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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a r...

When my boyfriend and I talk on Facebook he wants me to pretend to be another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have developed this 'thing' where for some reason when we speak to each other on Facebook it's like he's talking to another girl. I know he likes to role play occasionally and that is fine or whatever ... but does him pretending ...

I think I could come to terms with my boyfriend cheating on me if only he would be honest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for a year now. Our relationship is perfect all but one thing. I think he cheated on me. Inside I know he did but he keeps denying it. Me and him went out one night to a rave and he had taken drugs, he disappeared an...

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it b...

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. ...

Was listening to a man moaning on youtube cheating on my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I was away from my husband, who doesn,t like phone sex, and I decided to play with myself unsuccesfully, so i listened to some random moaning on you tube that helped. I feel bad and feel like I cheated on him. Am I wrong to have listened to the ...

Does what appear to be scratch marks automatically mean your partner is cheating on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Does what appear to be small scratch marks bring you to the automatic conclusion your partner is cheating on you? It's nothing obvious and he has rashes and a skin condition. The lines don't seem to last long either and they are on the back ...

Is my boyfriend's brother attracted to me? What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I really don't want to sound arrogant or full of myself but I think that my boyfriend's brother may be attracted with me and need an outsider view of the situation to tell me if I am looking too much into things. I also fear that I may now be attra...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

Falling for guy in long term relationship - don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am falling for a male friend who is in a long term relationship. We met through work (at a social event- we don't work together so that isn't an issue) and have developed a connection which at first I brushed off, knowing he had a girlfriend. We ...

Do I stay with my wife or go off with my soul mate?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - My question is should I stay with my wife and have a routine life or go and be with someone who I believe is my soulmate. I have tried hard to make my marriage work and my wife is a very decent person but I feel as though I am living with a sister ...

Does he love me even if he hasn't taken me to his place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I have bn with my bf for 3 months now and he has a two year old daughter. I jst recently discovered his ex was pregnant and he admited. He stil chose to be with me bcoz of the love we share but my concern is I have never been to his house. He has bn ...

What do I do? Find a passionate partner? Or go for a comfortable existence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - I'm in real trouble, I'm in my mid twenties now and final year of uni, I have a brilliant girlfriend of a year and a half. She's really nice and clever, come from a great family very well raised. We would have a brilliant life together if we ever ...

We "click" but he's married! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hello. Thank you in advance for reading this. My dilemma is that I met a man with whom I have a strong connection, understanding and physical attraction....but unfortunately he is married with 2 children. We met via a study forum and met ...

My stepmother is cheating on my father and abusing him, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello. This might be a long story so I have tried to condense it. I feel distraught and powerless. My dad and step mum have been together around 5 years and things have gotten out of control. This woman has been married previously 4 times and my d...

Does it seem odd that so many of my BF's exes cheated on him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend had one wife and three girlfriends, all of whom cheated on him. He is hard to reach emotionally sometimes and I think he is guarded due to these past experiences. I have told him I am not them. I was thinking. Does it seem odd ...

How we can combat these problems? We love each other very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - My partner and I have been together for a year. Both of us have had very bad experiences in previous relationships. My ex husband lied to me a lot and treated me very badly. My partners ex's were unfaithful. The problem in our relationship ste...

Feeling shattered. Two days ago I saw my wife cheating with another man. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

16 December 2015 (M) - I caught my wife having sex with another man. She says it was the first time she did this, but she did him with me just 30 feet away and right out in the open when i saw them. He says it was flirting that got out of hand. She says she don't...

I have a feeling my girfriend might be cheating. Should I break up with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - I want to know if my girlfriend of six months is cheating or not. At first, she was all chatty and flirty and quite honestly, all over me. But then she would back off real quick and make some excuse to go home or cut off the date. When I asked if...

She said sorry about the 3 way kiss, but what should I do? I'm pretty angry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - My girlfriend who I love a lot was out the other night with me and was really drunk and did a threeway kiss with her friend who was a girl and the friends boyfriend. what should i do? she has said sorry and is upset but what should I do im pretty ...

Is it bad for me to get mad with him? Or am I justified in feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my daughters dad for three years. We've had our ups and downs but have managed to stay together for the most part. Well, in July and August we separated due to him being really different so I packed up and left. We were still being ...

He is secretive about his phone and he becomes defensive when I ask. But could he be flirting online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Pls help! I've been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years. We have a 2 year old daughter together I found his profile on a dating site and it said last active 5 months ago and one of his pictures I took of him myself ! I confronted hi...

