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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Should I just ask him to leave my house and be civil for our son or should I try work on things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I'm mortified my partner has gone away for a weekend with a mate we have chatted every day like normal and made plans to go on a mini break together Except tonight he sent me a message asking me if we are meant to be together I asked him why he...

Is it hopeless or could he ever truly love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I am absolutely heartbroken because I've found the person who I know is meant for me, and I know in my heart that I love him more than I'll ever love anyone. He's divorced (I know this for a fact) and has a little boy with his ex wife. I underst...

Should I just try to play it down, make fun of it, blame it on being drunk and try to keep some of my dignity? Or should I try to be honest and say I put a little more feeling into all this than her, even if that will make things awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - On saturday I went to my best friends place, she's a very attractive woman, she's straight and has a boyfriend, but she knows I'm bisexual and single. We got drunk and I already felt like she was flirting. Then we went to a party and she started to ...

I told her I needed space and now I find she's been having sex with the husband of one of her friends! I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and recently I told her I needed some space because I am currently in school trying to finish my degree in Respiratory therapy which has been extremely stressful. We still see each other once a week ...

I think I made a mistake by judging his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I fell head over heels in love with a man.He was 10 years younger than me. He was a serial cheater. Cheated on his exwife cheated on his ex girlfirends and cheated on his last girlfriend to be with me. It was perfect for 8 months. I knew he was ...

What are the chances he'll come back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked t...

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he s...

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that fee...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we ...

Why does everyone like this girl and want to be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Dear cupid, there is this girl who I know of and I'm quite worried about her and concerned for my friends, but I don't know if I should stay out of it or start doing something about this. Basically, she is going around and fooling around a...

Had a fling at a party, he's in a relationship, and now he's offered to meet up again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Quick question Don't need a lecture cause I know this is bad but I was at a party last night and I was making out with a lot of people but mostly with one of my classmates boyfriend, they are in gay relationship and I'm gay myself. We was a...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

Help, dating younger guy, and he cheated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I am writing for any thoughts, ideas, or help in what has become the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I started seeing a much younger guy 3.5 years ago, (he is twenty years younger). I knew from the very beginning things could only be betwe...

Dealing with my wife's past...need help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I’ve been married for 6 months now and I have been with my wife for 1 ½ years. We are both Christians, but we met while we were in our previous marriages. I found out early in the relationship that she had an affair about 9 years earlier with a ...

Please help! How should I act with my friend now that he has said we should just be friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I need some help as im not sure what way i should be acting with a certain fella. Im usually a push over so im not sure if im entitled to be angry in this situation or not. So please read and tell me how i should act now with this person. ...

I'm in a LDR and falling for another man. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I've been with my current BF for more than 2 years, but we've spent more than 1.5 years in LDR. Honestly, it's a torture, but we managed to pull it through and in a couple of months we'll be able to see each other again for good (i'm going back ...

Cheating, insecure, lying girlfriend refuses to come clean!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hello, and before reading this thank you for taking your time your imput will be greatly appreciate it. Sorry for the typos english is not my first lenguage. I been dating this girl for almost 2 years. The relationship has had its ups and downs. H...

I confessed to my fiancee about cheating before our engagement, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hello everyone. First off I just want to start off with that I suffer and have been diagnosed with Pure-O (Purely Obsessional OCD). I am currently engaged to the love of life and we are about to get married in a few months. However, just less than ...

How do I get out of this? I lied and told my friends I wasn't back together with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi Sorry in advance for the long story ... I was with my boyfriend for 5 years when we broke up, it was a mutual break up but when breaking up he did tell me he had been seeing someone else, i was obviously upset, hated him etc, i ofcourse...

Is 23 years later too late to return to a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Is it ever okay to return to a relationship -in my case that happened 23 years ago- and try again? "John" and I were going steady (in our relationship) till his band went on the road. Well, true to most musicians...he cheated. I found out and left ...

Accidental phone call leads to devastating news - he's getting married and has been engaged for 6 years! Now he's ended contact! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, plz i need your advice on this becoz i am going through the worst days of my life. i m an indian muslim girl, been in a long distance relationship with a pakhtun pakistani guy since 1 yr. we met online and deeply fell in love with each ...

My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did ...

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...

How much do a woman's friends reflect who she is and her values?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - We had some issues a couple of years back when my wife thought about cheating on me. She never went with the other man but considered it. He worked hard to sleep with her and she lied to me about it all until I found out from others. This happened ...

My husband jacks off with other men!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - My husband jacks off with other men I just found out he has been doing this for years. I'm shocked to find this out. Even more shocking, are all the sites where married men communicate and set up times to jack off together. He says he will sto...

I've gone from being madly in love with her to wishing our relationship were over. Break up or stay? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - I'm in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (4 1/2 years). I have two kids (13/12) from a previous marriage. The kids live with me. About one year ago my girlfriend moved in with us. We had some problems during these 4 1/2 years. She woul...

Should I tell my ex I still love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I've been talking to me ex for about a year now. He's married since our breakup. We were together a long time. His wife doesn't know. We talk when she's not around. We spend hours on the phone. Like 4 or 5 hours. It seems he likes talking to me. ...

