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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, well this may be long so bear with me please.well basically me and my boyfriend split up last year around october time and it was the worst point in my life as he was my everything, and well he broke up with me over txt!, after kissing me whilst on a break giving me happiness back again then ripping it out.so we wernt talking for a long time then he asked me can we talk as i miss talking to you, so we talked and i agreed wed see how a friendship would work as we were very good friends before the relationship started.The friendship was going well, my feeling for him started to slowly decrease and i was able to get on with my life, but things all started to change, he started txting me alot more often and was being extreemly nice with me, i thort nothing off it untill he started being very very flirty with me over msn and txt, we began to get very close and he sent more txts,msn messages and even pictures so i was thinking maybe he's getting feelings back.this went on for a while and last tuesday i went round to his house just to hang out with him, we were in his room laughing and he goes in for the kill by kissing me and alot alot more.we were very intimet and it was nice.and when it was time to go he walked me home and we laughed again and were smiling.when i got home the flirts carried on untill he said " oh btw im going upto scotland this weekend with my dad to go hiking" so ofc i was like "ahhh sweet have fun" so off he went to scotland.on monday he still hadnt come back and he hadnt replied any txts, and at the end of the school day my best friend said to me "he hasnt gone with his dad hes gone to meet some girl" this really confussed me so i had to ask his friend and he said "yeah hes gone to meet some girl and is staying with her, he made me promise not to tell you and your best friend tho" he had no clue of what had happend between me and him only my best friend did. so i was so hurt and angry but wanted to make sure it was true.when he came home he came on msn said hi and you okay and then he said "Listen,Yanow us with the stuff and the sesions.I think we shoudl stop - Because i like my friend alot"...he didnt no i knew about this so if i had no clue that is all i would get...now were not talking atall because i cant stand him near me....but i still cry about him sometimes and i still think about him....can you give me any advise how to get over him? for good!.thank you....sorry again for my essay.
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