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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I...

I am in love with my boyfriends best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend ...

I don't know what I should do if she cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - i really love my girl friend we hav been together for 3 years in 15 and shes 18 wut should i do if she cheated on me for i dont know 3 weeks should i go back out with her ? she cheayed on me cuz she heard i was cheating her which wasnt true....

Am I over-reacting about this 'friend'? She and I are on a break.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are on a break, but she has told me that just just needs some space and time for a little, and then we can be back together, when she has sorted her personal things out. She has said she won't do anything with anybody else in ...

I think my wife is having an affair. Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Dear Readers: I feel my wife is having an affair on me. Thsi has happened in the past feeling this way. She doesn't seem to come on to me or is not interested in sex. She never really wants to look at me when we do it. I initiate it all the time she ...

I am confused because again there are 2 women in my life and each fulfilles different needs for me. Help me figure my emotions out and make a decision!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - hi, i am a 31 year old male. this is a little complex but bear with me. I was with a girl for 7 years but for the last 4 i was secretly seeing someone else. The problem with my girlfriend was that i was not physically attracted to her but she had ...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...

I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?...

My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...

I think these women are after my husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have a large group of friends. We all meet up for events in our area and have a good time, but lately i have become suspicious of him. My best friend lives down the road and we get on great and most of the time it is just us an...

I want a married woman at work to start an affair with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi. Here's one for you. A guy develops a thing for a woman at work over a period of years and then decides to test the waters by sending her a Valentine card with plenty of 'clues'. She suspects the card is from him and strikes up a conversation ...

My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but I still can't stop think about her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I recently finished with my girlfriend who was cheating on me with another boy. She denied it all and we are still apart because of this. I have met a couple of girls since we have finished but I feel nothing for them and all i can think about is my ...

I'm 8 months pregnant and he is calling other girls on line the pet names he calls me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me im 8months pregnent and i dont know what to do. he left his myspace screen up and i went in took a look in his messages he's calling these other girls baby and sexy and tells them that their fine and it hurts ...

Why do I have vivid dreams of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I love my boyrfriend so much and have been with him for over a year. Recently however I've started having reocurring dreams in which I cheat on him. In all the dreams I've never been the one to initiate it, it's always been some other guy (one w...

I know my girlfriend is lying to me, but is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - ok its so complicated. ive been with my girl for 9 years and we have 2 kids. theres been a lot of crap went down between us in the past. shes been going out a lot latley, and isnt really honest about what goes on. so ive done a stupid thing....

He doesn't quite treat me as this new fella does, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 40 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - so i met this guy...he is amazing.he treats me like a princess...and i am seriously falling for him.but there is a problem:i am currently in a relationship.and have been for three years now.my boyfriend is great.good christian guy,understands ...

I can't break it off with this MM myself should I call his wife instead to break the tie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a married coworker since March of 2008. We've been together just about every day since. He is so unhappy at home but he won't leave his wife. He is 52 and I'm 26. I'm considering calling his wife so that all ties will be broken ...

My husband is being very strnage and 2 faced about our divorce....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - my husband of 25 yrs and i seperated 3months ago, we have three children together, 23, 21 and 8 yrs old, a divorce has been filed, today was supose to be our final hearing, but a continunace was filed for october. hes been living with another woman, ...

I'm so scared I may lose her to this man she had an affair with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Several months ago my wife told me that she had been having an affair with a man she works with. I am devastated and really want our marriage to work. She tells me that she's been miserable for a long time and fell in love with this other man. She ...

He cheated and says he is sorry. But is he really?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, ...

My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally ...

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

I had an affair but want things to work wit my abusive husband so do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hi, So here goes a long story. Ive been married for 9years, about two yrs ago things started to go a bit stale, my husband and i did very little together, it felt like we were living separte lives, anytime i tried to discuss it he would jus...

My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...

Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend ...

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a ...

How do I stop cheating with my friend, when I have a boyfriend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend and a really great friend! I have an affair with this friend how can i stop it? he knows I hav a BF and doesnt want to say anything that will ruin my BF and I..how can i stop the love life with my friend, i dont think i need it if ...

Why do women like "bad boys", and why do so many people cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Just wanted to know people theory's why there are so many in relationships who cheat? Can you really love someone and cheat on them? What is it with women and the whole "bad boy" image? It seems the better you treat a woman the worse they treat...

Off and on for seven years, got back together, planned a wedding, he cancelled it, I stayed with him, he cheated again, I left him, why does anyone do this to another person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I spent 7 years with the one I thought "I loved," was faithful to him, sacrificed more for him than any other human being in my life, showed him love and kindness and honesty. I beleived in him and in his words. I tried to always do the right ...

