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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

We've been together forever, so should I stay because of that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I'm 18 years old and he's 20. Lately I'm starting to realise just how long that is. I mean, 5 years! That was my whole teenage life! Anyway, I keep having doubts like this about our relationship, ...

I'm pregnant but he believes the rumours that it is not his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 8 months, when after not hearing from him for 5 days and having his phone turned off i decided to go round to his flat and find out if he was alright, when i went to his flat i found out that he had moved out and had not ...

Can't deal with this ex- boyrfriend drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the ...

Internet relationship - she cheated on me and the pain is just getting worse... Should I do the same to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - My online girlfriend who lives 2000 miles away had a one night stand at a party with some random dude the second week of us knowing each other. What hurt the most was that she was talking to me that night on msn too, while at the party, and pretty ...

He called me months after the break up and said he missed me but never called since. Why is he behaving this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Why do men try to control a woman..I was dating this guy who broke up with me 3 months ago I never tried to contact him and then a week ago he called and said he misses me and wants to take things slow...so one night he called and that same nigh...

I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she ...

Why do I still love him despite of his abuses? How do I deal with the conflicting feelings? How do I stop being in denial?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I know im probably going to sound crazy or something when I say how I feel about my ex abusive bf, but its how I feel and what bothers me most is how my feelins conflict each other. On one hand, I have so much anger and hurt and cant believe he ...

He cheated on me while drunk and confessed, feeling guilty. Does he love me? How can I forgive him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and have trusted him wholeheartedly. We have always been open and honest with each other with a great friendship and he told me that he could never cheat on me. He recently went on a boys holi...

It's happened again. I'm lost and alone, no hope and no money, how do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hello. I have just moved back in with my ex again (a couple of months ago). As ever to get me back he said he wanted babies and a home together. Instead I have ended up spending my savings while sitting in his bachelor place waiting for him to join ...

We differ on how to bring up children, now I'm sleeping with her daughter. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - This is the picture. I am 56 my partner 53 My 4 year relationship with my partner has suffered a major set back after over 1 year of continued arguments and disputes regarding the attitude between my partner and my 12year old daughter so much so ...

I cheated on him and we broke up. How do I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hi i recently broke up from a 2 year relationship with my bf. he was 12 years older then me, and i was seeing another bloke, but we never slept together and he found out about it. i really want to get back with him but he keeps saying that he thinks ...

She kissed another, while drunk, at the beginning of our relationship. Do I take her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for 2 months now, but i have recently found out that at the very beginning of our relationship, she kissed another guy. She was very drunk and couldn't even remember it, her friend had to tell her. Should i ever ...

Is this his way of keeping me attached or is he just bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I was dating a known player for a short while and he got super serious. He asked me to moved in, insisted I got to know his family (hes 27 and only ever brought 3 girls home), and even said he loved me numerous times (I disagreed with him, tho to ...

Trouble getting over a summer fling - are some people meant to come into your life only to leave you just as fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - i am having a hard time getting over a summer fling. i know we have to go our separate ways, but i miss him so much. I wonder if anyone ever had a fling that they lost touch with, only to reunite later in life. And has it lasted..or some ...

Should I stay with my husband? He always wanted to take control of things in out lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Should I stay with my husband? He always wanted to take control of things in out lives but over the last few years it has got much worse. He also has difficulty showing respect for other people. He uses other people's things (even when they are ...

She said he was "pervy"-What did she mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - I was talking with one of my best girlfriends, Lindsay. She went out with one of my best boyfriends Ray. She claims to of left him because he was "pervy". I dont get it, what did she mean. I've known Ray for over a year....im soo lost, some one help ...

I believe this much older guy will only use my friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hi all. Just a curious question. I have a friend whos 20 dating a 42 year old man with a 15 year old kid.......am i wrong for thinking he's a freak? And now she ses she has feelings for him! Its like dude where do u think this is gonna go? I tell ...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with her because I thought she deserved better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. She is devastated. She gave 110% to the relationship but I could not return it. She feels used and thinks that I am an awful person. She did deserve a better fate for all that she put into ...

Do I need to give us time apart to make him truely realise what it would be like without me?

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10 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, it has been a great relationship, until the last month, as he has not been himself and i have had other stresses. Last week his phone goes off, but he has gone to bed and i read it as we're...

Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in ...

What can I do to stop hurting? He stopped trusting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - We were together for 2 years. Wehad our issues, or maybe he did, I don't know. Maybe I did. Apparently I did. Who knows... Anyway, he was jealous. At the beginning, he told me, but it was just mild, once every blue moon, kinda cute jealousy. S...

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...