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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He found messages from another guy on my phone, but I'm innocent, how can I get things back to normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

31 January 2008 (?) - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months (I’m 27, he’s 25). Everything has been going really, really well, until about 3 days ago. He went into my cell phone and found text messages from another guy. There were two series of ...

He dated me but always had a gf!! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Well where do i start.. im a 17 year old girl and i fell in love. first love and all that. Its been goiing on since my 2nd year in senior school and its always been on and off!.. it got to the year 2005 anddd we wasnt together but got chatting...

Why won't he stop texting other women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Like other posts I have read on here, my fiance and father of my two year old has been texting other women for quite a while. There have been occasions where he has gone out at night and ignored my texts for hours, saying he didn't text me back cos ...

A love triangle, how can I get my ex to forgive my betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I have a complicated problem that I need some help with. me and girl #1 dated when I was in college and she broke my heart and ended up having a child. after this, I fell in love with girl #2,we dated for a year and a half and she broke my heart as ...

Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says ...

He's a musician who doesn't work, we have 3 kids, but I think he is cheating on me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years know. We have 3 kids together and he is a musician. Which means he doesn't work. I am the only working household member. He talks to many females on the phone and tells me it is business purposes but yet he ...

Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened....

My friend grassed me up to my boyfriend. Do I become mates with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - rite this is complicated ..... very complicated. where do i start - well ive lived next door to this lad 4 about 12 yrs and he was best mates with my brother, when my brother went to university me n him became very close n he was my bestest friend ...

How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past ...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he ...

I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...

Did he really sign up on this dating site...just as a joke??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hi i just recently found out that my long term partner signed up to a dating wbsite i used to trust him but after this i think i no longer can we have 2kids together and he has been bringing up my other 2 children from a previous relationship. i ...

He just suddenly dumped me! Has he got someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months and we were fine, we argued a few times like people do. We always told each other if we didnt like something that one of us had said or done. He would tell me he loved me and i would tell him i...

I'm afraid that if I tell her I want more than the sexual relationship we have, she'd stop seeing me (she's my friend's fiancee.)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - My name's Steve, and I'm 35. *all names changed* I've been working with a guy named Ryan who's 25 for the last 12 months. When we first started working together, he invited me over to his house to hang out with his friends and have a few drinks. ...

He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) - I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...

Is there a way I can trust him after he cheated, I thought he was perfect for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I could really do with some advice! I was in a long distance relationship with a gorgeous guy, who I love so much. He is gorgeous and kind - I loved seeing him at the weekends, and trusted him. Well, a year ago, he got a new...

Struggling to trust after girlfriend's affair. How do I discuss my concerns without being confrontational or appearing to be controlling or stalking her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. I thought she was the one and we planned our future together. Due to work commitments we do not live together but often stay at each other's house. A year ago I started to set up my own business ...

I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows ...

I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...

He cheated with his ex and dumped me because I am too controlling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses o...

Is he cheating or was he really just joking??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of over two years likes to play jokes a lot. Recently, however, his jokes have included telling me he has been: 1. seeing someone from his gym for a few months and they really like each alot, then saying just kidding. 2. he is ...

Is he having or had an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - This is an update to a post i put on dated 18.12.07 regarding a "Happy Birthday" text sent to my husband. I have as advised kept an eye on things this month. There have been phone calls between him and her, which would be work related. Last Tu...

I found messages between my husband and his ex on the internet,he went out with her, I can't get over the hurt

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I need advise on somthing that is tearing me apart. I have been happily married for 8 years and my husband and i have a great life together. I will get to the point, he has been using Facebook for the past couple of months and comes home an...

I hate cheating, but why do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, WHY when I'm drunk to I exit reality and hook up with someone.. ALWAYS. I know its wrong too... Self control sucks. Like I just lose it, and I'm tired or it. I'm not partying anymore, I love my boyfriend, can ...

I've been seeing one of his mates for 5 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we recently got engaged! But he doesnt know that I have been seeing one of his mates behind his back for about 5 months!I know what I am doing is wrong and we have tried to stop it so many times but we ...

