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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...

How do I learn to trust and regain my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I am seeking some advice on how to get beyond the things that have happened to my marriage and my self esteem. My husband of six years (together for 10) cheated on me with an 18 year old girl. He actually left the kids and I for about ...

I want to stay with him him so much. Heart or head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and ...

I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all ...

How can I catch them if that's the case? I suspect they're cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - we have known each other for 7 years now. I cheated on all my girlfriends with her and allowed her to ruin the relationships. Never made it official with her. I finally have in 2 months ago... About a few weeks ago we've grown distant. We meet up no ...

Is a kiss just a kiss? Was THIS kiss just a kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of four years kissed a work colleague. We were going through a rough time and it was during this that the kiss occured. A few weeks before the kiss she had told me she wasnt in love with me anymore......... i had threatened to end it a ...

Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married ...

He won't have sex with me because I had a one night stand. This is breaking my heart.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hiya well im 17 and my bf is 27 we have been together for 3 years and i love him dearly i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he says that he wants the same. well the problem is about 1 and 1/2 years ago while we was split up i had a one ...

I'm sure he's "at it". I want to catch him. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - About the beginning of last month my husband started acting different. One morning when I woke up, I decided to go onto his MSN and his facebook to see what I could find. On his MSN hotmail he had an email from an adult sex site. I got the password ...

We are ready to work at our relationship. Why then do I keep fantasizing about the guy at work I cheated with?

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30 June 2008 (F) - I cheated on my bf with a guy from work. We broke up because we had so many problems but then he showed me significant changes that made me want to be with him again. We talked some things over yesterday and I wanted a fresh start so I told him abou...

She's showing the same signs of cheating again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey heres my question... Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for over a year now. we broke up a couple of times because it was obvious that she was cheating on me, so i broke up with her. we got back together about 2 months ago and everything w...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

We kissed and I felt bad, because I'm with someone else. Now what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, I know he likes me too. The other night we had an amazing time, cuddling, kissing and talking. I felt really happy. I fell asleep beside him, and woke up smiling when I seen him. I don't know where we stand, or if it's goi...

Mixed Messages from a guy who's got a girlfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I ended up fooling around with s guy at work on Monday, then afterwards he told me he has a girlfriend and I work with her too. Today was the first time I'd seen him since, he was sending really mixed messages, one minute he was shaking his head at ...

How do I know if my husband has had sex with another woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - how do i know if my husband has had sex with another woman...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

"Oh, i'll just have to take somebody else with me and send you a post card"...What should I do about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend with whom i have lived with for 3 months asked me to go away on holiday with him at Christmas. I said yes and now he wants £2000 from me to go snow boarding with him, which i do not have. I told him that i do not have that kind...

Please help me save my relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - how do you say "im sorry and i will never do it again" to a man I cheated on twice? I really really regret it and I love him to death. I am so mad at myself for ruining this relationship. He left me after 6 months of finding out. I tried EVER...

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 June 2008 (?) - Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

He's dating someone else but I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Ok, a guy is already involved with someone else. He says that in the past 2 weeks he has been drifting away from her. He visits me more than he does her and we spend evenings together just chatting and enjoying ourselves, there was a time when I ...

Is he cheating or am I just really paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I am 23, pregnant, engaged to a great man but I think he is cheating on me. He keeps his cell phone glued to his side and has been acting strange lately. I get the chanceo once in a while to look at his text messages and there is only one girl on ...

Do you think he cheated/left 'cos he couldn't take the insecurity anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and were together for 18 months. He left his girlfriend of 7 years for me, who he's cheated on all the way through. He'd also cheated many times on his girlfriend of 5 years before that but dumped her for the next. He told...

Is my gf done with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Ive been with my highschool sweetheart for over 2 years now. I miss the days when we had sex constantly, sometimes 3 times a day. Now I feel unloved and neglected. we have sex 1 or 2 times a week and it always feels like im pressuring her or like ...

Can players ever be trusted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Can someone out there please tell me - what is a "Player"? I hear of this reference alot and just wondering what are the character traits of a player, how does he relate to women. What does he REALLY think of women? Can players ever be trusted?...

I want to end my relationship with him but I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - i really need help with this. i met my boyfriend 2months ago and we barely know each other before dating.he told me he was an investor and he loves spending and he was also a young millonaire. we met through myspace and hookd up and afterwards ...

He's cheated on all his girlfriends and now I find condoms! I'm pregnant with his child so will things just sort themselves out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with the guy Im seeing for 7 months,I am also 5 months pregnant which caused tons of probs but seem to be sorting themselves out now. So after an awful few months of finding out we'd be parents we have recently started getting on. I've ...

She was my rock, she meant everything to me, but I cheated. What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I used to go out with this girl who was my rock. She meant everything to me and still does to this day. The problem was, i cheated on her with this other girl that we will cal sophie for arguements sake. I cheated at the beginning of the relations...

Does it sound like he is cheating? How do I get a straight answer? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I know this is kind of long, but please read and please respond. Thank you! I’ve been in a turbulent relationship with my children’s father for the almost 13 years now. I chose to stay with him despite everything we have been through (job loss, un...

