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writes:Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know.well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were planning on doing. she said the sex with him was the best she ever had. And she said he was endowed and that he was cute and I am ugly. As well that he had a car and money and i had none of that and it hurt me cause she keeps asking why can't I get "bigger" and why can't I get a job or car and everytime she says that it makes me think of him I get very mad and fustrated. She tells me she loves me and only wants me but I still get mad when she says what I don't have. How can I deal with this I love her I never want to lose her I just don't want be hurt by that memory that thought of the guy she slept with
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reader, N91  +, writes (30 August 2011):
 She's walking all over you dude, tell her to hit the road.
A relationship is supposed to be built on love and respect for each other, she's purposefully putting you down and making you feel like crap.
You do not deserve that.
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 Four words: She doesen't deserve you.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): Wow, what kind of a b***h are you dating? Why would you do that to yourself? There are plenty of good girls out there.
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reader, Thelaird1 +, writes (28 August 2011):
 You need to cease ties with her and walk away with your head held high while you still can. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
Only she knows why she said those things, but it's probably not even true. It seems like she just wants to hurt and demoralise you. You deserve much more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): Hey guys thanks for the replies and I honestly know that my girl love me but the thing is how do I talk to her with out getting her upset she likes to joke around especially sexually and loves to pretty much make me feel like crap or get me mad on purpose for kicks I know she's a joker but how can I make her stop acting at least tone it down just a little without getting her mad cause I tried talking to her about this once and she just got mad at me
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reader, Yos  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 That's a long list of terrible things she's saying to you.
Personally I wouldn't stay in a relationship with someone that talked to me like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): Why on Earth would you want to be with a girl who treats you like shitI don't care how hot a woman is, there is no way in hell I would put up with this kind of bullshit.Do you really want to to have a kind of reverse 'battered wife' thing going on?Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): She might love you. But she has made it pretty clear that she does not respect you like a partner should.
Respect is just as vital as love if you want a healthy happy relationship. I don't see this situation getting any better over time, not with her attitude.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 Well one, she's really cruel for bring this up.
Next time she does this, tell her if she wants that, to go find someone else, and you're tired of her making you feel inadequate, and ask how she'd like it you said the same things to her.
Tell her if she thinks he's so great, maybe she should just go be with him.
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