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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you ...

What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont ...

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...

My husband acts like I cheated when I didn't! How do I get him to stop pushing me away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 17 years and married for 15. During our relationship I have always been honest and faithful and gone through a lot with him. In the past, he has given me many reasons not to trust him but still, I stayed and moved on. ...

He was still seeing his 'ex' in our early days... I just found out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a very close and loving relationship with a wonderful man for over two years and just found out that my man had been seeing one of his ex-girlfriends for a while early on in our relationship. I guess it really shouldn't matter now - ...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

Why won't he just come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for almost 5 yrs and we were engaged to be married and have a daughter together. He left me over a year ago and started dating someone else within a couple months. For almost that whole relationship we've been sleeping together and ...

Pregnant girlfriend wants to leave the state!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Well I guess I should say first that she, after yesterday, is now my ex-girlfriend. We had been dating since late February and moved in together in mid May. Our relationship has had it problems, more so than the typical relationship. She did cheat ...

Is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband has gone away once every month with a lady he works with. I found out and confronted him about 7 months ago and he told me he was truly sorry but since then he has continued to do so. He tells me he is going one place and then ends up ...

I really want my dad to go! At least when my parents divorce the fighting will stop.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey! i'd love to have your advice. i dont know if its ok to ask here because its not really a relationship/love or something question i think. my dad and my mum just told us three kids that they will break up. my dad works in a hospital and chea...

My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...

Has he been emotionally abusing me for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have two children, 6 and 8- my 6 year old has autism. My husband has been battling alcoholism for years. He just informed me he has been seeing another woman and left. He has treated me especially poorly over the years and very much so now. I ...

What to do about a cheating friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My husband is good friends with a guy who lives close to us, and I am friends with his wife. We have always thought of him as a decent person who will help out when he can. However, he has recently confided in my husband that he cheated on his wife ...

We have a baby and he keeps cheating on me. I don't know if I should stick with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi There, Well the story goes like this. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yeard and we have a 9mnth old baby as well. last year while I was pregnant I found out that he cheated on me and that the girl was pregnant. I ...

Should just tell him to drop dead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I desperately need help before I lose the plot! My boyfriend cheated on me, and when I say cheat I mean he had a full blown relationship with another woman. We broke up for ages talked and finally decided to get back together. But since this ...

What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) - What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ...

Do I confront him about the suggestive text messages, he's sending her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, Thanks for those who replied to my last message.lt was about my husband of 31 years sending sex texts to a woman (18 years younger than me) whom he knows through work but doesn't work on the same premises. When I discovered some ver...

What should I do about my friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My friends boyfriend is sexually attracted to me and i dont know what to do? ...

I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him ...

Whenever we arrange to meet, he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I met a guy about four weeks ago, we got on very well and have been texting chatting on the phone, but he never seems to be available to meet up, or else when we arrange it he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?...

I really don't know if I should continue the relationship, because I get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much. i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is th...

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...

Can I have my cake and eat it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, is a long term friend that went further, she is married and has intended on leaving her husband but we have had set backs, we've had our ups and downs as any normal "proper" couple go through,...

Should I be worried about my husband flirting with a coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hey i found out my husband has beeb texting a coworker female loads, he says it was just about work stuff as he has just got a new job and doesnt know how to do everything. So he says he was asking her how to do work stuff, and he said sometimes she ...

I feel like I'm cheating again! Will someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - Im in love with my boyfriend of 1 month and my best friend of.....over a year. Im soo upset, because of everything thats been said between my boyfriend and I...things like...I'll always love you, your mine forever....ect. I always said i love you to ...

He cheated but didn't go all the way with her. Should I be okay with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and around April he cheated on me with a girl.. he didnt go all the way with her. Well i forgave him and we've been fine ever since.. well the last week she text him for the 1st time in ...

We are having an affair, I got divorced recently and she is in an unhappy marriage, I realised I love her, your opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello All. I never thought I'd fall for a married woman since I 'KNOW' how wrong this is. However, I realized that it is possible even when you're 30 y.o to fall hardly for someone regardless of that they're married. The thing is that she's falli...

He beats me, he cheats on me, he takes my money,but I'm lost in the mist of love..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - this guy and I have been dating for almost two years now. Its been a hard relationship I will admit. I gave my all I to this relationship and I feel so foolish at times when I actually take the time to think the "relationship" through. I did ...

