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Archived questions from: August, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

After being dumped so many times should I continue with this game??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 691 days ago

31 August 2006 (M) - Hi all!Heres my story in brief.I have met the love of my life when we were both 20 but she dumped me.I did everything to get her back but I was hitting the wall. So, I found someone else and got married to forget her(I know its stupid)10 years la...

We couldnt have kids, I went back to the affair for comfort, now its all over ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

31 August 2006 (M) - Hi, I have recently broken up with my girlfriend of 16 years. IT is mostly my fault. I had an affair sometime ago in the past eight years ago to be precice. we patched things up after that and have been pressing ahead since. back in 200...

Things are not the same since I cheated, I really regret it, I love her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

31 August 2006 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend a good while ago and I am very sorry. I was going to tell her but I couldnt get up the courage. Eventually one of her friends told her. She didnt talk to me for a while but after a while she gave me one more chance things ...

He gets texts from his ex but says I shouldn't have contact with my ex! Double-standard? Is he playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

31 August 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and already we have a problem. ive found out that hes been recieving text messages from his ex-gf and then deleting them straight away, and telling me they are from one of his gay mates. to be ...

The girl I love cheats all the while and is destroying me, my wife is great but I dont love her...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

30 August 2006 (M) - My life has been turned upside down. I was in an unhappy marriage and eventually seperated and went to stay at my mums. My wife was supportive and was always willing to take me back and make it work between us. She loved me unconditionally. My ...

he wants to make it work with me but keeps calling this other woman! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

30 August 2006 (F) - After seven years together, we decided to take time apart this summer- and to NOT see other people but think about US. I found out he was having sex with a 44 year old woman with two kids in July. I was sad for a few weeks, but then I started to ...

Am I just being Jealous or is he cheating again ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 603 days ago

30 August 2006 (F) - hello i am wondering if any one can see heads or tales of my story ok me and my parter have been together for three years we have a child of one year old , when we first got together my partner cheated on me with his ex girlfriend well he deniese it ...

He cheated, I will forgive, I ask if he still wants me, he doesnt know!!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 695 days ago

30 August 2006 (F) - Hi. I've been married for 2 years and recently discovered my husband has been cheating. It started 1yr ago almost to the date of our anniversary. He has been lying to me for the past year about this and I learned last month he has been "miserable"...

Shocked and hurt over discovering my husbands address book..with names of his lovers. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

30 August 2006 (F) - I have been in my relationship for 20 years and have been married for 11 years. We have two children 18 and 9. My husband cheated with his two exes and had two children with them ages 14 and 12. He cheated before we were married and while we were ...

If my bf is visiting the GUM clinics with his friends...does that mean he's cheating? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 695 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's friends all aged 20 never had steady girlfriends and so visited the Gum clinic maybe every 6 months. To my surprise my boyfriend also went along. I thought once was ok but any time his mates went he also got checked out too. He ...

Not sure if I can forgive my bf for sleeping with my sister! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend slept with my sister before we dated. I have some trouble forgiving him still. I'm not sure if I can move on from this and forgive him. Am I making this a bigger deal than it is? I haven't been with them in the same room together ...

How do i know if my husband is unfaithful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - how do i know if my husband is unfaithful? He is suddenly not interested in sex. He critisizes me constantly He ogles other women. He wants to have a penis enlargement. He is suddenly working late often. He spends money (up to R1000) ev...

My wifes Collegue claims to have slept with her, she denies it, not sure what to believe ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - My wife is obsessed with black men. Everytime i turn around at a party or out on the street she has cornered a black man and starts flirting and chatting him up. I am torn up about this. I feel she is attracted to my exact opposite. I am white, fair ...

I hate the thought of being the cause of her leaving her husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 681 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - I am 37 years old and back in April met and instantly fell in love with a married woman 8 years my junior. I didnt know she was married at first we were talking in a group of friends and I couldnt take my eyes off her then I found out she was marr...

The 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling is gone with my bf.....but that feeling is there with his best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Ok i'm 16 and my 19 yr old boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and problems are starting to arise. For one, I no longer want to be intimate...Having sex and kissing just freak me out...It's like everytime we do someting ...

I'm wondering if he enjoys the flattery while still maintaining his singledom

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 697 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I was texting a guy for 6 months because he wanted to get to know me before meeting, we have a few mutual friends. Then I started dating a guy I had known for a few years and after 3 weeks he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me forever and ...

