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Archived questions from: February, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I love him so much I want to give him another chance..but now he doesn't know if he wants me, anymore??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i are in a good relationship, but the thing is he cheated on me when he was drunk. no sex was involved besides oral...but he didn't give he received. i love him so much that i'm willing to give him 1 last chance. he said he wants to ...

When his lover came to the door, I was devastated. How can I ever get over the emotional pain and go on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - im really hurt over how my ex cheated on me. we had been together for 6 years and both enjoyed our time together. i had been in a relationship with him at school and 10 years later we met up and started to date. he is now 34 and im 33. it all seemed ...

Am I wrong to want him to leave the workplace where he had his 5-month affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - My husband confessed to a 5 month affair with a much younger woman. I am trying so hard to forgive and forget but I cannot get it out of my head that he betrayed and lied so much to me. He has been off work on sick leave now for 3 months, since ...

I get drunk and kiss other guys. I don't know why I do it, but I don't like that I do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - I have kissed 3 other boys since I started my relationship approx a year ago. Two have been very recently. I don't understand why I do it. Usually it's because I'm drunk. My boyfriend doesn't have a clue and apart from usual every day pressure...

Can we rekindle our old relationship or should I just forget about him altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 879 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - I dated a man for 2 years about 16 years ago. He was the love of my life and through other relationships and my 5 year marriage that ended last year, there has not been a day that has gone by that I have not thought of him. Over the years, ...

My best friend is married with two kids...and I'm in love with her! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - i fell in love with my best friend and she feel's the same the only problem is she is married with 2 young children.I want more from this relationship i want us to be together and live together. She say's she wants the same. Everytime i bring the ...

My husband won't stop his affair. He even tells me that they're still in touch!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - I have been married almost three years and just found out the end of November that my husband had a sexual affair with a ex girlfriend. It should also be noted that we dated before getting married since high school and he left me once before for ...

My bf has promised his 'uni mate' marriage and a baby!! What do i do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am really really hurt an upset, my boyfriend had this friend, she calls him alot now and then, when i asked him who she was, he replied back saying she is my uni mate, he even swore on my life that shes just a uni mate.... me and my b...

We are attracted to each other but he has a gf-I need advice on what to do before this gets out of hand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 881 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I've met this guy through doing some work with him, which is not finished yet, I'm single and I thought he was, we started text flirting (he started it), it got really flirty and then he told me face to face, he had to stop as he was seeing someone ...

I want your thoughts and opinions on some good relationship questions...thanks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I know this is a 'help' site, but for awhile now I've been tempted to ask this/these question(s). After going through hundreds of postings here on Dearcupid.org and reading the same repetitive worries and cheats and the love-octagons (as opposed to ...

I love my wife like a sister, and I met this other woman who I really like. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - hi im a married man 35 year old some probs in the relationship been married for 9 years the best way i could sum up my position would be i love my wife like i love my sister not that i have one but u know what i mean. any way i had more or less ...

She is with someone else but I get jealous of not him but the thought of others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 880 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I work at a hotel and a new receptionist started. She had been going out with this guy for three years, and had been best friends with him for two years prior to that. Anyway she starts working with me, and there's obvious chemistry between us. I am ...

I think my married-soon-to-be-divorced boyfriend is just using me for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been with the same guy for 4 months now...almost 5. I just recently found out he was married and has a son. When I confronted him about it he said he was going thru a divorce. Then he told me that he stays in touch with her to see his son but ...

He has signed up to dating site and he's looking for sex with women...and MEN! Help me out here

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years now - we are both 20 but I'm at university and he working and living at home. I love him with all my heart, but I am extremely insecure and once checked his email account. I found he'd just ...

I am paronoid that she may have slept with another guy while she was away. Is there any basis for my fears?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Hi there. I have been with my partner for 5 years+.She recently went to Canada with her job.She was away for just over a month. Since we started going out, when we have sex we do not use condoms, as she is on the pill. We have never used a con...

My bf has been cruel..so I cheated on him. Now I feel horrible! Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Please help, I am a horrible person. My boyfriend has been quite cruel verbally/ mentaly for the past couple of months, but I love him dearly. But I went out and slept with one of my freinds. Its tearing me up inside. What should I do. I know I ...

He ended our long distance relationship. Now I have found out there was somebody else but he wants me back now and I still love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 886 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Can someone who has cheated and lied so much really change? I was a in a long distance relationship for three years. We could not handle the distance anymore so decided to end it. After a year he came after me and we resumed where we left off. We ...

