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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is he cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - Hai everyone. ......my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Two nights ago my boyfriend told he was going to have some beer with his friend/housemate at a local bar. I told him I was okay with it and that he should have fun. Two ...

Keeping secrets is eating me up so why do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Sorry in advance about the long post - i need an outsiders perspective. I have been in an on-off relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past two years. We were together solidly for two years and now we have been on and off for the past couple ...

I think he cheated, he's denying it and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Basically I found out My boyfriend cheated on me. We went to a freqklash together in June which is a rave and at about 1 in the morning he just left without telling me n was supposed to stay at mine. I thought it was strange. Then I got told about a ...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

How can I find that determination to just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a ...

He's been having long private secret lunches with drinks with a co-worker! Is this forgivable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Please help me. My husband has been having private lunches with a woman 10 years younger than him. The lunches turn I to four hours with drinks and no other coworkers are included. He has been doing this for four years and kept it a secret. We ...

Do I give my date a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I met a guy in his 40s for a drink on Thursday after chatting for two days. The evening went well and I wasnt sure if the chemistry was right but he seemee lokeca good guy. I agreed to meet him Sunday. That night he text he was coming off the dating ...

My boyfriend has been trying to meet up with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - So, I've been in a relationship with someone for about a year and a half mostly online. Up until recently it has been completely virtual. I went to visit him in the summer and we hit it off eventhough he was a bit....forward. Recently (Septemb...

How can I move on when I still love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I need some advice I dated this girl about 3 years ago. I realy loved her with all my heart then after about 7 months she cheated on me. We never broke up but we never have sex. Since that day I've seen her about 5 times thought we work in the ...

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

How dare my husband ask for a threesome after he had an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, earlier this year I found out my husband had an affair. We are working it out, however, my husband has asked me to have a threesome. I feel like it's a common fantasy for men but at this time of working things out, I don't know what to ...

Will I ever be able to trust again? His cheating has so affected me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I was in a relationship one and a half year ago. The reason for the break up was the guy was cheating on me with another girl. I was devastated because I really loved him. Now I have moved on completely. I dont care if he exists or whatever...

Is ogling a sign of disrespect or am I really overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - A wee bit of background. I am 46 and self-employed and get to travel the world quite often because of my job. Several years ago on a business trip, I met a great guy a couple of years older than me out in Belgium, divorced and we hit it off big ...

Feeling shattered that my Bf has been talking to his ex for 4 weeks. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - I am really disappointed with what I found out yesterday im not really the jealous type but this lie has me broken!i Found out that my boyfriend has been talking to his ex for about 4 weeks now and no I did not snoop into his phone to find that out...

Has my wife had an affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Well to cut it short basically im married and have been for 5 years. One day my wife left my house as she says she was getting a few bits and peices from the shop and yet was gone 3 hours. On return she couldnt wait to get out the house to go to ...

My ex boyfriend has changed his number

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

13 November 2015 (M) - My Boyfriend of 5 years just up and decided he wanted to be with someone else and live with them without telling me until months into him cheating on me. The other day i tried to call him just to get some closure and he had changed his number.. I ...

My fiance has been sleeping with his phone and clearing his history. Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my fiancée almost five years now, we have a 16 month old daughter together. Recently he has been coming home late from work with lame excuses and has been distant. For the first time yesterday he wasn't able to get an erection for ...

He barely texts me after 5th time sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I was dating with this guy from work almost 6 months and slept with him after a month. He was taking me on a date and everything was perfect until I receive an answer from him to the question how was his night was after 3 months. Saying he was in ...

He cheated. What do I say now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - Bombshell dropped on me tonight. This woman I don't know facebooked me and eventually came out to confess she had slept with my boyfriend. I confronted him over the phone and he admitted he 'messed up' once. That he was not feeling good or ...

Is there a future past my husband's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - I never thought I'd be in a bad marriage, but I am! After only 4years! Last month I found messages from my husband to other women telling them he loved them. Naturally I left him and after a few days came back to him to talk it through and for our ...

Is it wrong to have deal breakers in relationships?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Recently we talked about deal breakers. Both of us agreed cheating is a deal breaker. Then I told him if he ever took drugs at a party it'd be a deal breaker for me. I did not know he used to do ...

Is there any hope for us, despite how badly he's treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My name is Kate,I'm 42 and my husband,Stuart is 31 .We've been married for 8 years now but we've been a couple for 13. We don't have kids because he never wanted any.Our relationship has always been difficult due to our age gap as well as our ...

He called to say he'd been cheating. Do people usually tell the truth while drunk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my current boyfriend for 4 years, we have our ups and downs and i love him and he says the same though some times i do feel he doesn't love me as much as i love him. Long story short, yesterday he had few drinks too ...

Do you believe once a cheat always a cheat ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I met my husband three years ago when we both were in different relationships. He was newly married and I was in a long term relationship. He is very good looking and girls would always flirt with him but he would say "sorry ladies I'm off t...

How could he let another woman come between us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have 1 daughter together. Our relationship started going downhill ever since I caught him talking inappropriately with another woman. I trusted that he wouldn't continue doing it but in the back of my mind ...

I think my husband is cheating with a co-worker and I no longer believe anything he says

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

4 November 2015 (F) - Last December I was in the car with my husband and the girl from his works office rang. They were talking for a bit then I heard what sounded like, dont forget to get me something nice for Christmas. My husband said she didn't say that and said, ...

I'm worried my Gf will cheat on me while she's away enjoying her cruise. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

4 November 2015 (M) - I'm worried my grl friend of almost a year tht she is going to cheat on me on the cruise she just left on .ee didn't have sex for lie three weeks before she left and she loves to have sex she says only with me but I was busy working and her too and ...

Marriage problems and cheating and now I am torn between two options. How can this be resolved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - I had an affair starting July 2014 got caught Feb 2015 Admitted affair to my husband of 26yrs. We talked and I decided I would move in with other man. But he made me wait until Mar 2015 so it was awful for my husband with me in the home until th...

I can’t see myself with anyone else. But I need to move on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Where to start? 40+ years old. Married for 18 years. During my marriage there were a few strings of infidelity. A lot of my family in and out of the house. We took care of a lot of people but never was able to focus on us. I know this a...

My Bf was in bed with another man. I'm distraught. What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and it's been great he's so caring our sex life is amazing and we really seem to click. But this came crashing down at the weekend, I came back from a girls holiday and found him underneath his best...

I had an extra marital affair and am wondering if I should go and see him or whether I'm becoming a stalker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Extra marital affair (both married)- he broke up after 5+ years for the right reasons to be with his family and what we had right now is not enough. The love is pure there is no doubt. It's been a tortourous month..I messaged him for his last ...

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship wit...

Aunts I need your help with my boyfriend: at my end we're done but it's not official

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

2 November 2015 (F) - Kinda super stuck… So my current boyfriend, if you have read/answered my previous questions your probably twisiting in your seat, and I are back together. We broke up because my best friend let me know that he was cheating, she saw him grinding...

Should I confess to cheating? I don't want to lose him, for he's my rock and I love him dearly

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

1 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we are completely in love. He means everything to me and he's the kindest, most caring and loyal man I have ever been with. We argue like most couples and one argument we had while I was visiting my ...