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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I have a boyfriend of 7 years but have fallen for another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Dear cupid,my heart is torn in two and I sincerely don't know what to do.I'm 28 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7years now(I've been totally faithful to him) along the line he cheated twice but I forgave him, and ...

My partner is acting like a single man..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I am just trying to come to terms with my partner of 10 years affair and although he said he loves me and he just did it for some excitement I am finding it difficult to get close to him again And although I thought I would try not to spy on him ...

Is my husband of 20 years getting ready to have another affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - my husband has contacted an old flame on facebook said he has been very happy with me, but after 20 years things are not what they used to be. He told this person he has been searching for her for 20 years and has never been so happy to see anyo...

My LDR has admitted to ongoing cheating. Do I fight for us or sit back while he leaves me for the other girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years just told me he cheated on me...by text message. He met this girl, got her number, has been hanging out with her, going out in groups, hanging at her house, and having sex with her. He told me and seemed to think that since ...

After cheating, does he really want our relationship to work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, just a quick question. I want your views on cheating. Not a one night stand, a full on affair over a period of weeks. The affair was called off before I found out, apparently they mutually agreed that this was not fair and could n...

I have a feeling he's being unfaithful -- what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Okay. So I've been in a relationship for a little over two years. Right at the start of our relationship I had a gut feeling he was lying to me and seeing someone else. I was right. But I will never feel like I really know the true story because he ...

Does my friend want to have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I have a woman friend I've only known for about a year. She's unhappily married I am in the process of divorce. We seem to hit it off and meet as part of a small group of friends. Another friend noticed how we seem to have some attraction for each ...

Old flame returns! What to say or do? He wants to be friends but he doesn't want his wife to get hurt??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I was contacted by my first love on facebook. He said he was happily married on facebook as am I; Our relationship was 33 years ago. We dated as teens and were in love till he went away to school he said we should date others and didn't want t...

I have a girlfriend but want the woman I am infatuated with at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

26 September 2014 (M) - Ok ladies AND gents. This is a long one but please bare (bear?) with me. I have put myself in such a terrible situation and even though I know this I do not stop my actions probably due to my selfish, pig, insecurities and attitude. I don't k...

My cheating married lover has grown cold

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - I got involved with a married man and quickly felt like we had incredibly chemistry. He kept telling me that he feels so connected to me. We met twice , had sex. That part was understood. But now the chase is over. After the second time, he seems ...

My fiance has lied to me and I've lost trust in her. Can this be fixed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - My Fiancée and I have been together for over a decade and have had two kids together. Like most relationships, we've had our ups and downs. A lot brought on by me working away from home and perhaps not doing as much around the house when I get ...

Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple? My husband, who has always been faithful to me recently confessed that he 'liked' another woman he and I both knew several years ago. He had always denied it, but recently he ...

"Just friends" became more, which is a problem since I have a gf

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - I have so many questions: am I having an affair? Am I doing the right thing? Does she think I'm using her? I should probably start with a bit of background. I've known this girl for years, always fancied her, had a mess about when we were younger ...

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my ...

How do I tell my fiance and my friend that I've fallen for his girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - I have been feeling ill with a current situation I have got myself into. I have been previously married which ended after she had an affair and got pregnant. I eventually found my current partner. I have a close friend whom I have known all my life. ...

Why does he stay if I do nothing for him sexually?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - Why would a guy who never initiates sex want to go on sites and chat 2 other women ? My partner of nearly 3 years isn't that interested in sex well not with me ... He gets Viagra from doctor and takes it but it always feels like it's staged never ...

I'm afraid he's cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Everything was fine 6 months ago he said he was.going somewhere and went off to where he said he was.going to see someone i asked him when he returned how it went but said they never turned up although he was missing few hours nw hes on phone ...

He ignores my calls and texts and makes excuses.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Well, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months now, but before that we were dating on and off, and he keeps saying he'll never leave me, but he keeps going on about other girls and he knows I don't like that at all. I've asked him ...

16 years of marriage and I've lost the spark for my wife. How can I get it back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

18 September 2014 (M) - We have been married for 16 years, four kids, financially stable...I have never cheated. I don't think she has ever cheated. This has been building for some time now: when I look at her, there is just no sexual spark. It's gotten to the point where ...

Should I tell my g/f of 6 years about my drunk mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

18 September 2014 (M) - Help I got drunk I usually can control myself but this time I had a slight interest in another girl got drunk we got a little handsie immediately after I was and am ashamed of myself but I put a stop to further action ive been in a relationship for ...

My boyfriend went out with a female coworker and I didn't like it. Should I go out with a male to see how he likes it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - Last night my boyfriend told me that he had a super nice dinner with a co-worker/friend because they were leaving. He then told me how the waiter thought they were engaged and he laughed and told me how he said no. Wait what? The friend was a gir...

She seems to be hung up on her ex, what should I do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

17 September 2014 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year now but have had numerous arguements over her ex. She was with him for amany year....16 in fact yet chose not to marry or have children. They still have regular contact n see one another ...

My heart wants to forgive him, I want this man in my life. My head says he's a scumbag.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - I want to tell you all my situation. I have previously told about this but I left out key details as I didn't want you to tell me to leave him or that I was stupid. I am 21 years old, trainee doctor with a loving and secure family. I met my...

My gut is telling me something is up!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Ive been noticing some weird behavior from my fience. Hes always kept his phone with him but just recently he put a lock on it when I asked him he said his president (of his club) said he either needed to get a new number or put on lock on his ...

