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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How do I live with the man and woman who were in a relationship behind my back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - About a month ago the guy I was seeing broke it off with me. We had been friends for around six months before finally getting together and currently live together in the accomodation at our university. We were very happy and very close. He was also ...

How do I get over something like this? Are there no more morals or respect these days? I'm so hurt and I want him to feel my pain

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I have been suspicious about my fiance's activity so I broke off my engagement because he is talking and hanging out with his ex. We haven't even officially broke it off and he's been out with her and other friends. He's asked me to meet up with ...

Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...

My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so ...

The married man I'm seeing has now pulled back. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I met a man, he's married. We've been seeing each other but only slept together that first night... It's been 5 weeks of texting and short visits. We have very strong feelings for each other. He said he doesn't want to drag me into his mess, also ...

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she s...

If he's engaged surely he should just admit it to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I've had my suspicions when my partner has been away, I caught him texting someone Xmas day, he then replies in person i don't know anyone with that name, when he went I done some fb searching found friends in common with people he lived with, ...

Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We ...

I have mixed feelings and don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for almost 2 years and have been sort of watching him. I have him under my phone plan so I monitor his calls and texts. He friended an ex on FB and that didn't sit too well with me so we had a fight. He refused to ...

He has a Gf. He also told me he loves me. I have a crush on him. What should I do ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Last month (February) I told my male best friend that I have developed feelings for him. For a while we flirted but he had a girlfriend. Yesterday however we went out to the park and he told me that he loves me when he still has a girlfrie...

Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...

How I found a Possible Solution to Retroactive Jealousy and Trust Issues with my Significant Other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - Before all the feminazi's here jump on me this is what happened exactly. Their were no assumptions on my part or misinterpretations on my end. She lied to me and misrepresented herself as to not to lose me and put herself in a bad light. This ...

Have feelings for former co-worker. Is it meant to be? And I am married to another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - i am married. it seemed to be ok until I met a guy at work. the attraction grew for past years despite my attempts to stop it. few weeks ago I quit as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I felt he felt the same about me, although he never sai...

Are my constant thoughts about my BF cheating based on truth or my own fears?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Hello DC. I have a question about trust. My BF and I have been together a couple of years. It is a good relationship and we still have great chemistry. He has cheated in a previous relationship. Not ours. He has always been up front with me...

My partner had an affair. Should I share the details with other husband?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - My long term partner (Me: 29F and Him: 32M) had an affair with a recently married woman, lasting about a month that I am aware of. They were family friends, I bartended her brother's wedding, etc. She and I were "friends". Long story short: I had a ...

I found a box of condoms in his place!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now, rough patch but we get through it all. i have keys to his place, and yesterday I dont know why I snooped around. In one drawer iour bedroom, I saw a box of condoms. We dont...

How much should I tell my lovers about my home situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - My Husband has lid to me repeatedly about porn. At the very beginning of our relationship I was clear that I was not interested in q relationship including pirn and he assurd me he shared my views . I find it demeaning , offensive , degradin...

Could there be "real love" in an emotional affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - I have realized now that I've been in a co-dependent relationship. I also married my partner of years because I didn't think I'd ever find "the one" for me and I was ok with that. All I wanted was to be able to just go through life and survive. I've ...

He cheated, can I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. (it will make a year in May) We've had the best relationship so far, we're so comfortable with each other and we get each other so well. I really believe he's the one. But, I recently found ...

He cheated, we both fell pregnant, she got to keep her baby but I didn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

22 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years...last summer we basically split up because I found that he was cheating on me and on top of that the girl was pregnant with his child...I Also was pregnant with his child he told me he was happy for us and ...

My wife's cushy life is over, but what about the child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

21 March 2015 (M) - I left home 4 months ago after finding out my wife was cheating with some unemployed junkie we hired to do yard work. I busted my butt making a living so she can stay home even thouhgh our daughter is in school now. Instead of sorry she tried to ...