Might it be possible for him to be friends with me again? Or did my cousin say something to upset him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So in July of 2013 I started working at this new place. And well I became friends with one of my co-workers. He had a family (girlfriend, and 2 kids with a 3rd on the way) well I fell for him. And he knew I liked him. I ended up losing my virgin...

How can I make him leave his girlfriend for me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So long story short, (and don't hate me) but I just recently started cheating on my bf of 4 years (this is the first time I've ever done it and we also don't live together) with a guy who also has a gf that he lives with and they have a 6 year old ...

What do I do? I really want out at the moment but we have a lot of commitments.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

10 December 2015 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 years. We have recently had a child and are pretty settled but have had our arguments in the past. We were also seeing each other before the 4 years for maybe 4 months. Any way to the problem, maybe 3 ...

How do I approach his relationship with the nanny?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - After our second year of marriage, I went back to work after the birth of our child. With the both of us at work, we decided to hire a nanny. The nanny who was fresh out of college at the time, is an attractive girl but I never cared because ...

My husband and escourts..he claims he just looks at them, nothing else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - I found out recently that my husband of 9 yrs (we have young kids) has been seeing escorts and of course he is denying sleeping with them. 11 months ago, he says he started "looking into" escorts because his close friend was coming into town and ...

I found an unused condom in my dad's car. Is he cheating on my mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - It breaks my heart to know i found an unused condom in the back of my dad car....is he cheating on my mom...God that is gross....

I have never loved anyone like I love my ex. What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Alright, so here's the scoop. My ex boyfriend and I broke up in 2014ish around there. After we broke up we kept talking off and on for like 4-6 months. In that time he never dated anyone else and I had a new rebound boyfriend. Everytime I woul...

I love my boyfriend but don't fee the same anymore and really like the new guy I've been seeing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Hi, so I feel like I have a very stupid question with a very obvious answer, but I'm so conflicted that I outside opinions! Long story short, I'm in a four year relationship by my bf, and have been seeing this guy that I work with. I've been see...

I am not sure what happened at the party but I'm worried about being drunk and cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - About 6 weeks ago I went to an 18th with my boyfriend who I've been with for one year and love so dearly! I would never hurt him or cheat on him and these are my 2 biggest fears. I also have a big fear of ever losing him. The thought of it kills me ...

How do I ask him why he's on a dating website?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - Been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months however we've known each other for a few years. Been really close lately he's spent time with my family and a few days at my house a couple times (at least) each week. However I've been really busy ...

Should I confess all to my husband or should I not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I really need some advise without being judged because my guilt is turning into depression and I really don't know what to do at this point.I cheated on my husband with our neighbor. It all stems from a few months ago when my husband and I we...

Is it all my fault because I didn't tell him I wanted a serious relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - So I really like this guy and he used to really like me but now I'm feel so sad that I have lost him forever. We first hit off and the meeting was quite magical. When we started conversing over the phone, he asked me if I wanted to mess around w...

My husband doesn't want me and yet he's convinced I'm getting it elsewhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - Thanks in advance for replying, should you choose to do so. This is long and strange and sounds more dramatic than it probably is, due to my natural inclination to ramble on. Here's a bit of background: I have been struggling with extra weigh...

What to do? This amazing guy, perhaps my soul mate, just walked out of my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - Good evening, morning, afternoon, wherever you are in the world reading this :) A special message to 'wise owl', I always value your advice to other posters, so would appreciate if you have time to give this a read :) I am after some genuine adv...

I have hurt two boys who mean a lot to me. How do I get out of this mess and get my life together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - hi, i really need your help. I am a compulsive liar and it has caused a lot of problems for me in the past but not as bad as the situation i am currently in. I started seeing a boy a few weeks before i left for university, we've been friends ...

Shocked and hurt. What should I do? My long term Bf lied to me and spoilt our plans

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we have bought a house together and live very happily - we aren't the 'clubbing/party' type (especially him) .. In fact I gave up most of my partying days for our relationship and we usually go out as a ...

Am I a whore for cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I never thought I would be writing this story. I was a woman with integrity, morals and despite being treated like crap over the years by my selfish alcoholic husband, would never cheat on him..and then about a year ago when things were at the ...

I cheated on my current love with my first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - Dear agony aunt, Recently I have been on rocky waters with my fiance/father of my child. I have found comfort in my first loves mother whom I have always stayed very close friends with. After seeing her for a cup of tea and a chat about my relatio...

Am I right to be suspicious of this woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - My partner was working on a woman's house last week and is now doing some (more) work for her. His brother was meant to be helping on the job, but he says he's doing it on his own now. Her number was on the phone but not saved. He said he topped up ...