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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my frien...

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himse...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after ...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...

My husband of 8 years cheated before we got married and NOW he tells me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My husband of 8 years just told me about having sex with another girl about 2 years before we got married. I was immediately tooken back when he told me this last night. I mean, why now? Why didn't he tell me then? I tell you why, because I would've ...

My wife is cheating, but doesn't want to leave me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Thing between my wife and me have not been right for a while. She has been chatting a lot to other men online. A while back I found out that she was sending naked pictures to these men. I thought she stopped but recently she started talking to an ...

I am having an affair with someone who is in a relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been having an affair with a guy from school. he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about a year. we have not had sex, including oral sex, but we have been messing around and spending nights together. this has been going on ...

My wife is cheating to relieve her depression

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) - my wife is cheating on me, she's been very depressed lately over losing her daughter's custody. suddenly she changed and i didn't know how, she became more active and happy, just a week ago my wife's best friend told me that my wife's having a ...

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all ...

I want to end this two year affair... NOW!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

He's married now, but I am still in love with him! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was in my very first serious relationship with a guy for 5 months before he left for basic training for the millitary, I didnt hear from him but slowly started finding out that there was another girl in his life, his ex girlfriend before me. we ...

He's lost his confidence since I cheated on him and I don't like how it has changed his personality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm in a long term relationship and currently engaged to be married in the next couple of years. The thing is, things seem different between me and my partner these days. It seems that over the years our roles have changed somewhat, I used to ...

After my divorce, how can I keep close bonds with my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - My wife of 14 years left me for another man, the divorce was final 8/28/08. She left on 5/2/07 and took our 12 year old son, as I expected. Since then my relationship with my son has deteriorated to the point that we haven't talked in over two ...

He cheated while I was at my brother's funeral and left me for the girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend of 5 years, we were so great together! We have two kids! My brother died and so I had to fly to florida to get to his funeral and my neighbor called me while I was there tolled me that my boyfriend had a girl at my house and she ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

Fooled twice ! Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We met online in 06 and started dating in the late summer. He had just gotten out of a divorce where his ex cheated on him multiple times and had a child with another man. I know I'm the "rebound" chick, b...

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...

I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. The problem is I don't know which one to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. the problem is i dont know which one to choose. course the other guy i have been dating him for five years and this present one its only been seven months please help confuss ...

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a mont...

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex ...

I'm still in love and missing her terribly, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I'm a married man in a love affair with a married woman. It seems that her husband has an idea of my exitence. Because of this she says she cannot seem me anymore the way we used to!!! But having said that we talk everyday and she tells me how much...

I want to save my marriage so how can I make him understand that I love only him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Around a year ago I finally married my first love of six years. We have started dating very young, well at least I was (I was 14) and he was a few years older then me. Through out these years, I’ve went through so much drama its crazy. I am a Ch...

I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she ...

I found out my fiance was unfaithful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I found out my fiance was unfaithful. We haven't spoken since. I feel that I need to be told if the whole 8 years we were together was a lie, that when he told me he loved me it was true. I sent him a text explaining that if he ever cared for me ...

I suspect my husband is having an affair with his old girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (?) - hi think my husband is having an affair with his old girl friend who he has a son with hes 21yrs,I did ask him and he said no way she phoned him to ask about advise on buying a house and he only phoned her 5or 6 times so he said, i found his phone ...

I think the only reason we havent hooked up is fear of rejection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend as of few weeks ago, but I like this guy who has a girlfriend of a few months, and I think he likes me too. I think the only reason he and I didn't hook up yet is because we're both afraid of rejection by the other, and we're ...

I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal for a long time. It really upset me because the things he was saying to her were too deep for me. I confronted him and he says everyone...

We are together 1 year 6 months, but he keeps "wandering". How can I make him fall in love with me again and forget about the other girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 1year and 6months everything was going great, untill he met some girl in another country. we have broken up atleast 5 times and we kept trying because i believe in this relationship, but he is very distant from ...

I've recently split with my boyfriend who I loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me.He still had feelings for on of his past ex's. Now he calls me for long chats. What am I to make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hello, im really confused hear I've recently split with my boyfriend who i loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me and he still had feelings for on of his past ex anyway, are split was his choice but we still talk often,anyway i usually speak to ...

How can I tell him I KNOW???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice recently I went threw my boyfriend's fone (I know I shouldn't have) and found that when he had gone out he had met a girl and now hes been texting her asking her to send pictures of herself and things like that. It's kil...

Can someone please tell me what I really am to him? "Occasional" girlfriend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hi.. there's this guy that i've had something going on with, on and off for a while .. a year or two? and i mean 'going on'as in physically.. he was my first kiss and i was really into him BUT we never dated. he never asked. i never asked. and the ...

My guy friend tongue kissed me...do you think he 'really' likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - well, my guy friend tongue kissed and cuddled one night. now, he said he was sorry for kissing me and that he was sleepy. he also said that he did not want to give me the wrong impression. when we kissed it did not feel like he did it on an ...

Been having sex with my boss for over a year! Confused about how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boss and i having been just having sex for over a year but i think he would like more if we both were not married, first he calls me all the time and wants me around him all the time and is trying to inpress my kids somewhat but i'm confused ...

My world is total devastation, caused by an affair!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My world came to a crashing an total devastating end at the end off July when I found out my wife of 25 years and my partner and soul mate as I seen it of 27 years finally admitted that she was and had been having an affair with her teacher ...

She wants a "back up" guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do ...

I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I was in love with my ex I cared deeply for him we broke up because he cheated on me... well one month later I moved on and I found someone new, I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me... Why do I feel ...

How do you get rid of a broken heart?

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27 October 2008 (F) - How do you get rid of a broken heart when it’s been broken by 2 men at the same time? I’ve been married 25 yrs. and it’s been a rocky marriage. My husband is living in another state managing our 48 unit apt. complex which has caused a lot of ...

How can I overcome getting low when I don't hear from him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man who has a partner but says he will keep in touch with me ( we have just become good friends and I am happy as that)! - He rings on occasion - when he can get away - but on nights he doesn't I start to really panic that I ...

I am hurting so much right now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost two years. In that time he has finished with me two times and cheated once. He got back in touch with me the last time swearing that he would never hurt me again, so i gave it another go as my ...

Both married but infatuated with each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have a friend (guy) was working with me. Both he and I are married, he likes me a lot and once over the phone he kissed me and said he loves me. I kept silent. We both know that we like each other so much. I changed my job and went to another ...

My gf is the one for me but I kissed a girl in a club whilst I was drunk...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have been through everything together. She even stayed with me through depression. I vowed i would NEVER cheat on her because she IS the one. I love her so much. Last weekend i went out with s...

My bf kissed my sister, I ended it, and now my sister keeps trying to talk to me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend (im 17 and he's 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with me. My sis (she's 15) was watching it with him well I was in the bathroom. Than I came back and I saw them kissing but I could my sis was push off. I yelled at them then ...

Why won't husband admit to cheating even after getting caught?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am agonizing over the thought of accusing my husband of something as terrible as cheating. I have evidence; however, he continues to deny cheating on me and as a result we are in the process of getting divorced. I need to know from people who ...

Lost and depressed..did I allow an old flame to 'take me for a ride'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Hi, been looking for some help and advice as I feel very much on my own at the moment and feel that nobody else is in the same boat as myself. Looking at the site however, I feel that there are people who are experiencing the pain I am going through ...

She says she loves me but forgot to tell me...that she's with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - have been broken up with my ex coming up six months now. all the time had been saying she still loves me ect, on the 14th she had told me she still loves me, did i still love her so i answerd her, but got no answer. The next morning i get a text ...