There are constant rumors of my boyfriend cheating. Not sure what to believe

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - Everyone keeps telling me that my boyfriend cheats on me whenever he goes back to his hometown or away from the city we live (he works away at least once a month) but they never have any proof and I don't want to believe them but there is something ...

His asking after my mom, and the grey car, have me paranoid now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - My mom just told me that a couple of months ago she was sitting at a park relaxing in her vehicle before reporting to work and thought she saw my boyfriend pull in and get out with another woman. She said she wasn't for sure but that she thought it ...

Husband cheated first with best freind now texting another woman of adult freind finder

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - I've Been married 34 year and I thought happily, but 10 yr ago I caught my husband out and he was having sex and texting my best now X best freind. Now I have just caught him on a adult freind finder web site and has crossed phone numbers and is ...

Did she really sleep with another man or is she just saying that? How do I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

19 March 2015 (M) - My gal and me had relation for almost 2 years, every thing was alright when she suddenly said that she want break up. she said that she is seeing a guy and had slept with him. after a month we were back together. Now whenever i ask about the guy she ...

I cheated on my FWB guy and feel bad about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - okay dont judge me, but I know this guy who i met through work, we became friends but our friendship went to friends with benefits. we have been like that for about 3 years now. but recently i met this new guy at my new job who i thought was ...

I've fallen in love with my FWB man. Should I end it? I don't think he'll leave his g/f for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - I'm in a total quandary! I've been in a "friends with benefits" relationship for over two years with a guy who has a girlfriend, but whom he is mostly only with for financial "trapped" reasons. Debts and life's stresses mean it is nigh on impossible ...

I'm pregnant and feeling very insecure about his facebook online activities!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - Need some advice-if you're suspicious about your OH's online activities, do you raise it with them and ask to see their inbox, or snoop? I know snooping is unethical, but what if I say I'm concerned and he deletes the evidence? Back story is ...

It was not my kid but I lost my girlfriend over it anyway. I'd like to get her back but am worried she'll take me to court!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 March 2015 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend with this skank from work that everybody slept with. She knew I had a girlfriend I loved and it was just sex. She wanted me to be with her but that would never happen. She told me she was pregnant and my world ended. My ...

My problem is that I'm attracted to guys outside my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - I have a problem - I'm attracted to guys outside of my relationship. We only see each other two weekends a month and I miss him terribly. And when I go out, I find myself strongly attracted to random men. I'm quite pretty so I wouldn't have a ...

He broke my heart and I can't trust him, but I really want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - So I need help getting over my ex, we split up last summer after being together for just over a year as i found out that he had been cheating on me after several times after i had already forgiven him for doing it once before. And the thing that ...

He lied about having a wife and a kid!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I am very sad..I am dating a guy for a year so far, he is from Iraq but we both met in US..after 6 months of being together I saw a pic on facebook of him with a baby..I asked him whos this baby..he said is one of my nephews..anyway I believed ...

I'm in a total quandary! In love with my FWB and wondering if I should tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - I'm in a total quandary! I've been in a "friends with benefits" relationship for over two years with a guy who has a girlfriend, but whom he is mostly only with for financial "trapped" reasons. Debts and life's stresses mean it is nigh on impossible ...

How do I get past this? I keep thinking about the other guys she saw.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Help me please.... what should i do.. . im a guy that has spent 4 and half years with a girl . we were engaged, but had problems with drinking and fighting,issues from past and her 22 year old kid that has caused so much trouble in the family thtat ...

Odd Description of Past Boyfriends

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - My wife and I had been talking about our past including some of the boyfriends/girlfriends which we had sex with and we are cool about it i.e. no jealousy. In our discussion fell upon at least 3 of her boyfriends/flings cheating on her. Her reaction ...

My wife is my sole sexual partner to date. would having sex with friends be a good or bad idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I'm writing for the first time on DearCupid and my name pretty much speaks for itself. Now I'm not the curious as in the same sex, but the curious type that wonders what it is like to be with another woman. Since I was 17 I have been with only t...

