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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Boyfriend found out I cheated while messed up and ended things. Will I ever be able to make him forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we got engaged last year. We then went through a rocky patch, but then things were great again. Until two nights ago when I ruined everything. I was at a rave, and was off my face and took a ...

Every day I feel stressed and depressed because of my life, husband, parents. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I'm a married woman with 3 kids and I'm under tremendous stress and I need help. First off a few months ago my husband confessed to cheating which totally destroyed me and our relationship. We have been trying to work it out for the sake of our ...

Are there any good guys in the world? If so, where are they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3150 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am i going crazy? Ive recently deleted all my male list on my messenger app. I find it hard to make male friends. Every male i saw as a potential friend eventually ends up telling me that he is interested in me and wants a relationship. I just went ...

Boyfriend's phone rang, I went through his messages and now I feel sick

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I did something really horrible, my boyfriend left his phone at home, it rang and I saw the call from a woman he had done work for.but recently I saw a text, not sure if it was to her or from her saying "I am on my way see you soon." I went through ...

I know I shouldn't be involved with this married man but I don't know what to do about things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3154 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - I'm a 20 year old college junior. I've had many problems that started in late childhood. Starting with body dysmorphia, and lead into anorexia, binge eating, self harm, suicidal tendencies, and depression. I've been diagnosed with borderline ...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

Can men and women just be friends? Or does he want more even though he has a GF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So...I've been at a new job for a year now and my manager wasn't around for the first half, he was travelling but ever since he returned we're constantly teasing each other, going out of our way to wind the other up and I was just taking as f...

I don't like the way my ex and I fell out. I want to talk to him but I don't think he will allow it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3155 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hi - I have made a bad situation with my ex even worse - how do I stop feeling like it's one big car crash? I know you guys will probably tell me to move on etc - and I am over my ex really - it's just I don't like the way we fell out. First of ...

I had an affair, my partner knows but I just found out I'm pregnant by the other man. How do I tell my partner this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I have just found out that I am pregnent. . The result of an affair I was having.. the affair came out and my partner of 3 years is devestated. He loves me that much hes willing to give us another chance, and thwn yesterday I find out im pregnent. ...

Can a married man have a mistress for 10 years and love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Can a married man have a mistress for say 10 years and be in love with her? Otherwise if it was just sex, wouldn't he had dumped her ages ago? ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3143 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

My girlfriend confessed that on a drunken night out she made out with a co-worker and now says she can't be in a relationship. I'm lost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years.we are very much in love and have experienced many things together. We have traveled and we have over come adversity in the past. However a couple of weeks ago she told me we had to talk. She ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3161 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

He says he ''can't do without me'' but he stays married. I'm single, but what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I'm 22y old and still single. i love married man and he also loves me more. He says he can't do without me. but I can't keep doing fake relationship.what to do?...

I want to tell my fiance about my indiscretion, I just don't know how to do it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - I am engaged to my lovely fiance for two years. He is everything I could possibly want and more. I love him so much, but, I almost ruined everything. I kissed another man on a night out while my fiance was on business. From my vague memory it ...

I almost cheated in a desperate bid to get pregnant. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - This is a long one, and I hope I wont be judged, because I would never tell anyone this. I feel like a despicable human being. You guys are my only hope! My husband and I have been having a six year fertility struggle, mostly male factor. It ...

Did my gf cry because shes been found out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - Hi, I'm a little confused right now and don't know what to think or do. I'll try to keep this as short as possible but I need to include all relevant details. Well basically, before me and my gf got together she was talking to another guy to whom ...

I want to try again with my cheating ex fiance but something keeps stopping me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - I want to try and move past my ex fiancée cheated on me while he was on his stag weekend, and maybe try and be a family again for our young child but every time he tries to kiss or cuddle me, I pull away. We had our child while we were still in...

Her hot temper leads to fights. So I asked another girl out. Can I continue like this or should I just walk away from my hot tempered original Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - I am a teenage guy of 18 , currently I have a gf we have been together For over a year now. She's got all I want, but she has hot temper. We fight a lot of times and this make me think about our future. I decided to ask another girl out, the...

I really like this guy but dating him is turning into a nightmare because of his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3166 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Recently I have started seeing a guy who lives in my town. I moved here last summer, and I met him through a few of the people I have become friends with at my work place. I was instantly attracted to him when I first met him but at the time he h...

I miss the guy I made out with ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - So, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year (it's a year next month) and we have been very close and he has treated me well and never made me doubt him. However, I got a volunteering job to work overseas. Before that, we were having a few ...

How do I get my horrible husband out of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - Sitting here heartbroken wondering what I did to deserve this!! Ok, so I'm 22 years old I've been with my husband 4 years and married for 2 we have a one year old and a baby due in 4 weeks time. I'm looking for advise on how to be strong enou...

Does the length of the relationship mean its love or can it still be only about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

13 August 2015 (F) - My 48yr. Husband of 15 years has been having problems obtaining and keeping and erection for the past year. Sometimes he gets and keeps it but then he can't orgasm. I figure its due to his age. So I have been understanding. But I over heard a phone ...

I desperately want to see my old friend but I'm also scared if it feels wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

13 August 2015 (F) - Really complicated situation. Struggling with what is morally right. I have a friend who is a girl. We have know each other for nearly 15yrs. She is one of my closest friends I ever had. Our connection is spiritual, emotional and mental. She stud...

Boyfriend is so insecure he is constantly accusing me of cheating and I haven't!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - I have a major problem. My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me (he just turned 20) and is SO insecure! I havent cheated on him yet from the very beginning he's accused me of it. He always says sorry when we fight about it, and that hes just ...