I'm cheating on my boyfriend but don't want to throw my relationship away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - i been going out with a guy for four years and im faling out of love i dont want to throw something away for nothing but i am willing to sacrifise.,im messing around with a guy from work who i do like alot.But not sure if he feels the same way about ...

My best friend slept with my crush!! Should I forgive her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My best friend slept with my crush. ive had a crush on a guy named pete for 5 years now and i HAD the bestest friend ever. She helped me get with my crush and she said we were perfect together and i was pleased that she did all of this for me. ...

I Enjoyed watching my wife have sex with other men, want her to do it again but shes not so keen!!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Hi all, I have a bit of a problem. About two years ago, when my now wife, then girlfriend were dating, we were both at University. We were working at a local hardware store part-time as was a number of guys i went to school with. I had a...

I tried a move on him and he rejected me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Please I need some advice, because I have totally made myself look like an "ass". Basically, I was going out with a man for many many years, and we broke up a couple of months ago. So, we decided to meet up for the first time ever since our break ...

I Want to go for a week and my GF will have none of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Please help, myself and my girlfriend have been together 13 years since high school I am now 27 she is 25. We live together and have no previous history of cheating. The problem is I have booked to go on holiday with the boys for a week in Sept and ...

I have cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

27 August 2006 (F) - i have bein going out with my boyfreind for a year and a half he his my soul mate, i have recently cheated on him with someone reaaly special and means alot to me, i dont know how i feel abot him cause a ge reallt jealous of him being with other ...

In love with my best friends girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

27 August 2006 (M) - help i fancy a girl even though i haev a girlfriend already ... she is best mates with the girl i fancy. i wanna dump her for the girl i fancy ... sept the girl i fancy is going out with my best mate!! what do i do ?? im head over heels in love with ...

I slept with my friends crush, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

27 August 2006 (F) - Hey, Me and my best friends' biggest crush (pete) had sex! I know i shouldn't have done it but ive been single for 2 years and ive had 2 boyfriends but my best friend has had no boyfriends and shes had the biggest crush on pete ever and she still ha...

Why is she be so flirty with me, yet want to stay with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

27 August 2006 (M) - i am absolutely falling hard for one of my best friends. problem is, she's in a relationship. but she doesn't seem completely satisfied and i swear she flirts with me really hard. truth is, she cheated on her partner with me back a couple months ...

Caught my bf having sex with another guy! How do I forgive them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

27 August 2006 (F) - i feel used and i dunno how 2 trust ppl again, i recently found my ex bf in bed with my ex best mate and her bf in bed with mine but its worse .then it sounds he wasnt sleepin with her at the time he was havin sex with her bf. I never knew he ...

think I'm addicted to chatrooms as my wife caught me texting other women. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 691 days ago

26 August 2006 (M) - Im a 23 year old male who has been married 2 months now and I got caught texting and calling a few girls I met online. What should I do? I would never physically cheat on her but I believe I was addicted to online chat and text messages. Ive never ...

My bf has been edgy with me lately. So do I: a) dump him b) make it work or c) cheat on him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

26 August 2006 (F) - i no you probably get this alot but im seriously dont know what to do. my boyfriend is a gem he treats me like a princess but lately things havent been the same between us and work puts him in a bad mood and often snaps and starts arguments over the ...

My husband is trying to meet girls on the interweb!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

26 August 2006 (F) - My husband is trying to meet with girls on the net. I know cause I go through his emails without him knowing of course. Me and my husband have been going through some problems and im not sure if this is why he's doin this. To be honest, I dont think ...

Im really happy with my guy, so why did I let someone else kiss me, will things be the same again ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

26 August 2006 (F) - i have the most beautiful boy i could have ever of hoped for we are so happy together and can talk about anything together.....however he went on holiday for a few weeks and i dont know what happened i missed him so much it was really hard being ...

No longer in Love with my husband... but started to get close to a male collegue..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

25 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid i need help don,t no what i am feeling i am married been married for 11 years i have 4 children age between 10-19 i have a great husband but he boreds me to death i love him but i am not in love with him anymore and i feel terrible...

Horrified to find my lovely boyfriend has been posting his willy on "bi-curious" sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 699 days ago

25 August 2006 (F) - I discovered my boyfriend of 2 years posted on adult internet sites seeking 'couples or females'. I recently clicked on the history tap on the internet and to my horror I found photos of my boyfriend advertising himself as a bi-curious male,...

