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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Could my partner really have been blackmailed into sleeping with another woman for 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 5 years and we have a 17 month old daughter. I love him very much but I recently found out that my partner has been cheating on me for the last 6 months. He says that it didn’t mean anything and that he was ...

Did I cheat just because my relationship is stale? And what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - Please Help!!! I am just a regular guy, a nice bloke who doesn't drink or do any drugs but good fun. I thought I was going to be with my fiancee for the rest of my life; however I cheated on her which I swore I would never do, with someone I had kn...

Should I cheat on my boyfriend? He'd never know!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I am out on a holiday without my boyfriend of a year and a half. I met another man that I really like and know he likes me too. I can't stop thinking about this other man. I am thinking about cheating one my boyfriend as he will never know. I can't ...

I suspect my husband is cheating, but I'm not really sure I want to know.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 11 years, but have been with my husband approx 15 yrs. He has cheated on me (twice that I know of), and yes I forgave him....well, I stayed with him. We have 3 children and they are the main reason I have stayed as long as ...

I not only found out my husband was cheating on me, I heard it over the phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 16 years. We have always have a fairly turbulent relationship but he love is strong. Three years ago he cheated on me. He doesn't know why he did it but he did it twice. I knew of his adultery when I received a phone...

Why can't I get over my cheating husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - My spouse and I have been together since we were kids. I had just found out that he's been having an affair and he left me for her. I feel like I can't get over him. Why? What's wrong with me?...

I slept with my boyfriend's best friend a time or two, so when I see the friend I still get the urge...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1031 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I am dating this guy I've been on and off with for about 5 years, and during one of the times that we broke up, I slept with his best friend a number of times. Now, I'm back with my ex and every time his best friend is around me, I get these urges ...

I'm married, she has a boyfriend, but I feel like we're meant to make each other happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I am a 39 year old married man with a 1 child. I had an affair about 8 years ago, I was found out, we went through a really tough time but managed to hold on. I have never felt quite the same about us since that time and I feel that it is only ...

Stuck in the middle... Do I choose with my heart or my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Never, ever felt so utterly confused in my life. At least there are no kids involved. I married my partner, Tom - not real name - (of 6 years) 2 and a half years ago. I never so much as looked at anyone and 'thought' I was happy...until someone ...

Why can't I just be happy with what I have, instead of trying to forget my problems with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 670 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 8 years and from the day we got married I have been really unhappy. Anyway to make matters worse I had a baby and things have got from bad to worse. Anyway I met a guy in a club a few months back and he knew I was married and ...

I never stopped thinking of my old flame, so when we met again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1033 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Last night I went out with my friend and bumped into a man I fell in love with at school. He was my soulmate. I have been married 8 years been with my husband 14. All this time I have thought about what could have been. We did not sleep together...

Is it fishy that my girlfriend, who cheated with her ex and lives 900 miles away is sleeping over at her male "friends" houses?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I have a long distance relationship that's been going on for over 3 years now. Most of my girlfriend's friends happen to be male. Being that we live so far apart (900 miles, to be exact), I don't see her but a weekend a month. My problem is, more...

He has no excuse for sleeping with someone else! Should I forgive and forget to keep what we had?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1036 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now and we love each other so much. He even said he wanted to marry me, and I felt the same. But he told me that he slept with another woman last week and he has no excuse for doing it. He doesn't know why he ...

Since I found out my husband was texting an old girlfriend, I can't get it out of my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, After 21 years of marriage, during last year my husband's old girlfriend turned up to see him (not at home of course). I suppose just after the last baby we had a few problems and with him working nights and me days we drifted apart...

My wife just can't break the habit of chatting and meeting people online...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - I have been married for just over 10 yrs to a wonderful super woman. She is my best friend, business partner, lover and mother of our two little children. I found out she was online chatting with some guys and girls and actually called some to ...

My partner was supposed to be working in New York, not chatting up other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for seven and a half years, since 17. We had been saving for a house but still lived with our parents. I always believed he loved me. We hadn't been getting on over the last year as well as normal, he didn't seem to ...

My boss and I had a relationshp that went sour. Now I don't have a job...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Me and my married employer formed a relationship. Afterwards he kept changing his mind as to whether or not he wanted a future with me. I decided to just apologise for any upset so he would employ me for the next 1 years contract. He switched and ...

I want to end my 8-year affair, but how do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been having an affair off and on for the last 8 yrs, with the same person. I have been married for 18yrs. Right now I am trying to figure out how to stop seeing this man that I know is not for me, although I love him deeply and I am so ...

Should I help out my engaged friend by having sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I really want a engaged man!! We have spent the night together after a few drinks and have been out a lot. After that we are so good togther! His fiancee lives miles away and he tells me how much he needs sexual attention all the time as he hasn'...

I'm married and a father. but I long to be with my lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - I am 25 and have been married to my wife for only 16 months. We have a wonderful baby daughter of 6 months. The problem is we don't have anything in common and don't share any interests. I don't feel in love with her anymore, and I suspect she feel...

We broke up because I didn't fancy him, after sleeping with the French lad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1041 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - Help I need advice! I had been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, however, when working abroad over the summer, I slept with an incredibly gorgeous french guy on more than one occassion. I felt it wasn't a mistake as I really liked this guy but ...

Don't want to hurt my wife or my lover, but can't choose between either one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for a small time and have fallen for her; the only problem is that I am married! I know that I'm a scumbag for wanting my cake and eating it too, but when my lover asked me to leave my wife - as much as wanted to - I coul...

Want to start things anew with my new love, but scared to leave the only life I know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been with my partner for 18 years. I am 35 years old and we have 3 lovely children together. A few years ago I started to go out with a girlfriend of mine who was single and I started to have flings with men they didn't mean anything...

