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Archived questions from: July, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why wasn't the fact that he was married and a baby on the way enough to stop him from cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - I just found out that my husband cheated on me. Him and I are "newlyweds" we married in may 2017 and his affair happened from February to early May 2017. He is in the army and he used to be based only 3 hours away from our hometown. He would visit ...

Are my fears reasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

30 July 2017 (F) - My bf, who I will call DH and I go to watch his nephew play VB (volleyball) on the varsity high school team. The team had sort of a team mother who went to all the games and drove kids to away games. I’ll call her the TM. The TM had come up to DH ...

When are you supposed to be "over it" when your partner cheats?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

30 July 2017 (F) - I have a question that I'm betting A LOT of people do that visit this website. If your in a relationship and you are madly deeply in love with the person your with. Time goes by and you find out that they have been lying to you many times and ...

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

29 July 2017 (F) - I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

How can I cope with seeing a co-worker that I was involved with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - Hi, I recently was involved with a man at work however it hasn't worked out as I planned :-( . We never had sex , just hugs, kisses and loved each other's company. We have had an amazing time together and I really thought he cared about me. He used ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2466 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

Married man who I was having an affair with refuses to leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - Hello, Aunts! I've had an affair with a married man for over a year now. At first, I was swept off my feet by this man, whom I later found out was married. However, I stayed as he narrated the stories of his failing marriage and his impending di...

How is the best way to deal with social media and ex partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - My partner and i separated about 4 weeks ago. We had been together 4 years. The break up was horrible. He called me one day at work told me he cheated on me then dumped me...i was in shock because i had no idea anything was wrong.im still hurting. ...

My married lover has been conflicted lately. What is next?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - Hi. I'm not looking to be judged. I am just looking for some good, sound advice as this situation is not one you can discuss openly. And as happy as it can be, it can also be difficult and very painful. I am not sure how to address this. I hope you ...

I forgave him after his betrayal, but how can I warm this love up again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - I am 27, yet still so naive in love. I will try to make this as short as possible. Both times when being betrayed, I never had a doubt because he was still treating me as good as we used to be. 6 months ago, my bf had feelings for a gir...

Is this woman trying to break up our marriage? She claims my husband cheated with her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 8 years with 3 Kids and pregnant at the moment. I have never caught him cheating. But my Brother exgirlfriend told my Brother that she went out my husband and they had sex. Then my husband gave her money. When ...

Advice please on my crush on a policeman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - I am 17 year old young woman! I have a strong attraction to a local cop, because he responded to a home invasion when i was all alone one summer.. I fell for him because he was such a quick responder, like 5 mins. He was so sweet, very experienced. ...

Husband wants sex and a baby but he's searching online for partners

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Everyday I feel more and more sick. My husband always asks for sex but I don't want it, he wants a child but I don't, not even an adopted child, but he insists, and now he's trying to turn me on but I say no. The real problem is he's searching o...

Do I stay with my husband because I feel sorry for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm 49 and married second time for 5 years. He is 13 years older and adores me. But Iv never really been settled. Iv hankered after an ex for the first years of the marriage. Now Iv met and fallen madly in love with a guy I met . I'm so ...

I almost cheated with this married woman. Do I tell her husband what she does?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

14 July 2017 (M) - Mostly as a result of feeling sexually neglected by my wife, who is unwilling to understand there's a problem, I was recently tempted to cheat on her with another married woman. Now, I need to be clear- there was no sex, but the temptation was t...

I cheated on my fiance and am looking at others because of the lack of sex in our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Looking for advice... I'm marrying my fiancé next year whom I've been with for 9 years. We've had our ups and downs over the years and he's not had much time for me over the past couple of years as he's been studying on top of his full time job. Thi...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

Husband has cheated in the past, is he cheating again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

10 July 2017 (F) - My husband had cheated on me in the past for 3yrs straight before he told me even though I had asked and knew (feeling) it was going on, we worked through it and he promises it will never happen again, etc I've recently found various strands of hair ...

Is it normal for eyes to wander in long term relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

8 July 2017 (M) - I have been with my gf 5 years now and over that time things have never been smooth sailing but lately and this is something I feel guilty about my eyes have begun to wonder i would love to say I would never cheat and I am 99% sure I wouldn't but I ...

Help me understand these people! I'm feeling hurt and confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - Hi I broke up with my husband in October and met someone I'm work after. It was a whirl wind and I was vulnerable. The man was charming told me I was wonderful promised me the world. I fell for it hook line and sinker. I found out he lived w...

Is he cheating with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Is my partner cheating??????????? He says he needs 2 clear his head is he cheating with his ex and only talking 2 his daughter his smashed his phone up so no one can get hold off him but I think his stopping at his ex house cos he knows were not ...

I am involved with a married woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - So first off let’s just get the I’m an idiot, I’m a horrible person, I’m naïve, I need to grow up, and all that out of the way. I am an idiot for this and I didn’t want to let my emotions get involved but I let my guard down and now I’m lost. Ju...