How can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - hey ppl i need ur help how can u tell if ur bf is cheating on u? i know its stupid and there aint really any really questions but anything will do i need to know weather he is cheatin or not...

How do you tell if the affair is over ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - how do you know if an affair is truly over? I only see my lover once a week anyway but are usually in contact throughout the week by either phone or texts,the last time we were together felt wierd because my lover is a friend who people knew i w...

My trainer flirts with me-but I'm married! Am I reading him wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I also have a trainer flirtation story. I need to know if I am reading this guy wrong. I started working with a trainer and we flirted...a lot. He was sweet and always said things that made me wonder about his feelings. We would have very int...

Prison Break

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 696 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Dear cupid im going through something right now my boy friend is in jail for a couple of months and me and my girlfriend was hanging out with her boyfriend and his cousin and i really like him i dont know what to do should i tell my bf thats its ...

Found some texts to another girl on his phone, is he cheating ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 701 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me because i found texts off another girl on his phone saying "hi babe sorry about last night i'll make it up to you love ya" but when i confronted them they said i have nothing to worry about they are good mates ...

My affir with my married guy ended...and I am heartbroken! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Im 24 years old and had a relationship with a married man'age 52. We broke up a week ago. I am involved in a relationship but my boyfriend didn't know about the affair neither did his partner. He ended the relationship because he didnt want to tell ...

Why do I fall for attached men, what is it that is missing from my life ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 702 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - why am i involving myself with married men.just over a year ago i had a affair with my second cousin,i finished it all and it all became very messy,i told my long term partner what i did,well we decided we both didnt love each other anyway and ...

She left and said she doesnt trust me and isnt sure she wants to be with me... what to do now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 703 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - For the past 6 months, my partner and i have been having difficulties. She left me a few days ago and moved back in to her parents', leaving the home we shared together. she says she no longer trusts me and isn't sure she wants to be with me, but ...

I broke up with my married man, he said we have to stop as so far divorce isnt an option...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - i'm in a very bad condition. I broke up with a person who is married and has a child,he was telling that he loves me and and he will get a divorce, but after he was talking with his relatives,because he doesn't have parents, he said to me that we h...

We are both in a relationship but I really like this other guy - does he like me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I've always felt as though there is something between me and this man. I can read his body language towards me and I'm pretty sure he can read mine. But, I just need some kind of confirmation or someone to say I'm getting it all wrong. Whenever ...

Been with my Fiancee 7 years, also been seeing a guy at work for a year, not sure what to do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 702 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have a problem not sure what to do. Im 25 and Ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and recently been disagreeing with most things - petty things mainly. I do love him in my own way but been seeing this other guy from work for about 1 yr now ...

Is cheating ok so long as he doesn't find out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 yrs, he is 27, I am 22. Three months ago I slept with some one else, so I split up with him, but didnt tell him why and he still doesnt know. We got back together three weeks ago, in the meantime, I ...

I'm dating a boy behind his girlfriends back and she confronted me at my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 6 months behind his girlfriends back. He says he wants to be with me but wants to break up with his girlfriend without hurting her too much and without her finding out. She suspects something is going on and even came to ...

Married 9 years, had sex with another man, now he feels bad for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been married 9 yrs. and recently had sex with another man. We had been flirting for months and I thought we really liked each other. I had only been with my husband sexually, so this was a huge leap of faith for me. My "friend" won't really ...

We have both cheated, she with the same person, me as one offs... we are still in love what to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - I ve been married for 5 1/2 years. My wife cheated on me 5 months after we were married and we worked it out. I m madly in love with my wife but started cheating because I was insecure. I went to Iraq for 2 out of the past 3 years to find ...

Do I break it off with my current gf to pursue this new crush? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 702 days ago

19 August 2006 (M) - I have had a crush on a girl for about 6 months. Last night we fooled around while drunk. The part that really gets to me is that after this she invites me to sleep in her bed with her. We cuddle, she plays with my hair, rubs my arm and we ...

I kissed another woman and I have no guilt feelings. Does this mean I don't love my gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

19 August 2006 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for two years and we have a son together. it was going great until about 1 1/2 years into it when we started bickering alot and arguing constantly. we broke up recently but decided it was too hard to be apart. but i ...

I've slept with my married cousin, and I can't stop thinking of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

19 August 2006 (?) - Dear Cupid, Last year I got extremely drunk and my cousin and I got very close. 3 weeks ago we went on a family holiday together and we ended up sleeping together 3 times. I'm feelin so confused. He's all I think about and whenever I see h...