Did she cheat, lie or is she innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - i have been seeing my girlfriend for a year now and ive always trusted her, i joined the army which put a bit of strain on our relationship, but its fine now. One day whilst i was in training she told me she was busy and couldn't phone, but i later ...

He compares me to his long-term ex. Why has he acted this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend in the aim chatrooms May'07.He stays in Northern Cali and I stay in Southern Cali.We flirted but never intended or thought it would be more.Then it became more than ims but phone calls and then we decided to be more.When we ...

Phone calls to another girl in secret, deleted inbox. Can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend as he acts really suspiciously. He gets lots of texts from some girl he knows who apparantly 'lives in london'. He tells me that they're nothing but friends, but I find this really hard to believe as I have ...

I cheated numerous times since my wife told me the truth about her sexual past, in hope I would feel better. I feel worse and still angry. Help!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - I am seriously troubled with my wifes past and am so frusterated at the idea of living the rest of my life in anger. It is really depressing. She was my first girl friend and my only other sexual experience before her was a very humiliat...

Sexy texts on my girl's phone have me heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - i found some sexy texts from a guy in m girlfriends phone, she also replied to it, they even called each other...and i confronted her and she assured me that it was only txts and calls and nothing else and how text dont mean a thing...now i put on a ...

Why do I miss my cheating ex so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I can't get over my first ever boyfriend. We werent really as close as both of us would have liked to be but I thought of him as sweet . I was never involved with a guy before and it just felt like he opened this whole new way to feel for me you ...

How can I trust him after he texted an old high school "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for two years now, well just recently he got drunk at the bar and text some "old high school friend" "I just want to hold you" I know he loves me and I love him too, I just can't seem to be forgiving him ...

I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday ...

My husband is schizophrenic, I'm depressed. How can I stop cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I need help with this. I have been married for over 8 years and for 7 years, everything was pretty good - no marriage is perfect, but it was good enough that I was not really even thinking about flirting with danger or entertai...

He said he only "liked" me, but would wait for me, and then he cheated. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Ok. There is a guy that I have had a thing with for a while. We decided not to start dating yet and to wait about a month or two. He told me he only liked me and would wait as long as it took, and everything always seemed fine between us. Well I ...

I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I tell him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been going out with for 2 months. With someone that i kissed about a year ago, it was totally out of the blue and i really regret it now. Should i tell him or not ...?!...

I fooled around with a friend of my ex fiancé who is still my boyfriend. Now I don't know whether to tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 41 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I was out with a friend of mine last night. While we were at the bar I bumped into an acquaintance of my ex-fiancee. We started to talk about my relationship with my ex and why I cheated on him. I cheated on him with one of his co-workers, I ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a female friend of mine. How do I regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - About 2 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend. I recieved oral sex from another female friend of mine. It tore me up to do it, but I was under the influence. Not that that is any excuse. The whole time I was with her it hurt me so bad to hurt him, I ...

My guy thinks I cheated on him. He thinks I don't love him and don't trust him. How can I make him understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 42 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I donno what to do about my guy… We had an argument for the last few days and so he thinks I’ve cheated him… I donno how to make him understand As we hardly get time to speak to eachother… He’s in 11th and I m in 10th so I have my cla...

I love him but resent him terribly for emotionally cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - My husband is a middle aged old who has a part time job as an entertainer. He is generally quiet and somewhat shy except when he is performing. Back last fall I caught him talking, emailing and texting to a young girl who lived eight hours away...

Have I ruined my chances with this married woman?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - Hi. 3.5 years ago a woman joined my workplace who I was visually attracted to at the time but we never spoke. I was (and still am) in a long term relationship. She married one year later. In fact the first time I spoke with her was when she retu...

Do I tell him I love him even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i love this guy and he awsome. we txt everyday since the first time we met. my friend asked if he would ever go out wit me and he said mayb but he has a girlfriend. i talk 2 him soo much though. he sent a pic of him 2 me at random. then sometimes ...

I mucked my relationship and friendship up. What do I do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - A few months ago I was caught by my partner sending hot and heavy texts to his bestfriend - who was also my good friend. Nothing happened other than the text messages and my partner and seemed to have gotten over it, but out of no-where tonight he ...

Leaving his girlfriend for me turned out to be more painful than he thought! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I have been in love with my best mate for 6 months an we have frantically flirted all that time and hung out together. He has a girlfriend he sees a couple of times a week, I have a boyfriend who works abroad i hardly ever see him. 2 days ago he t...