My gf says nothing happened but I have a feeling it did. How can I find out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and just recently she went on a cruise with a girlfriend. They met like 5 guys that they hung out with the whole time. She called me every night when she was going to bed except for one night she said they ...

Never suspected a thing, so I don't know if I can trust him after he cheated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 887 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Should I give my cheating ex a second chance? I have been parted from my ex for 9 months after a 6 year relationship. I have known him for 20 years. I found he had been cheating on me as the woman found out where I lived and came to tell me. I ne...

Can I get over him cheating on me more than 80 times?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Is it possible to get over a man cheating on you if he's done it over 80 times? I've thought of counselling but a bit scared of opening 'pandoras box'. I thought I got over the first few but the one's that involve people I know who were friends of ...

My man cheated and lied and promised to change and didn't. Now that we're finished, I'm scared of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Had a relationship that lasted for just under 9 yrs. He cheated on me right from the beginning. More times in the first year than I can even count on both my hands, and feet, at which point I confronted him about it and he said it would stop. I...

I'm seeing my best friend's bf and we nearly got caught. What's the best thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

18 February 2006 (F) - i am seein me best frendz boyfrend we kiss and stuff and we nearly got coaght wat do i do ...

My wife has no idea about my attraction to the woman from work. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

17 February 2006 (M) - I have been happily married with a family now for four years, but about six months ago I met this smashing young lady at work. Since then I have not been able to get her out of my mind. We had been very friendly and flirty and had got on very wel...

He touched me and tried to kiss me when he was with his old girlfriend. Would he have done the same behind my back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

17 February 2006 (F) - I love my ex boyfriend so much. We dated for just about 2 and a half months but I knew him for quite a while before. Before we got together he had a gf and although he had a gf, he flirted with me tried kissing me (I backed away as I would hate to ...

I overstepped the boundaries of her trust. Can we repair what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

16 February 2006 (M) - We dated for 4 months before things ended. After we broke up she treated me like dirt even though I didn't do anything wrong. She is separated from her husband in jail and considering a divorce. She has two kids one with him and one from an affai...

Told a mate's partner about my stalled relationship and we started meeting for sex. Now I have to stop it, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 891 days ago

15 February 2006 (M) - I'm in such a mess I don't know what to do for the best. I'm a 29yo bloke who's been in a relationship for about 3 years now. Recently I've come to the conclusion that we're treading water and not going anywhere. I confided this to the partner ...

My husband is so uninvolved in my life and I've fallen for someone else. Am I unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 31 years old my husband is 55 (we met when I was 18). We have a 3 year old son and have been together for 13 years. We have been living in his home town until our child was born then we moved away to my home and he fell into dee...

I got mad at him for talking everyday to his ex gf-so I pushed him. He got mad so should I apologize?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - Hello, I am a 30 year old female, my boyfriend is a 40 year old male. We have been involved in a relationship for 6 months now. 4 months ago his ex girlfriend started calling, stating that she misses him and wants to work things out. He claims he ...

Not only did my BF cheat, I find out now that he has a 2-year-old son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about five years now. My boyfriend only decided to break it to me yesterday that not only did he cheat on me about three years ago, he also managed to get the girl pregnant so now he has a two year old son. My pro...

He loves his son to much to leave his marriage for me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - Please give me some advice. I stupidly got involved into an affair 5 mths ago and have fallen deeply in love with this man. We were away on a course together and spent every night/day together for the whole 5 mnths. We get on so well and just ...

He's not sure if he loves me and I found out, he's dating another woman! I am heartbroken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - I have been dating a man for 9 months. Recently he told me that he isn't sure if he is in love with me. Now I find out he is dating another woman but he says they are just "friends". I am heartbroken and want to know if I should try to save this ...

I was called a homewrecker by his ex..but she seems happier now that they've parted.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - This is not so much a question, but to let people know how to deal with a situation. A long while ago i wrote to you all asking advice. It was about being in love with my best friend, and although he was married, it was very un-happy. His wife thr...

The phone calls and texts have stopped but is he still continuing his affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - I believe my husband has been seing someone else. We have been married for 8 years and have a 5 year old daughter. Thing is For the past 4 months his bills have been showing that he has been texting her on average 30-50 times a day from morning to ...

We want to leave our marriages, to be together but not sure what's best. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - I have been married almost 18 years and have 3 children aged between 7 and 12 My husband works for himself and is very hard working and earns good money although he is out 12 hours a day 6 sometimes 7 days a week for the past 10 months i have be...