Am I talking too much to his parents about his affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - My husband of ten years had an affair with a woman for 10 months. She works 2 blocks from his office and they see each other daily. I caught him and he confessed and so did she. Both of them told me that it was over and that it was merely sexual ...

Am I being played?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I've been dating the same guy for almost a year now and slowly over the last 6 months or so i've been discovering many hurtfull signs of him being missleading and even plain out lying to me. Such as having hundreds of pictures of his ex gf and ...

She's a two timing gal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, we had a arugement about a month ago and from what i thought we resolved it. Later i found out she was cheating on me with her ex boyfriend, through this whole ordeal i agreed to stay with her ...

Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, ...

He never came home last night. He cheated before... I'm lost. Can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do i'm with my partner 9 years we have two boys. two years ago when i was pregnant he had two affairs and used stay out all nyt i kicked his ass out when i found out and 6 months later i took him back but i told him never to ...

Want baby to have daddy but he's a bum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i feel so messed up right now and i dont know what to do. im 6 months pregnant at 19 and ive just found out that my ex boyfriend has gonorrhea, he says he didnt have it when we spilt up but he is such a liar i dont think i can trust him. we spilt up...

My friends fiance keeps coming onto me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i've been friends with my mate for about 3 years now. of all my friends she's the craziest and wildist. then she met a bloke fell in love and after 2 months she got engaged. she then fell pregnant (having both decided they wanted a baby straight ...

Why is this a problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

25 January 2008 (?) - I have read about people writing some negative things about the other woman, I have been in this predictament if a man is saying he is unhappy at home and you are there to comfort him be it sexually or emotionally what is the fuss? I believe I ...

She does not want me to be a reason of her break up but we have slept together behind her boyfriend's back. What next? I love her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I have fallen in love with a girl I've known for a year now the problem is she has a boyfriend almost the same amount of time. we have discussed the issue and her excuse is she doesnt want me to be the reason they break up but we have slept ...

I have thoughts of her having sex with another man and it gets me depressed ... can we ever have normal sex again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they...

Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...

Did he cheat on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 4mnths, i was a virgin b4 i met him but he's had quite a few partners b4 me. Recently i have found out that ive got chlamydia. He told me b4 we had sex that he was clean, and he got tested for STIs in december b4 i got ...

Is cyber sex cheating??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...

How will I know if she is cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi guys... Im going through the phase of i think my Girlfriend is cheating on me im not so sure i need your thoughts please!!! and its tricky! I live in derby and she lives in tamworth about 30 mins apart im 19 and shes 17 we met at a party an...

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life pri...

Found out my gf had a threesome and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for almost 7 months now, and just yesterday i saw where she had been posting on here and saw that she had posted about having a threesome with another guy, and a girl. I was shocked when i saw this and when confront...

I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around o...

Will he cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 5 years now and part of me truly beleaves that he loves me and part does not. I was in a very bad marriage. He says that he does not watch porn or looks at other woman on the computer but i ...

He slept with someone else and hurt me...is this a sign I need to run faraway??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Hello there, I was madly in love with my ex bf. We called it quits last month because he told me cheated and also because the long distance was too hard for him. So I let him go as he wanted. We continued to keep in touch via phone, talking a...

How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...

Concerned about people who sleep with those who they know are mairried.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

23 January 2008 (?) - Why is it that advice given to a mistress is way off it seems that people do not want to hurt these people's feelings. Well as for my husband's affair there was no feelings pure anal sex is what she promised online and that turned out to be a ...

A women I've spoken to online a few times has told my girlfriend I've been seeing her behind her back! I'm worried she will end it. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

23 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend just received a message from a woman on the internet claiming ive been seeing her behind my girlfriend's back. I've never met this woman and only spoken to her a few times online, the most recent being over a month ago. I've always ...

She cheated before. I think she is again! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

23 January 2008 (M) - Hi I am 40 and I've been married for 13 years and know each other for 18 I have three children 8, 6, and 4. My wife had an affair within the first year of our marriage but I somehow managed to forgive and give her my trust back. Do you give trust or ...

Furious over cheat claims... But what can I do about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I need some advise people! I was out on a night out a few months ago with some friends from my uni and while out we invited a man to join us. we were all dancing with him, then i got left with him. 5 minutes later i was being accused of cheating on ...