Can you have sex without feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am super confused, please help me figure this one out! If a guy said he never had relationships with a girl, he only used her for sex, how in the name of everything that's good can it carry on for 2-3 months and no feelings whatsoever developed? ...

Should I tell my friend about a drunken fumble with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I recently went on a weekend away with my boyfriend, two of my friends and their boyfriends. We always go out as a group and all get along really well. One night we was playing drinking games and everyone ended up naked. This is the first time ...

In love with a married man but I cant help myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - i am having an affair with a married guy but i didnt really ask him if he is married. i would say he is because he doesnt tell me where he lived and i cant contact him during night time, weekdays and holidays as well. i have falled in love with ...

Hurt my Current BF to be with my EX , but the man I dumped is not coping HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have a very big problem. So. I had been dating a very nice individual, lets call him bob, for about 7 months and I thought we were very much in love. A few months before I broke it off with him I started to feel distant and then I felt love, but...

Temptation - married man - the devil is toying with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I am a young single woman looking for real love but the wrong type of men seem to keep approaching me they are MARRIED and to me it's not a good thing.Five married men have come my way so far I don't know what they see in me that makes ...

Is jealousy a way of showing that you care?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Is jealousy a way of showing that you care? I'm just wondering if acting jealous is really someones way of showing you that they care about you, and your well being. My bf is not jealous at all, he doesn't mind who I am friends with, who I talk...

Considering getting back with ex who cheated. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Okay, this is a very sensitive issue, and well I would really like some advice, i'm in a very emotional state atm so please don't be too harsh guys :L Recently, i've been thinking that I could get back with my ex. ...

I cheated with my housemate but didn't know how to break up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I realized that I'm unhappy about a year ago, at the beginning of this year I moved into a house with a whole bunch of students because I started college. I started falling for one of the guys I stay ...

I have a FWB, he has a girlfriend but still tries things on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have this guy friend back home. I used to be crazy about him, but when i found a bf i stopped. Lets call the guy L( the one back home). L broke up with his gf when i did with my bf. Both of us cheated on our bf/gf with each other. We became...

We have two young kids and my husband is hiding and deleting texts to a 17 year old girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I recently got in a fight. Hes a 26 year old man texting and messaging a 17 year old girl about our marriage problems, but that's not all. He was deleting their messages as if they were never even talking. I questioned him on it one ...

He never told me had a Gf, but I found out. Then he claimed he broke up with her. Based on his actions has he returned to his Gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a gi...

What can I do? I Slept with BF's best friend, broke up with BF, but still can't stop thinking about his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I've now found myself in this awkward predicament, please give me some advice. Three months ago I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my now ex-boyfriend with our mutual male best friend. The friend and I have always had a close rel...

I want to end this affair with a married man feeling strong and independent. How do I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Basically I have been having an affair with a married man for almost a year now, Despite being pretty attached by now i've finally found the strength to accept that things are never going to happen with us and want to re-gain my self-respect and end ...

On a trip I had a drunken hookup, is it time to end things with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I went away on a university trip abroad and (very drunkenly) hooked up with one of my classmates. I have a boyfriend of two years, and have been having doubts about the relationship for a while but cheating just further assured me - is it worth ...

Wife said she needed space. That was 4 years ago! Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - This is me and my wifes 2nd marriage, we've been together 22 years. married 13. when we met i was unfaithful, a couple of times freshly out of my first marriage by 3-5 months, kept going back sex only.\ now those transgressions are here was of 5...

How do I confess to my wife and my children that I have had countless affairs and 3 children came from these affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - im not in the best of health and im trying to find the lord and confess my sins. just not sure how to tell my wife who im separated from that i wasnt as innocent as she thought. we got married in the military had a son and daughter and i let her ...

Do you think the man I'm cheating on my husband is in love with me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I've been having sex with him for three months. I'm married, he's single.I fell hard for him and he knows it. Despite knowing my feelings, he still wanted to meet me and have contact with me. He told me he'll never become attached to a married ...

What if you can't forgive your partner for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

21 March 2013 (M) - Hello. My name's Luan and I'm writing from Brazil. I'm not going to bother you with the whole story of my life and my relation, so I'll go straight to the point, asking you this. What to do.. If you are not able to forgive your partner after he...

Caught Him in the act. Now what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - About 2 years ago I came home early and found my husband making out with her in my car in the driveway (we have a long country drive) He seemed devastated and vowed to go to therapy and never ever do that again. Found out at counseling it had ...

He cheated. I told the girl, but she went back to him and he forgot about me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I Really need help with this one... So I have been doing a long distance relationship with this guy since last january of 2012 I was going to school in vegas and he lives in huntington beach 3 hour drive not bad. We actually saw eachother alot in ...

Boyfriend kissed a friend who likes him. I know he might let this happen again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I know a lot of people don't believe that kissing someone else is cheating but i do. Anyways, my boyfriend and I have been dating since June 2011, I didn't know at the time we began dating that one of his friends had feelings for him. He told me ...

I cheated with a married family friend and now feel crushed that he has ended things

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I made the bad decision to cheat on my husband but I don't know what makes me feel worse... The fact that I cheated or that the other guy broke it off because he doesn't want to hurt his wife. We are all very close and have been friends for years. ...