He accuses me of cheating, yet I wonder if he's cheating. What can I do about this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year. We finally met each others parents. We don't hangout that much cause he works al the time the only day we WOULD have to ourselves is Sunday. But when he has free time he rather spend it with hi...

Don't want to make the first move when he said such hurtful things about me, but I love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, we talked it through and decided to try again. It's been 4 weeks and I found out from his dad (a man that is a family friend) that my boyfriend has told his dad that I'm a huge flirt, a slag ...

How should I find out if he's having an emotional affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think my partner of 10 years is having an "emotional" affair. Two years ago I threw him out because he was asking another woman out for a drink every 5 minutes (this is a woman he labelled as a bit "tragic"??). I heard all the excuses ...

He won't speak to me since I challenged him. Why do I still think about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - A few weeks ago I fell out with a man who won't speak to me or reply to my calls over the fact he was having an affair. We used to be close - but after I said I didn't want to get too serious - he started chasing other women. Feeling hurt I stated h...

Found dildo's under my boyfriends bed. Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

12 March 2015 (F) - I think my be is cheating on me. I found an anal sex beginners kit and purple rabbit vibrator already used hidden under his bed after I had been away from his house for 6 weeks. During my absence he would visit me only at my house and I wasn't ...

I told my brother his wife was cheating and now she hates me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

12 March 2015 (M) - I asked for advice here bout my sister in law cheating on brother and told him about it but i think that was a mistake because he is still with her and now she hates me and doesn't even answer the phone when i want to talk to my nephews.She has ...

Found out she cheated... lied for months and watched me have a breakdown. Can the relationship be saved?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

11 March 2015 (M) - I'm pretty screwed up right now... Essentially my girlfriend of over 7 years slept with her best friend about 6 months ago, once drunk in the night, and again in the morning (though she claims se was still drunk). I've always suspected it. she ...

I'm not sure that I can trust my boyfriend and feel uncomfortable asking him about things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3333 days ago

11 March 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for one year, and occasionally have doubts and concerns about him. Mainly due to at the start him flirting with other women. I brought it up a few times and it seems to have stopped, at least in front of me. In the ea...

My religion allows polygamy but my society considers it taboo in my situation! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

9 March 2015 (F) - I am in love with a man..He loves me too . Problem is he is already married . Its been 1 and half years since his marriage and he is having a cute daughter of nearly 6 months. In our religion polygamy is allowed. He wants to marry me but problem is ...

He goes on the attack and puts the blame on me when I raise his cheating. Why does he need to go on these dating sites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

8 March 2015 (F) - I was wondering if I could get some advice thanks. My husband has a history of cheating on me in the past on internet dating sites and when I discovered this 6 years ago he hurled abuse at me and called me a man-hater and lied and denied and turned ...

5 years of dating, she cheats on me, now how do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

8 March 2015 (M) - Today was a very difficult day for me. It was the first day after my ex and I broke up. She cheated on me and for some reason I was able to forgive her. I don't know if I truly do forgive her or if it was just a desperate plea so that I wouldn't be ...

Are these signs this guy is a player or not interested(even though he has a girlfriend)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

5 March 2015 (F) - -Never makes much effort to see me and only when he's away will he talk about us catching up next, but when he's home doesn't initiate anything. -Acts flirty over text, never answers phone calls, acts cold/distant in real life. -When we're 'f...

What is going on with my boyfriend lately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

5 March 2015 (F) - This story is going to be long and kind of all over the place, but please read it all. I want to include a lot of info so I can give you guys the whole story. I've been with my boyfriend since early 2012. I really do love him dearly. I kno...

Her messages suggest she's falling for this new friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

5 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help. Just before Christmas my partner got a new friend. Since this friendship she has changed. She has become very distant with me, seems angry at me for just existing and doesn't want anything to do with me physically. Today I ...