My B/f said he was 'glad' that I had found out about his cheating as it has really shaken us and allowed us to see what we were neglecting in our relationship. What did he mean by that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I just want some opinions or insight into this. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years, everything was amazing until around may. We started arguing all the time, we couldn't even look at each other without it erupting into an...

My wife wants a bi sexual thing and has no idea I know it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

12 September 2014 (M) - I've been good friends with a married couple for many years. I knew her well long before he came into her life and before I knew my wife. My wife and her developed a close friendship which I didn't mind at all. This woman told me my wife is bi ...

I cheated -- how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend after a year and 7 months in our relationship. I cheated last week and everything's out in the open. The guy I cheated with was my old friend. This was the one and only time we hooked up since being in a relationship wi...

I'm in love with my friend and he won't end things with his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3507 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Hi there,i am ruhi.for some days i hav been living in a dilemma.plz help.as i have a friend who already has a girlfriend and i feel i have fallen for my friend.for one year we have been talking to each other as a friend but now for last 5 months we ...

She's using me as an excuse while she cheats again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - Just looking for a bit of advice please. It's it a relationship problem as such. I have been friends with a girl for about 6 years now. Quite close. About 2 years ago I distanced myself and didn't speak to her because she was messing about behind ...

Torn between doing whats right by my family and my lover.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair for 5 months because my boyfriend has not fulfilled certain needs however I have stayed with him to try and hold my family together as he is the father my boys (17 and 15) has known for 7 years. There has been alot of ...

He wants to meet me but he is still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - the answer to the question why stay is because , part of me believed in him. Part is sooo scared to find out the truth. he is in the military and he lives separately from his wife because of the constant arguments. He left the city where he used to ...

After 17 years I think he's cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3512 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Hi, thank you in advance for reading this.... Ive known for a while nowmy husband has been doing some serious facebook flirting, recently though i think he has went a step further and met up with someone. This has completely devastated me because ...

It seems clear that my husband wants something I can't give him and nothing will change

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - My husband of 15 years and I are currently seperated . A large part of the reason for the separation was his lusting after other women and porn use. He never complimented me . I felt undesirable and very unhappy. We even went through counselling ...

I appreciate my boyfriend's efforts at trying to prove that he's now faithful but this is not what I meant by 'prove yourself'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! Ive always got great advice from here so I thought I would ask again! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 5 years. Over the summer I found out he was having an affair of 5 weeks with another women. He had ended...

Can't get past the hurt from his cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I found out 4 years ago my husband had a 6 year affair with a ex-girlfiend,we have been married for 29 years,i found out he sent money,gifts,she live in another state,when I confronted him about the imformation I had before me,he begin to cry and ...

She wrote me this letter about her marriage. Should I forget about her and find someone who is single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

4 September 2014 (M) - This may be long enough but i'll try to keep it short and simple. I liked her from school. Never talked to her i was a shyguy. After college we meet on facebook. We started talking. Even she had feelings for me since school. The point now is that ...

He tells me he's looking for a divorce, but ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - Hi I've been seeing my ex boyfriend behind his wife's back for almost a year now. I was very much in love with him at one time. He dumped me and got married. We were together 13 years. He comes to my home and is very comfortable. He told me he was ...

How can I create situations that might help me to get my wife back? I cheated and she cannot forgive me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

3 September 2014 (M) - I confessed that I cheated on my wife, but she wont forgive me. I've read a few web pages. I understand that in order for it to work, she must be willing to try too. This is not possible for her now. She wont talk to me. Please help me think of...

My heart belongs to my ex. Can't sleep from thinking about her. How can I resolve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

2 September 2014 (M) - Dear All, I'm in a serious predicament. Please help... I'll make my story as short as possible. I fell in love with a girl, who I started dating after a few months.. Not knowing she had just broken off with someone whom she had serious feelin...

I had an affair with a younger man and I wanted to hurt his girlfriend so I told her about what we did. I thought this would break them but they're back together. What do I do now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - I've been very stupid. 6 weeks ago I started to talk to a man 11 years younger than myself, he was at work when I met him and I asked for his number for a job that I needed doing in my home. I text him and it started off innocently, I ne...

I'm pregnant and worried that boyfriend is enjoying his last bit of freedom before the baby comes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has barely talked to me at all in the past few weeks. His reasons are normally that he was at work or he was at his one friend's house. Granted, I'm happy if he is really getting as many hours as he is claiming to get consider...

I cheated on my wife and she won't forgive me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

2 September 2014 (M) - Hello, everyone. This is my first time here. I would like some advice please. Ive been through hell for the past 2 weeks. I cheated on my wife. the worst mistake I could have ever make. My lovely beautiful loving wife, mother of my children. So ...

Please advice me on how to make the separation and divorce as painless as possible for my son

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

1 September 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. Ive been married for 5 years. My husband cheated on me. He doesnt know why. To be honest Internet dont wanna hear it either. Maybe life was too perfect and he got bored. His own fault. He sleeps in the guest room until I can ...

Is my Bf hiding something from me? He just blows me off when I ask.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

1 September 2014 (F) - I found a woman's eyelash on my boyfriends dorm room floor it doesnt belong to me , and it was under his desk so It can't belong to his roommate... I also found blonde hairs on his clothing... I do not trust him and I'm afraid he may be hiding so...