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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Please help! How do I get her out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I was seeing a girl a few months ago, and it didn't work out. It's been over four months now since we broke up, and over three months since the last time I spoke to her. We're never going to get back together or anything, in fact it's unlikely I ...

I'm so conflicted about whether or not to break up with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem, i love my boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. But there's a couple of things that really irritate me to the point that i don't know if i should just move on. sometimes he can be really loud when its not the ...

Is it called a break-up because it's broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me because i acted differently when i was around friends and family. i told her that i would change many times before and she doesnt believe me anymore, then she told me that she needs time for her. what should i do?...

Does he miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - my ex and i broke up 2 months ago after being together for 2 years. we were very much in love but he has some issues with college and setting goals and i have anger issues. so we would argue a lot but it didnt really get bad until like 3 months ...

What is with these text messages that mean nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up 40 days ago. I have not contacted her at all. I have received two text messages from her one was for my address which her mom called me and asked if I could please give that to her, to let her in , that she wanted to ...

How long does it take to get over a 5 year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Ive got some advice on this issue before but now its finally hitting me. How long does it take to get over a 5 year relationship? She was my first Love and first everything. I'm so down because she wanted to see what else was out there ...

If us being together will jeopardize his career, should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm not sure what to do, ive been dating the I.T technician from college and we had sex the other night and now hes worried that he may lose his job, we both really like each other but if it's going to jeopardize his career should i ...

The famous "what if we break up" question! What did she mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I just had a nice evening then she asked me something that irritated me. She was wondering how long it would take for us to rebound and date again if we hypothetically broke up. For me, I am quite clear that it might take a whi...

Our families want to marry us to other people against our wishes, please advise.

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9 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are already a year together..im older than him for about 4 years..we have too much conflicts like nationality, religion, and culture..but we didnt let these things be a hindrance of what we feel to each other..we love each other ...

Should I be hopeful in thinking that something might spark up in her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - My first love and I broke up two days ago.. It was probably the best breakup ever, both in bed, we cried, laughed, hugged, said jokes, etc. Very mutual and mellow. We were like two droplets of water completely identical to each other. We lasted 9 ...

How can I get closer to him and spend some time alone together?

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9 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now and we have a son who is 1. We've known each other for about 12 years and have been in and out with each other since high school. He's my first love and still he's the only one I've ever ...

Am I a 'slag' for wanting sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and recently split up with a boy I was going out with for 4 months. I thought he cared about me and he started off really nice but as soon as we made it official he wasn't as attentive - not calling for days etc. whenever i mentioned why ...

Sad and Lost husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Recently, my wife told me that she want to split with me, reasons being that she does not have the spark and feeling with me anymore and she can untie that knot from me. She told me that the relationship have been detoriated since 8 or 9 years ago ...

I'm not sure if confronting the ex is a good thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone My bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confidin...

She broke up by mail but we still love each other, I want to get her back, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of six months just broke up with me and I want her back so bad. She meant everything to me and I loved her with all of my heart. We broke up recently about a week ago. I have not made any effort to contact her since then. I was im'd ...

My married ex and I are in love. Does love conquer all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 4 years. We were very young at the time (early 20's)and both of us had been through a lot. We knew that we loved each other and we had an unbelievable connection. We were the couple that everyone said would be together forever. ...

I got back together with my ex because I felt bad, but I'm faking it now. Should I let her down nicely or simply vanish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I told my X that I wouldn't mind trying it one more time.But now I want out. She was crying hysterically and I felt bad. I don't think she has changed enough, there is no newness to being with her agiain. and since our break up I feel like a new ...