I emotionally cheated on him 3 years ago and he can't get over it! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of nine years are in a huge fight. It's to the point where we haven't lived together in over a month. I take complete responsibility. Three years ago I had a emotional affair with someone, no sex. Well three years later he can't ...

Are there any faithful women out there ,...or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - All the women i have ever dated cheated on me one way or another i looked at my self more closely i didnt see anything seriously wrong with me and how i treat these women is it ok to think that there are no faithful women out there no more ?...

She led me on and then completely broke my heart, and It still hurts like hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I'm hoping someone can help me to get a better understanding of what's happened to me recently. I was seeing a lovely girl for three weeks. It was only a short fling, but she was very keen and things got quite intense quickly, mainly because she ...

He tells me he loves me, is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (?) - Hey :) What are the signs that a boy likes you ? because i dont really know if im recieving mixed messages :S i mean the boy i like has an on off girlfriend , and then flirts with me most of the time and tells me he loves me, is he leading me on ? ...

I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other an...

We are both in relationships but I like him. Does he really care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - just wanted some advice. I have been working with J for two years. I love him. We both have partners but have said we are unhappy. We have always been there for each other etc.... I am leaving soon ( in three months) and i love him so much I ...

I need some cheating boyfriend advice about catching them in the act. Can anyone help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My Story: Ive been with this guy now for well over a year, I gave up everything for him to move interstate so he could be round his family and friends and Ive given my absolute all to the relationship. About 6 months ago I checked his email to find ...

He's moving away, should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend who live in the same state as me but different city. He use to live near me, and we been together for 3 months, and then he moved. i want to know if i should stay with him even those he is known for cheating on his girlfriends. ...

I am obsessed with the girl my ex fiancee cheating on me with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I found out my ex-fiance had slept with a co-worker behind my back. i posted a distressing agony on here. but the thing is i am obsessed with this girl. and i say girl becuase she was only 17. I just cant explain it, but im obsessed. i hate her and ...

He asked for another chance and messed around on me. I caught him and now I want REVENGE!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i split up wiv my long term partner of 8 yrs last yr.i have a 4 and 2 yr old kids and they took it hard.alot was trust issues.i had herd rumors about him sleeping with other women but always took his word for it but he never trusted me ie;going to ...

Is he really cheating on me!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - ok im going out with this one guy name john and i love him ! so much ive liked him sence the first day i saw him and i know he loves me back because his friends told me that he liked me alot and other stuff and when he asked me out it didnt seem ...

How do I find out if he's having an affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - my husband had an affair he denies they slept together and were just friends now he has a lot of female friends i dont know i may have met her in the supermarket once and have been introduced i think he's up to some thing again but have no proof and ...

Dated his cousin and now---he doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - About one in a half years ago I did something bad. well my boyfriend now, we've been together for a year in a half now, well before we were together we were together for a month and broke up but i can't remember why. Anyways he decided to get with ...

A text is just a text... or is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and about 2 years ago he cheated on me. i decided to forgive me we are all humns and i believe we al deserve a second chance so i forgave him. but mving on our relationship just like many other has ups ...

I'm fed up with this cycle in our 4-plus year affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I am in a 4year plus extra marital affair. I love this guy and supposedly he loves me too. We both are controlled by our spouses. I have had enough with both my husband and him and have told my husband that I want change(he is mentally and ...

How do I convince that I'm sorry and it will never happen again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - For four months I have been back in a relationship with my ex, who is also my best friend and a guy I grew up with. I love him, but we were planning to break up when I leave town for 6 months, and so I cheated once. It was a drunk mistake, I regret ...

I am obsessed about my appearance since I have been cheated on! Worried I might develop an eating disorder...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - since my boyfriend slept with another girl and we split up and got back together i have found myself constantly obsessing about my looks, before i see him i will make sure i look the best i possibly can even when we are doing things that require me ...

Should I tell my mom I caught dad having sex with my best friend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Hi, i dont know what to do, i caught my dad and my best friend having sex in the kitchen. they did not see me (or so i thought)...what am i going to do????? My friend is 16, she is very flirty with men and wears very revealing clothes and al...

Am I destined to a life of sexual frustration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - hi all i am 34 years old and i am so sexually frustrated alot as to be honest, my husband does not satisfy me sexually (we rarely have sex) but i cant help but think, is this the way i am going to feel for the rest of my life, being sexual fru...

Why can't I stop thinking about this man I had a thing with??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi aunts while i was going through my marriage separation, i met and had sex with a man who i had known for 2 years, i had worked with him, there was always something between us, he declared he love me and we are ment to be together and the...

Should I isolate myself in order to make a decision about who I want to be with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - For the last 4 months or so I have been dating a guy. its been a really cool relationship, completely laid back and just fun really and also hes helped me through a lot and been completely supportive without putting pressure on me. However, i dont r...

Is it safe to be with a girl who cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - is it safe to be with a girl who cheated me? i wish to be with her, but i hav lost the trust. i wish to regain it by time. she gal says that i will never gain the trust again, and its better to stop.... she is also not suer that she wont repeat the ...