A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 2 months and in the first year and a half it was great then some lying from her part started coming and a lot of lies and big ones. Nothing with her exs just stupid lies and i talked to her about it and she said she understands...Then we broke up for about a month because of her lying and got back together and i made her understand that saying the truth about no matter what is better then me finding out the truth behind her back. And she said she understands now and she learned her lesson the hard way and she promised the biggest promise of her life. Now she went out one night and lied again. I found out the next morning and we broke up. Its been about 2 weeks and a half... I have been going out clubbing and partying and with my friend but then i just think about her and how much i care and everything... I cant go back to her because i know she will keep lying to me. But i still have those feelings and careness no matter how much i go out and everything. And i want to get over her but i dont know how does anyone know how to or any ideas ?We dont talk anymore ...so it should be easier but it isnt and im not being able to get her out of my head. And eys everythng about her is deleted and nothing that i can see her or talk to her. So any ideas on how to move on ?
View related questions:
broke up, clubbing, got back together, her ex, move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, shawncaff  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 How long has it been since you broke up? You did all the right things--deleting her, breaking contact--so you WILL get over her. It may take time, but she will fade away. Just have patience.
As for you breaking up with her, it's been said many times, and it has always been true: a relationship is based on trust. If there is no trust, the whole relationships is on shaky ground and will collapse at the slightest challenge.
So you did the right thing. If she continues to lie -- and to lie about not lying anymore -- then you had no choice but to break with her, no matter how difficult it is. You did the right thing and in the long run you will be better off.
A
male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 August 2011):
 Try this: Wipe your brow with a soft towel and say to yourself: "Whew. I just avoided spending time with a lying B**ch who almost-certainly was going to make my life miserable"....
Then, go out and find a nice girlfriend....
Good luck...
...............................
|