Sleeping with my best friend's boy, but now I've fallen in love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - Somehow I've found myself in a situation where I am sleeping with my best friend/roommate's boyfriend. What should I do when I have fallen in love with him, too?...

Drunkenly kissing a workmate was a big mistake... Do I have to tell my girlfriend about the indescretion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

13 February 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her a lot, and I know she loves me back. She's away at uni now, and I get to see her about once a month. Recently our time together has been difficult and we came close to splitting up a couple o...

My lecturer and I have really connected! How do I make a choice between him and my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - I fancy my uni lecturer and he fancies me. But we are both married.... He gave me a lift home and we kissed, but this is serious, we have really connected. I don't want to give up my course or my husband but we have really connected....oh GOD! Ha...

Why do I end up with the wrong guys? Am I not good gf material?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 893 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - I am a 23 year old female as i have never been in a relationship before as all i have has is a few one night stands but not anyone who has liked me for me probably. I have been hurt over and over again as i throught i was in love with this guy who ...

We broke up so I went on a dating site. The ex bf found out and accused me of cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 893 days ago

12 February 2006 (F) - My boyfiend dumped me after 4 months because i wasn't giving him enough space. 2 days later i went on to a dating site. i honestly had no intention of meeting up with anyone or even looking for someone else. my ex then told me he missed me and...

Is it my husband's indifference that has attracted me to his best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 893 days ago

12 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Wow, where to begin! I'm Married (have been now for 9yrs!) I used to think it was a great marriage and I couldn't believe how lucky I was to have found my Husband. The thing is that since we had children 7yrs ago all effort to keep t...

My boyfriend had a text relationship with someone else, but didn't have the guts to tell me about it. Should I trust him in future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

10 February 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for nearly a year. I have not long discovered that my b.f had cheated on me, didn't sleep with her though. Supposed to of met her a few times. At that point I didn't see him hardly through the week, twice if I was ...

Met a guy I liked, we kissed once then he went overseas... But now I've slept with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

9 February 2006 (F) - Hi I met this great guy about three weeks ago but a couple of days later he went to Australia we only kissed once but we really clicked with each other. The only thing is that I've slept with someone else while hes been away and I feel really ba...

My girl chats online and calls me "her flatmate" to other guys... And then there's her night away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

9 February 2006 (M) - How to find out if girlfriend is cheating without upsetting her??I worried about my girlfriend. I recnetly found out that she has been chatting to lots of men online and always refers to as a flatmate when in fact we are a couple who live together. ...

Found sexual conversations and emails on his computer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

9 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in with each other a week after we began dating. We've been together for 4 months now and I can't imagine my life without him. I love him endlessly, but our relationship has very dramatic ups and downs. We are either ...

Any way I can tell if the married man I'm dating will leave his wife, kids, for me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

8 February 2006 (F) - Why did i have to start dating a married man! It's been almost a year now, he's in his late 30s and says that, even though he loves me, he won't leave his wife because they have been together since she was 16 and they have children together and so ...

He gets drunk and can't remember kissing some girl..can I ever trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

8 February 2006 (F) - im going out with fiance for five years we have a 3year old child. when he drinks hes a totally diferent person while out last week we had an argument and he drank so much he just wasnt the same person .he was up at the bar talking to a girl and the ...

He can't make up his mind between me and his wife. Advice needed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

8 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I fell in love with a married man (no kids) in 2000. Please do not take me wrong..i know just because he was attached , I shouldnt have gone anywhere near him, but trust me did not plan to fall in love with him. He gave me a reason to love and ...

I've fallen for a married man at work-but will finding a new job help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 898 days ago

7 February 2006 (F) - I have fallen for a married man at work I know he likes me but he loves his kids I have liked him for 3 years and I have been in an unhappy relationship for on and off, 14 years. I have now split with my long term partner to look for a free agent ...

Cheated with my "office man", got caught and went back to my boyfriend. Was that a mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

7 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We live together and I love him. For the first year or so iIwas totally infatuated with him. He was all that I lived for. We got together soon after my ex boyfriend of five years left me for a...

How do I get over the distrust... And will he ever commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

7 February 2006 (F) - I recently got into my boyfriend's e-mail account because he forgot to sign off and I got curious. I looked at his messages found out that about 3 months ago, he signed onto a dating site. We have been dating exclusively for over a year and a ...