.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I recently told a co-worker that I was attracted to him. But let me first explain: We talk a lot about work on the phone and email and sometimes I see him in person. I have told some work related items about some other people and items of importance ...

He cheated and we worked through it. Then I cheated too and my husband walked out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I really need your advice. My life is such a mess. I'm married to the man of my dreams but we have been seperated for about two months. The seperation was hard for me to take and still is, to the extent where I tried to take my own life. I even saw ...

My man and I have been together for just over 2 years. For over a year and a half, he had another girl on the side and didn't bother to tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I have been with a man for just over 2 years. 1 year into the relationship he moved in with me and my children. He has asked me to marry him. I know find out he has had another girl for over a year and a half of our relationship. I found out, he ...

How do I react when my co-workers find out I was seeing him while he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - hi, ive been seeing this guy from work who has a g/friend. its over between us but i think he might have hinted to people what we got up too! his g/friend also works with us...how do i react when it comes out?? ...

Did I do the right thing, breaking off with my lover to fix my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I am married and have a son, about three years ago, I was very close to my co-worker, we were very good friends until we feel for each other. At first we agreed to only have a little fling, but as time passed we both started to fall hard for each ...

I need to cheat on my boyfriend. It gives me a thrill!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started going out with each other when I was 13 and he was 16. We are very happy together. We moved in with each other when I was 16. In the first year of our relationship I cheated on him, because ...

I fell in love with him first...then I found out he's married He's also underemployed and addicted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - My heart is in turmoil because a few months ago I met a man I love very much, but the circumstances of our relationship are causing me great emotional pain. Before meeting him I had been alone for many years raising my son on my own. After falling ...

Boyfriend took me to Italy... I now found he almost gave a "bella" Italian girl his card!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he took me away to Italy. When we were away we went to a nightclub. A few days after i found a card near his wallet with his contact details on it and saying on the card that "I am with my girlfriend ...

I got into my boyfriend's e-mail account and found that he was contacting girls on a personals website just a month after we got together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - i recently got into my boyfriends email account and found his ad on the personals website where it showed he had contacted a few girls to get to know them better about a month after we got together ...i dont know how to approach him on this as he ...

Am I mad... Or is my sister sleeping with my man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - For a long time, I have had a suspicion something went on with my man and my sister. I asked and was told I was being stupid, so left it. The trouble is, whenever they are together I feel like there is something between them. This has gone on for 2 ...

I'm all that... But they're not. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am a beautiful, successful female. I own my own home and am financially independent. No children- 2 dogs. Why does it feel that I only attract men who have a child/children? Don't get me wrong- I love kids and they aren't the real issue. It just ...

He left because of my nagging... So should I nag him about whether he was seeing women while we were together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - My husband has walked out on me reason does not love me anymore and sick of my nagging. The last few months he had been totally withdrawen from me could not stand coming home from work or facing me. He had been working shift work for years. Since ...

Am I doing the right think by breaking up with this "kissing" guy... Or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Two days ago, exactly, I broke up with my boyfriend after finding out that he had cheated on me. Yesterday I went to his house to get my shoes and sweater. While I was there he was crying, and telling me how much in love with me he was. He said that ...

Is cheating contagious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Hi... If a boyfriend constantly has friends that are either cheaters or way younger than he is, is this a warning of what our relationship will be like in the future?...

I am having sex with the new CEO of my company...and loving it! But I'm married, and I think my husband has caught on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 y/o white married female. Six months ago my company hired a new CFO who is African American. After one month of working with him we have some type of sex almost every day. I love it from him and can not get enough of IT from ...

My boyfriend was upset after his uncle died, so he kissed another girl (with tongues)! Does this count as cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years kissed another girl (with tongues)the other day, he found out in the morning that his uncle had died and he says he was upset, so he went with this girl we both know to a coffee shop where they chatted for a bit before ...

He was in a serious relationship while he was "hooking up" with me for casual sex. I feel like he has no respect for me... How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - I had dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half. The last four months of our relationship we were both miserable and decided we needed to take a break. We broke off the relationship but still were "hooking up" once a week or so. He ...

How can I resist the temptation of an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

16 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I could really do with some advice. I'm in a happy long term relationship , My partner is older than me and has a strong personality . We have the odd disagreements about things but nothing out of the ordinary. Our sex life could be better b...

My boyfriend denies that he was shopping for escort services, but then why would he have directions to the place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I saw a bunch of weird numbers in my bfs cell phone. Then I went on our computer and saw that he was looking for escorts, and guess what else I found? That the weird numbers belonged to escorts. There was one in number called a few ...

One minute we're friends, and the next we're having an affair! I'm so confused... Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm extremly confused I meet a guy and he has a girlfriend, we have started seeing each other as friends although we have slept together a few times but are not anymore, just hanging out... Don't understand what is going through his head one...

I know it's wrong, but I have feelings for the guy I used to sleep with, even though we're both in a relationship with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, whilst I had broken up with my boyfriend I meet a guy with a girlfriend although he didn't tell me this i confronted him and he admitted it they have been together for 6yrs and have a child together. Stupid me continued the relation...