I think my boyfriend is cheating I am finding Viagara pills everywhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3173 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - Hi,this is not easy for me as im pritty sure my long term boyfriend of 15yrs is cheating,As i appreciate some men have difficulties and want to feel manly in the bedroom and if i didnt find it hid in all places,this time i found it behind my ...

Is there a chance that in fulfilling these fantasies I could also get a broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - Ok.. How can I sum this up... My fiancé and I are head over heels in love with each other, we have been together for 4 years. We have made it through some pretty hard times, the first year of our relationship, which in the end made us so much ...

It feels like cheating. How have others in this situation handled things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - I hate myself for doing what I said I'd never do. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and I recently started talking to an old friend, we've been casually flirting nothing serious but now I feel like I've been cheating and I don't ...

Is this friend trustworthy or is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - Married woman(14 yrs) love marriage not very easy married life. his folks always tried to rip us apart. he too had an affair but when his financial condition was bad she dumped him. he realised my love nadis now back.his folks are better now.but i ...

Things are awkward. Cheating happened. How can we improve our relationship, to work better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2089 days ago

8 August 2015 (F) - This is weird. I'll make it short. I was on OKC and I met this really nice guy. We started dating and 2 months into the relationship I found out he was writing to his ex gf, asking her to meet him. I confronted him and he came clean, saying he...

Is it over? Wife met up again with guy we had 3sum with and let him do things she has never let me do

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - I recently got talked into a 3sum by my wife where she let the other guy do a sexual act she has always refused me. I've now found out that the same night, after when she took him to the train station they did it again in the car. Is it over?...

Is it considered cheating if you get turned on by another person's smell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - Hey I have a somewhat odd question to ask Basically I'm in a long term relationship and I adore the way my partner smells. I won't go into details but basically it really gets my motor going, and I'm pretty sure many other people must feel a simi...

So what do you guys think? Am I playing with fire? Can I trust that he has changed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

6 August 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. Before me, he was a real stud. He slept with almost 200 women and even today is never short of women's attention. Any gf he had before he cheated on them. He admitted all ...

Should I call it a day? I forgave him the affair but now he seems to be hiding things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

6 August 2015 (F) - I've asked for advice on numerous occasions regarding my partner, now of 10 years and a lot of you told me then to get rid of him as long ago as 5 years but Ihave always thought things would change. However, I then found that he has cheated on me ...

I feel unloved by my partner and don't know how to fix it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

5 August 2015 (F) - I feel really unloved by my partner of six years and dont know how to fix this. Every night when we get home from work he sits on playstation and I sit downstairs alone. If i get him to spend time with me, he acts ezasperated and like hes doing me a ...

He has never divorced his wife. It makes me uncomfortable and I'm wondering why he hasn't divorced her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

5 August 2015 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a guy i met in a social group, for around 4 months. After a few dates, he told me he was married but separated, for 7 years. Now had I known this beforehand I would not have dated him as I didn't want the emotional baggag...

Does forgiving and staying indicate that a person is a fool, or weak?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

5 August 2015 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid Community, You've helped me out so much in the past so here goes. A few months ago my relationship broke down, we both lost respect, started dreading coming home to each other and started to avoid each other. We both had disgustin...

Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

5 August 2015 (M) - I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...

Which girl should I keep? Foolishly started dating 2 girls at the same time. Love them both.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

4 August 2015 (M) - I am 22 years of age and a few months ago I foolishly started dating two girls. One girl lives locally and is a kind and generous person, we share many hobbies and interests and my family worship the ground she walks on!! however on my end the at...

My partner and his ex-wife are still texting daily! How much is too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

3 August 2015 (F) - My partner and his ex-wife still texting daily Hi, can anyone tell me if I am worrying unnecessarily or if I don't really get it?! I met my partner at work. We the. Started going out socially and then just on our own and that's how our relat...

My affair partner is moving on and "dating"!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

3 August 2015 (M) - [Moderator note: a little more background, YOUR background would be helpful. How long have you been married? Are there children involved? How long has this been going on? Do you know for certain she's been on dating sites or is it just a strong ...

We are involved but both married. I don't know how to stop this relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

3 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both married to someone else and are in love. Yes, people call it love affair. It hurts me bad because it is not right thing to do but I can't stop this relationship. (Yes, I have tried in the past.) If anyone out the...

He's seeing someone else. But also wants to see me. What's my best response to this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

2 August 2015 (F) - I have been good friends with a guy for a number of years and about a year ago we both found out that we were attracted to each other. We became fwb as neither of us were in a position to have a relationship, even though I really would have like...

I can't rely on him. He puts me down. I'm trying to identify what I see in him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

2 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years says saying monogamous in relationship is stupid, he insists that his mind belongs to me and why do i care what his body does when i love his mind and brain more than his body. I know the conversation sounds stup...

Am I being too picky? Could I end up lonely for the rest of my life, because I don't want to share a man with other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

1 August 2015 (F) - I have this thing that worries me a lot about love and woman in general. In my country its a like its ok for people, especially men, to cheat on their woman. Most woman would say as long as he respect me, as long as i dont know then im fine. W...

Is my boyfriend cheating on me ?please help !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

1 August 2015 (F) - Hi, I suspect my bf cheating on me :( so,I just came back from overseas after two weeks and found out my bf washed the bed sheets..he haven't put them on, only washed them and left in another room to dry out, and when I wanted to ask him where the ...