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writes:I need some advice please guys me amd my boyfriend split up 2 wks ago he moved in wth a friend miles away, now today he told me hes moving up the road with a male friend to be closer to work and the kids, im not sure how to take this as we have more of a chance of bumping into eachother more esp on nights out i want to let my hair down, not looking to get involveed with anyone else nor he does i dont think? i didnt like the guy he was living with before but now the new guy is really nice but has a girlfriend that doesnt live with him im just wondering do you think he wants to be closer to me as well hes always pleased to see me and makes conversaition? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): Hi abella yes we have 2 children together, we split up because we were arguing all the time, i would never deny him seeing his cildren whatever happens he is a very good dad, i'm just giving him space right now,x
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reader, Abella  +, writes (23 August 2011):
 Hi, he has children? With you or with another partner? The fact thar he is always civil and smile and looks pleased to see you and makes conversation is a very good sign for you. And you only split up two weeks ago, so Yes, he may even want to reconcile?
Though don't get too excited yes. As he may have decided to be practical. He has work near where he has .
And he has children. A good father never wants to be too far away from his chilren. A good father, denied access to his children can miss them terribly. And all children want to have a relationship with a good Mom and a good Dad. Even if the relationship - between their parents has broken down.
You did not say why you broke up.
Whatever the reason for the break up - you and he need to resolve this before you contemplate any reconciliation.
That said, do you want him back?
If you do want him back then invite him over for a home cooked meal. Try to resolve the issues that broke up the relationship before and then resume your relationship.
If the children are not yours but children he had with another partner then it maybe he really wants to just be closer to them.
Good luck with all this. If he wants to have you back in his life and you want him back in your life then I hope all goes well and that you find even greater happiness together.
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