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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I don't think I want to carry on, what can I say to end this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Well... Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend who has latly really got on my nerves... But the things is im really bad at breaking up a realation ship, i like dont have the confidence this probly sounds stupid but i feel really bad and i ...

Lived together and argued. Living separately, we're fine but now she wants to move in together again.. I'm worried.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend lived together for over 2 years. However towards the end it got very strained and we were arguing every few days. Sometimes we got on great, but other times I received verbal abuse and occassionally physical too In the e...

How do I stop hurting so much? was I all wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - my close friend cut ties with me completely. my friend was going through some personal issues. my friend would not make many plans with me. sometimes my friend would cancel plans and not give a reason. or my friend would say no to spending the ...

Do I get on with my life or wait in the wings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I was with a guy for a year and a half and one day he told me we should take a break. After a few weeks this break became a break up. I sadly kept asking him why can't we just back together and he told me it's because he still has feelings for his ...

Need ideas on how to break up, without hurting her too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I want to dump my girlfriend but i dont know how. We have been going out for a year and i have gone off her. I know it sounds really mean but i cant help how i feel. I have fallen out of love and dont fancy her anymore. I dont want to hurt ...

He accused me of cheating, I wasn't, called me after 2 months, and hung up, should I call him to get answers as to why? Need help!

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22 February 2009 (F) - There are some things I need to say to him and get my questions answered. I feel like I need to let things out and also ask him why he accused me of cheating when he had no proof and why he broke up with me.( he didn’t really say it but he ...

I need to talk through this break-up with my boyfriend with someone, can you help me please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I know that everyone goes through a break up and I am now currently going through one as well. We were on and off a lot and it was officially over yesterday. I am falling apart. I have talked to him and he is hanging out with his friends and he is ...

We want to be together but are pulled apart by different goals and plans for the future, what do you suggest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - My girlfreind and i have been together over four and a half years. We both love each other dearly but there are problems in our relationship.We both want different things for the future. I want us to both live together, do some travelling then start ...

Should I stay with my horrible boyfriend, or take my kids and go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. he use to tell me how much he loved me, and how he didn't want anybody else but me. i thought he was my soul mate. he came in during a tough time in my life when me and my son was struggling after his dad ...

How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good ...

My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understan...

Obsessed with porn, how can I slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for two years. We had sex countless times. He then decided to cheat, so we broke up. Four and a half months later, I'm now with another guy and he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex. I totally respect that and all, but since we started ...

I don't know what I did wrong?

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22 February 2009 (F) - Told this bloke i was sorry i messed things up between us just when we fell out found out my gran was ill and that i just wanted to see him. He said i hadnt messed things up at all just he had a lot on his mind at the time and wasnt really ready ...

Why did he change his mind so quickly, when it was him who wanted a relationship 3 weeks ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I honestly can't believe I am writing this, but I am so confused right now and hurting. I have always managed to attract the wrong sort of men- mostly very self assured, arrogant guys who have always ended up hurting me and using me. I met a guy on ...

Does he just want anyone or does he genuinely want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I broke up with my bf but later on in the day i felt so horrible like a part of me was ripped away. So the next day at school he was being kinda mean to me (i can understand that) And as I was walking to class one of his ex gf's tapped me on ...

Was I right to end it with him over lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my bf today over his lying to me. He is being scammed at work by a coworker and loaned this guy nearly $5000! The guy disappeared and never paid him back. When I got wind of this he told me he had only loaned him $500. The...

Where can I go to escape my husband when I'm ill and in debt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have already read some of your posts to try to answer my question myself...but, they kind of all say the same thing. I'm a young stay at home mom, 30, with two small boys. I've been with my husband since I was 23. I worked a little but have ...