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I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?

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Question - (28 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there.

So there were complications about it for about a month, and when I went to get it we did not speak a word to each other, not hello or goodbye, but later on I told him how I felt about him in an e-mail and he never answered, I didn't exactly ask a question in it, I just said that I want him, maybe that is why he never answered, because instead of want i should have said need.

It has been 3 weeks since this happened and I still miss him. I see him sign on to AOL online messenger and I want to talk to him - but I just think he won't talk to me, because I think he wants nothing to do with me, although he never said that.

I would really like to be friends, even though he lives a while away from me. How long should I wait before talking to him?

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A female reader, Emajayne Canada +, writes (29 September 2008):

Emajayne agony aunti had a boyfriend for nearly two years. we broke up and of course you want to be with them again. and then later you realize why exactly you split up and that you are better off without eachother. 3 weeks is nothing. its been a YEAR since my ex and i split and he still nags me about how crap our relationship was. i just want to kick him in the face sometimes.... You should talk to him now. You're lucky he lives far away so if it goes wrong you never have to see him again. my ex goes to my school, my bus, lives a couple houses down. i cant get away from him.

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