He loves me too, but he can't leave his kids and we don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Please help I really dont know what to do about my situation. I have asked for help before but not got much sympathy. I have fallen in love with my best friend. He is married with 2 grown up children. They still live at home. We have been best f...

Don't want to hurt my husband who is a good, kind man. Do want to hook up with my toyboy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 September 2005 (?) - I am a 42 year old married woman. I have fallen in love with a man 16 years my junior and he loves me too. We don't know what to do about it. I can't bear the thought of him being with anyone else, but neither of us wants to hurt my husband who is a ...

My boyfriend wants to have his cake - and eat it! Should I let him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1043 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out recently that my boyfriend kissed another girl whilst on a stag weekend. They exchanged numbers and have been in contact since a couple of times. I found this out though by a text message I saw on his phone from ...

Mum and my husband were having sex! I feel sick!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1038 days ago

14 September 2005 (F) - I am 21 and my new husband is 23. We have been married for 2 weeks now. I came home from work one day to find my husband in bed with my mother kissing and having sex! I can't face either of them and feel sick to the stomach after finding out th...

Can't face my boyfriend since I cheated...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 4 years. My partner and I recently had a break because I cheated and couldn't face him. He doesn't know that I have been unfaithful. Things are not going well, although he has moved back in and we are both ...

Best way to punish my boyfriend for his deception? But still forgive him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - How do I forgive my boyfriend for deception, but still make him know he can never do it again? My boyfriend lied to me about something major (not just a little lie). There are parts of our relationship that are wonderful and I'm willing to give it ...

My married guy says he's "not strong enough" to leave his wife...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 990 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I met a guy several months ago and he is married. Recently we started seeing each other as a bit of fun. Neither of use expected it but we ended up falling for each other. He said that he would leave his wife to be with me but when it came to it he...

My fiance cheated on me... with my 17-year-old sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I broke up with my fiance about 5 months ago, because I found that he cheated me with my sister. She is only 17!! Six months ago, My fiance and I met my sister by chance. And then I found that he often lied to me,the same as my sister . And ...

My boyfriend lied about being divorced. Now he's telling the truth, but do I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me and told me he had broken up with his wife, but apparently it wasn't so. He had been ignoring me in the last few months so I did the same. Now he wants me back and says he has formally divorced his wife. I confirmed this with ...

Am I misreading the actions of two friends, or is my boyfriend playing up with the barmaid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1047 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a few months ago i felt that something wasn't quite right. He had become very good friends with a girl working at a local bar our friends parents owned. I didn't mind before as there was no way I ...

My friend wants to be with his son, but also to be with his married lover!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1049 days ago

10 September 2005 (F) - My friend is separated from his wife for three years without communication. They also have one son. He moved to another country and during his year of staying, he met a married woman and got into relationship. They have a ups and down relationship, ...

My boyfriend says I have to let him have sex online or he'll go out and cheat in the flesh!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - Is Cybersex cheating? My boyfriend (of 4 years) is part of some adult match maker sites and often talks dirty or indulges in cybersex with users of the site. He'd left open some of his messages on the computer that I saw and was not very happy w...

We just want to be with each other, but we're both married, so things are complicated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1051 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - I have known a man for 14 years, he has been my best friend for 10 years and now we have found out that we are attracted to one another and we would be happy if we were living together. Unfortunately we are both married, and we are both unhappy ...

I trusted my boyfriend not to cheat. Now I'm not so sure and I'm miserable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I believed it was a very good relationship, but I wanted to him to propose and didn't feel he was sure enough to do so. I told him, I wasn't going to wait longer than 3 years and he promised me he would propose on our 3 year anniversary. This is my ...

I'm madly in love with another woman, but how do I cope until she decides about her own marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1049 days ago

6 September 2005 (M) - Can anyone help me with this...? My wife sits home every night and drinks scotch. I guess I use that for an excuse, but I have fallen in love with a woman who is married and we are madly in love, mentally and physically. I'm lost, confused and miss...

So pleased to be pregnant! But worried the baby is not my boyfriends...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1051 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I've recently found out I'm pregnant but something is nagging at me and bringing me down. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year (I'm 17 and he's 21). I really love him but I strayed a couple of months ago (when I got pregnant) and sl...

She says she regrets cheating, but I'm having difficulty dealing with my doubts about her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1054 days ago

5 September 2005 (M) - I have a real problem with my relationship, but first let me provide some background information. I am only sixteen, and my girlfriend is of the same age. This is the first major relationship I've ever had. My first everything is with this gir...

She's attractive, persistant...and married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1055 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - I am a single male of 55 and recently left a place of work where I had a friendship with a lady who is married. She is 40 and asked me out several times, and although I was polite and declined, she was persistent and I have met her a couple o...

Has my husband always been bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a bi-sexual, cybercheating husband. The catch, or better yet, is he's only like this when he's under the influence. My question is, has he always been bi-sexual, that certain drugs just makes him desire other sexual wants?...

I've never really gotten over my confusing feelings for my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1055 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - How should I procede with this relationship? I've been friends with this guy since my Senior year of high school. I am now 25. We have kept in really good touch over the years, but have lived across the country from each other since college st...

He cheated when I was away for a month. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1057 days ago

2 September 2005 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for three months now but I recently went on holiday for a month. I got back from holiday and he admitted to me that he had sex with another girl, but it didn't mean anything and he felt really bad about it. ...

Even though he has a girlfriend, he said he likes me too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

1 September 2005 (F) - I like this guy who has a girlfriend. He said he liked her but when I asked if he liked me he said yes. I want ot go out with him. What should I do? ...