I like her and I want to be her secret lover for as long as she is here (she has a boyfriend back in her hometown). How should I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm confused, excited, nervous and thrilled at the same time. I feel overwhelmed. Yesterday night/Earlier this morning I slept with a beautiful woman that I meet last week. It wasent love at first sight, but more like ins...

She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ...

I was okay with being the 'other woman' but I have fallen for him. Now he's engaged, I love but I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been in a casual relationship with someone for 3 years. About 2 years ago he started dating someone he grew up with. He never hid the fact that he was dating her from me. Initially I was ok with being the "other woman" but over time I fell in ...

I betrayed my boyfriend's trust but have since come clean, now I need to prove to him I love him and we should be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend and in less than a month of dating I went on vacation with my girlfriends, drank a little too much and cheated. When I got home he asked if anything happened I said no and we continued with our relationship. I never ...

Is there a chance for us? I know I sound selfish but he was my first and only love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 414 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i met this boy in 2006. He chased after me for one year and a half and we went out for a while. everyday he would call me and we spoke for 4 hours. he wanted to spend all the weekends with me. but i cheated on him with his friend. he caught m...

Am I really his number one girl or am I blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for about six months since april almost and now he has a new girlfriend after we broke up we were still dating on and off until the middle of july and we stopped because he found a new girl. now its september and she ...

How can I get him to be with me and just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok, I just started my new job a few months ago and have had the biggest crush on my boss, to my surprise one day he text me and asked if we could hang out..so we did and ever since then we have been messing around. Well the downside to this is..he ...

What I want to know is should I give this another shot? Do I have the right to know if she had sex with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About 3 1/2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had both become stressed from living with my parents, working, going to school, and raising our young son. The relationship unraveled. She says she loves me emotionally but not physically. ...

I love my husband, but he's below average in the bedroom. I had 'textual affair' and now want my husband to try dirty texting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Hi I am married to the most amazing guy.. He is soooo reliable and gets on brilliantly with everyone I know. I know he wouldnt be the most attractive guy to every other girl but to me he's special and I find myself really attracted to him. At time's ...

Will this long distance, complex relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Will this work? They've been dating for 1 month, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas but they will spend 4 months apart at a time. She never met his family or friends yet. He cheated on her a week after she left but he sent her...

Which one do I choose? My girlfriend or my work mate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for two months, this is is my first serious relationship since i broke off with my fiance who i was with for two years, a year ago. In the year between the break up and this current relationship, i had a fling with ...

What can I do to stop remembering that my ex cheated on me? And why did he cheat, with prior intent, and continue to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am trying to understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. Not just once- but many times, with different girls. These weren't one-night stands after getting drunk, but planned dates. Why was he even with me if he was interested in all these other ...

Moved to another state with my girlfriend.....now she wants to sleep with other men!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I came across this site and I hope I can get some help. I am in an open relationship and I don't know if I can handle it anymore. I agreed to this 11 months ago but now the emotion and love I have is much stronger. I moved with my gf to another ...

I cheated on her and she now has someone else. How can I get her out my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - hi?i just want to get some advice cause i don't know what to do. There is something that i can't let go. It's that i cheated someone. Someone that became special to me. I know that it's not right to love in the same sex but i did. It starts when i ...

My husband is texting a female colleague frequently, he says it's work-related. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - hi, my partner keeps texting a woman from his work, i have seen his phone bill and he has replied 250 texts in one month to her, should i be suspicious? he says he was only asking for her help at work when he didn't know how to do something....

I don't know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I dont know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around. He said that he really likes me a lot. Everything was going fine last week, but now hes acting different. Last week he would call me every night. He even called me at 4am...

I just want the old husband back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am a Navy wife of almost 6 yrs, and at first it was really good, I was his princess, and he spoiled meall the time. Well, my husband went to ship duty a yr and a helf after we were married. The first 3 deplyments were fine, emails everyday and ...

Betrayed hurt confused and angry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I started a new relationship with a guy who I thought was the one, it got intense very quick and I believed in him so much. He was like no other guy I knew before and I had experienced a pretty horrible relationship before that. He works away and a ...

I wonder why he hasn't told me about his daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

Is it possible to put the past behind us and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend been together for a year but we were always on and off mainly because i knew he was seeing other girls and i saw other boys. I found out from people he was seeing but he never admitted to doing it, which was the reason why i ...

I want my affair back, he's now flirting with my best friend! Please get me out of this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - i'm very much depressed not to work and study. please get me out of this. We were good friends, then best and then had sexual relationship. but the thing is I;m married and he is already dating a girlfriend since 5 yrs! we knew that we dont put ...

Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just ...